Don’t Give Your Partner the Silent Treatment —
@amadeo (111938)
United States
June 14, 2018 10:24am CST
Today is June 14th.This is flag day/
when in a disagreement with your husband,partner,etc.
Do you argue or give the silent treatment.
Which is worse.
I have done both of this.
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
14 Jun 18
I prefer silence treatment. Though I feel bad but I do sometimes :p
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@LeaPea2417 (37350)
• Toccoa, Georgia
14 Jun 18
I have done that to my husband twice in our marriage. But it only lasted a day or so before we made up.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
14 Jun 18
Hello Alfredo. Silent treatment does more problem than solution.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@migen1037 Good afternoon Louise maybe to some?
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
15 Jun 18
@amadeo Good afternoon too, my Alfredo. Yes, to some like my husband and me.
@snowy22315 (180399)
• United States
14 Jun 18
The silent Tteatment, although sometimes effective..is actually a form of emotional abuse. It is much better to talk things out. My ex mother in law told me that one time her husband had not spoken to her for 3 weeks, because she cut some sort of flowers or grapevines or something he was growing! Now that is excessive!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@snowy22315 three weeks.That is a very long time there
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
14 Jun 18
I do both. But the silent treatment definitely doesn't last long. Maybe 3 hours tops. lol.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@Courtlynn three hours wow.That is a long time there
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jun 18
Yes, I have done this and it does help if you're angry and don't want to talk. But often I will argue first-hahaha! The best of both worlds.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
14 Jun 18
If I were to give my partner the silent treatment I would do it where he couldn't see me. Like on a very long walk or at a friends house. Give him some space and take some space for me also.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@Starmaiden.Good idea there.We do this.Go out for a walk.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
14 Jun 18
Silent treatment isn't good, it's better to talk to each other and solve the problem between couples
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Jun 18
@Jessabuma well it depend.If one cannot talk then what you do is silent
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
14 Jun 18
discussing the issues is better
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
18 Jun 18
I do agree that do not give silence treatment. It will worsen the conflicts
@Ants79 (20)
• Bellville, South Africa
19 Jun 18
Silent treatment is needed sometimes, but its not healthy if it is done regularly or for too long, I think more than 24 hours silent treatment is too long.
@NikMik (3)
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15 Jun 18
No matter how angry you are , don't give the other person the silent treatment. You chose him/her for a reason and he/she deserves to know what's troubling you. Plus, your problems will be resolved faster if you talk about it.