Why do guys still chase their ex...

May 14, 2018 6:47pm CST
Why is it, that a guy would have a girlfriend and a new born baby, but still he keeps messaging his ex and popping up at her place. Why do some guys do that? I think it is disrespectful and annoying. What do you all think?
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• Phoenix, Arizona
15 May 18
My ex-husband cheated on me and left, but the moment I was happy and moved on, he started acting like he wanted to fix things. I think sometimes people just want something they can't have.
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• United States
15 May 18
I believe this statement is so true.
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@franxav (13818)
• India
15 May 18
Yeah, quite many of them are sometimes insensitive to the feelings of their wives.
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15 May 18
Yes, that is so very true.
• New Delhi, India
15 May 18
Probably because they still have a feeling of liking for her.
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@porwest (89388)
• United States
15 May 18
Not me. I don't want anything to do with any exes. As for why a guy might do it? Who knows? Lack of brains? Control issues?
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15 May 18
I agree an ex is an ex for a reason, and if the relationship didn't work then it probably will not work ever.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
15 May 18
It's understandable if there are children involved, but if not, I wouldnt tolerate it.
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@Peach10 (1920)
15 May 18
It is weird for him to do that! Maybe he's still in love with his ex
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15 May 18
Yes, I think so to.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
15 May 18
Depends on the circumstances. Was his girlfriend pregnant before or after the other became his ex? He may still love the ex but feel stuck with the new girl because of the baby. Then he could also be one of those people that only wants something when it's out of his reach. When new girl dumps him, he'll be chasing after her.
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15 May 18
When his ex broken up with him a few years later his girlfriend got pregnant
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
15 May 18
I think so too
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
19 May 18
Maybe the guy hasn't really totally moved on with her ex. that's why.
• United States
15 May 18
Apparently, he doesn't know what he wants. He is being disrespectful and especially to you. Time to cut him off, literally. No more contact other than to see his baby girl, but as far as his relationship with you, it has to end. Maybe he'll figure out what he wants when you are no longer an option. If he then decides he wants you in his life, than you can be the deciding factor. If he decides, he wants to be with his ex, than you will be better off without him. Because maybe, just maybe he is trying to make things work with you because of the baby, and that's not a very good start to any relationship. Sending positive vibes your way.