He Is a Stalker !!

By rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

Philippines

October 5, 2018 3:47am CST

My hubby started being at Facebook for maybe some 2 years ago. Then he is also in Messenger already. Since he resigned from his latest job some 5 months ago, Facebook, Messenger and youTube are his companions after he is done cooking lunch and dinner. He would send me at messenger some links he saw, to which I would comment. I would always ask him also when I come home from the office if he has seen my post and he will say “yes.” To that, I would say,” why didn’t I see you like it”.

“What about your friends at FB, you don’t also even liked their posts?!”

He would just grin.

Lately, our daughter posted a picture of her in the mountain where they went hiking. My hubby commented that they should have investigated first if that mountain is safe from rebels. My daughter said, “ you didn’t even liked my posts, but you will comment like that”.

And I jokingly commented, “he is just a stalker at fb.” And we messaged each other about it and we laughed at how my husband, his father is, at Fb.

But we 3 have a group chat at messenger and we make fun joking one another. Are you a stalker at FB - one who just see posts but never hit like or whatever of those emoticons? Or do you hit like just to give the person an acknowledgement that you have seen the post? Or reacts with emoticons? I am in the last two sentences.

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@LadyDuck (471002)

• Switzerland

5 Oct 18

I do not always like the posts left by my cousins or family. I do not check my FB account every day.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

So you just scroll them. Though, I also don't hit like or react when I see a selfie of the poster always.

I hate people who keeps posting their selfies.

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@LadyDuck (471002)

• Switzerland

5 Oct 18

@SIMPLYD I like or react to photos that I really like, or there is a reason to post a reaction. If I see something that has no interest, I prefer to ignore.

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@andriaperry (116936)

• Anniston, Alabama

6 Oct 18

I hit like.

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@tammys85 (30065)

• Baltimore, Maryland

6 Oct 18

I'll "like" a post if it's something I like or agree with, just like on here. :)

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@tammys85 (30065)

• Baltimore, Maryland

7 Oct 18

@SIMPLYD Lol, I guess it's not his thing for some reason.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

7 Oct 18

@tammys85 i can,'t think of any reason but he just want to stalk on posts he he

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

At least you get to leave a like when you like it. My husband doesn't even if he likes a post.

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changjiangzhibin89

@changjiangzhibin89 (16751)

• China

5 Oct 18

You three interact well with one another on those sites.None of the members of my family have the same site as me.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

Yes, that is true actually. At least , we all are at that site always.

Really your family have different sites as you! But you are at facebook?

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

8 Oct 18

@changjiangzhibin89 So you mean, you didn't join any social media?

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changjiangzhibin89

@changjiangzhibin89 (16751)

• China

7 Oct 18

@SIMPLYD I have logged up neither Facebook nor Twitter so far.

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@flapiz (23144)

• United Kingdom

5 Oct 18

I’m a stalker and a liker. My stalking skills always get my boyfriend in trouble because I ask him a lot of questions specially when I see girls reacting hearts on his posts.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

So you are like me too.

Maybe if there is already a facebook in our time, I would also be a stalker to my boyfriend, now my husband.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

@flapiz That is true. But I think it's more of tear people apart specially to jealous sweethearts.

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@flapiz (23144)

• United Kingdom

5 Oct 18

@SIMPLYD It can bring people together and sometimes it can tear them apart.

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@sunrisefan (28524)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

Really necessary to like your post if your hubby sees it? What if he does not like your post LOL!

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

All my posts were never liked by him!

He just stalks, even with our daughter. Although, when it was his birthday and I greeted him at FB, I told him to at least say thanks to those who greeted him. Good thing, he did, or else, I will unfriend him.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

@sunrisefan or else outside the kulambo! Joke!

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@sunrisefan (28524)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

@SIMPLYD Hahaha! Or else . . .

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angelkarah050182

@angelkarah050182 (4980)

• Philippines

13 Nov 18

I usually hit like but I do not leave any comment; however, when I'm in the mood to write, I leave some comments to my close friends and relatives posts.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

14 Nov 18

I always kit like after I have seen the post. It means I have seen it but have nothing to comment. But I also hit the heart or the Wow, when I feel so, for the post but have no comment.

@sofssu (23662)

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14 Dec 18

I hardly go to FB .. its like six yers since i peeped in .. to look at other people's posts.. however I do get on it once in a while to see some posts on the gardening groups

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

14 Dec 18

And in six years it was still active? What about your relatives from other places, don't you like to connect with them through fb?

