Giving birth or adopting a child. Which is your preferable option

Giving birth but if not God willing, adoption is fine with me.

As long as there's love and devotion, it doesn't matter to me.

In England at this time there are not many babies that need to be adopted because abortion is available. In the 1960s abortion was illegal and my mum's friend adopted a little baby girl called Ann and a little baby boy called Ian. They grew to be happy and successful people. I have a disabled son age 11 and a daughter age 9. Pregnancy can be fine and births vary. In Spain I met a lady that years ago had adopted a baby Chinese baby. He has now grown up.

I was given a gift to gave birth to two kids. I am fine with it

You don't want to work. You don't want to take care of your child. And now you don't even want to give birth to a child. What do you ACTUALLY want to do? Of course we all remember that you still expect to be paid 50% of your husband's earnings just for running the house and "raising the children" though I think we can scratch that second part if nannies are involved.

Saw please get another one but adopting is still Good

Having a baby is my first choice. But if some people are infertile, adopting a child is also a good choice.

I am okay with both...

Should one be chosen or better over the other???Generally speaking, isnt it that naturally its child birth and if only for some special reason or instance is adoption considered as an option for couples. Some would even be okay with out a child. Its not something like which do you prefer apple or orange? If you get what I mean...

Giving birth to child is also god's gift ..who doesn't want that sweet one :)

The experience of childbirth is painful but it is the most beautiful thing a woman can experience. Some women miss out on this opportunity either because they are infertile or they choose not to have children. I opted for a natural birth (and had two girls).

My wife to give birth I think. Though, If there's a special reason then definitely adopting a child is not bad at all.

I would love to have my own children in the future.