What's wrong with me ?
By august
@august18 (3907)
Tunisia
July 23, 2018 3:42pm CST
Yeserday, my friend and I decided to end our long term relationship.
At first I was happy because we were like fire and rain and could not agree on almost everything.
But now I feel so bad , I can't get enough oxygen. I spent the whole day looking at my phone screen waiting for her to call or send a message but she didn't.
I'm supposed to move on with my life, so why do I miss her so much ?
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15 responses
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
23 Jul 18
That is not easy to forget all those sweet memories you had with her! It seems you people were just getting angry on each other for petty things which are of no consequences in your lives! Ay way think again if you still love you and if you feel that you are guilty then take chance to reunion or other wise forget and proceed further! You have a long way to go in life!
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
23 Jul 18
You are in the relationship mourning phase. Life goes and you will move on.
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@rsa101 (38115)
• Philippines
29 Aug 18
I guess when you stopped what you’ve been used to you will definitely be looking at it over and over. Some old habits die hard. I guess you’re on that stage of withdrawal that makes you feel uneasy and awkward at many times. As many said it eill take some time to get used to the choices you make.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
23 Jul 18
It sounds like you shouldn't break this long-term relationship.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
28 Aug 18
Was it a friend or a romance?
Either way that can be tough and I can understand your mixed emotions. Things weren't going well, but she still was a very nice person.
Would there be a way to stay in touch, still be friends?
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
28 Aug 18
@august18 Ah. Maybe a clean break is the best. Normal to be blue, it was a big part of your life
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@Kasjnak (4489)
• Romania
23 Jul 18
That question has an answer, but you're the only one that has it. Sometimes you need to lose something before knowing what you have. Fire can burn everything in it's path, rain can flood everything, sometimes they just need to meet.
I don't know what made you two end your friendship, but you don't have to agree on anything. You just have to understand why you don't agree.
If I were you, I would tell her how I feel, if she doesn't want to get back after that, then move on. Life never waits for nobody.
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@snowy22315 (176745)
• United States
29 Aug 18
Breaking up is hard to do. It takes a while to get someone out of your life and stop missing them. Some of us can never really seem to let things go, others are better at it.
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@arthurchappell (45003)
• Preston, England
29 Aug 18
it has only been one day so don't give up hope yet and if it is over, you will come to terms with it soon - good luck
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