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@sofssu (23662)

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14 Dec 18

@SIMPLYD It is still active. I just call them or they call me.. nothing personal on FB

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@sol_cee (38219)

• Philippines

8 Oct 18

I read a post on FB about a wife unfriending her husband because he likes other's posts more than hers. haha

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

8 Oct 18

Really! Facebook is sometimes breaking relationships. It should be that when we post, we should see to it that it wouldn't hurt our partners. I post quotes and funny videos as well as pictured related to events only.

@JudyEv (338960)

• Rockingham, Australia

5 Oct 18

I've had an account for a long time but have never bothered with FB. Just lately I have liked a couple of posts. I am going on there to check out any photos my husband puts up.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

Is your husband a stalker too at fb, or he also likes the posts of his friends?

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@JudyEv (338960)

• Rockingham, Australia

5 Oct 18

@SIMPLYD No, he is active on it but I'm the stalker.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

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@Iam_jauntyjen (5016)

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6 Oct 18

I am a commenter.I like to interact.Sometimes, I would comment without ticking the like botton.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

You are interactive then in fb. That's good.

@ilocosboy (45156)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

There was a time im very active in facebook, maybe 2009 to 2012. But now I think I will under category as stalker.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

So, you are also a stalker now.

Well, I don't hit like at all to those who always posts a selfie. I hate people who keeps posting selfies.

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

@ilocosboy Peope are getting so in love with themselves.

@ilocosboy (45156)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

So many of my facebook friends are like that, including my coworker, my daughter and sometimes my wife

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@Courage7 (19633)

• United States

5 Oct 18

No I do not stalk anyone haha That is cute Rebel

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

That's nice of you.

As for my husband no matter how I tell him to at least like my post and even my daughter's he won't. He is thinking he can be see as just having seen the post. That give the impression of just stalking.

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@Courage7 (19633)

• United States

5 Oct 18

haha He is funny

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6 Oct 18

I always like their posts. I want them to be aware that they are being stalked on Facebook. :)

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

I can feel you because I am like that too. I always hit like after I have seen their post just to let them know i have seen their post. And if i really like rhe post i hit the heart. If i find it funny I hit rhe laughing emoticon.

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@mythociate (21432)

• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

5 Oct 18

I don't like that you used the word "stalking" there. Such usage 'normalizes' it, like "it's no big deal"---kinda like people's misuse of "addicted" or "starving" or ... words I'm not even sure if myLot's auto-censors'll let me write here. Real "stalking" involves following people “making a pattern of repeated threatening or harassing behaviors that directly or indirectly communicate a threat, or place the victim in fear.” Posts on Facebook are MEANT to be seen-and-not-reacted-to (and the post-ers know that people WILL respond- or react-to them ... and if they're afraid of a certain reaction; then they can either block the react-ers they fear, limit the post to a certain group of people, or just NOT POST!

) But I do 'what you're talking about'---see posts and just 'not react' sometimes. I think "reactions" are there to show 'what we think about the post,' and--if the post doesn't seem to be 'directed at me' (like if they're just trying to sell something or find a recommendation I don't know about or get donations)--I just skip it.

https://nobullying.com/legal-definition-of-stalking/

https://nobullying.com/legal-definition-of-stalking/

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

I am using the word stalking in just seeing it funny in my husband not in that real sense of the word. I know it's real meaning of course.

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@jstory07 (139415)

• Roseburg, Oregon

5 Oct 18

I always hit like to let them know I saw their post.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

Precisely, that's what we should do to at least let the person know I saw their post. It doesn't mean you like the post but just an acknowledgment.

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@wolfgirl569 (105481)

• Marion, Ohio

5 Oct 18

If I like the post I will press like. But if not I go on past. It dont matter to me whos post it is.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

At least you get to hit like when you really like it. Unlike my husband who doesn't hit like at all.

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Swayamsiddha Dash

@Swayamsiddha (4354)

• New Delhi, India

5 Oct 18

Bewareof these stalkers.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

Actually, i just used the word stalker in a funny way for my husbanf who just keep seeing post but never giving any reaction or just a like even.

@freelancermariagrace (27608)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

Haha, that’s funny. I don’t use my Facebook anymore. I don’t like the drama I have been seeing for the past few months.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

6 Oct 18

I also seldom.post. I only post when there is an event where we have pictures. Or when I like a saying or quote.

@yoalldudes (35037)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

I haven't been to FB for almost a year. I kind of forgot. But you're story is funny.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

5 Oct 18

That's good. It means you can live without fb.

I also just scroll sometimes, when i see the same posts and the same people posting.

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