He Is a Stalker !!
@SIMPLYD (90721)
Philippines
October 5, 2018 3:47am CST
My hubby started being at Facebook for maybe some 2 years ago. Then he is also in Messenger already.
Since he resigned from his latest job some 5 months ago, Facebook, Messenger and youTube are his companions after he is done cooking lunch and dinner.
He would send me at messenger some links he saw, to which I would comment.
I would always ask him also when I come home from the office if he has seen my post and he will say “yes.” To that, I would say,” why didn’t I see you like it”.
“What about your friends at FB, you don’t also even liked their posts?!” He would just grin.
Lately, our daughter posted a picture of her in the mountain where they went hiking. My hubby commented that they should have investigated first if that mountain is safe from rebels.
My daughter said, “ you didn’t even liked my posts, but you will comment like that”.
And I jokingly commented, “he is just a stalker at fb.” And we messaged each other about it and we laughed at how my husband, his father is, at Fb.
But we 3 have a group chat at messenger and we make fun joking one another.
Are you a stalker at FB - one who just see posts but never hit like or whatever of those emoticons?
Or do you hit like just to give the person an acknowledgement that you have seen the post? Or reacts with emoticons?
I am in the last two sentences.
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22 responses
@changjiangzhibin89 (16792)
• China
5 Oct 18
You three interact well with one another on those sites.None of the members of my family have the same site as me.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
8 Oct 18
@changjiangzhibin89 So you mean, you didn't join any social media?
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16792)
• China
7 Oct 18
@SIMPLYD I have logged up neither Facebook nor Twitter so far.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
Really necessary to like your post if your hubby sees it? What if he does not like your post LOL!
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
All my posts were never liked by him! He just stalks, even with our daughter.
Although, when it was his birthday and I greeted him at FB, I told him to at least say thanks to those who greeted him. Good thing, he did, or else, I will unfriend him.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
@sunrisefan or else outside the kulambo! Joke!
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@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
13 Nov 18
I usually hit like but I do not leave any comment; however, when I'm in the mood to write, I leave some comments to my close friends and relatives posts.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
14 Nov 18
I always kit like after I have seen the post. It means I have seen it but have nothing to comment. But I also hit the heart or the Wow, when I feel so, for the post but have no comment.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
8 Oct 18
Really! Facebook is sometimes breaking relationships. It should be that when we post, we should see to it that it wouldn't hurt our partners.
I post quotes and funny videos as well as pictured related to events only.
@Iam_jauntyjen (5037)
•
6 Oct 18
I am a commenter.I like to interact.Sometimes, I would comment without ticking the like botton.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
There was a time im very active in facebook, maybe 2009 to 2012. But now I think I will under category as stalker.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
So, you are also a stalker now.
Well, I don't hit like at all to those who always posts a selfie. I hate people who keeps posting selfies.
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
So many of my facebook friends are like that, including my coworker, my daughter and sometimes my wife
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
5 Oct 18
I don't like that you used the word "stalking" there. Such usage 'normalizes' it, like "it's no big deal"---kinda like people's misuse of "addicted" or "starving" or ... words I'm not even sure if myLot's auto-censors'll let me write here.
Real "stalking" involves following people “making a pattern of repeated threatening or harassing behaviors that directly or indirectly communicate a threat, or place the victim in fear.” Posts on Facebook are MEANT to be seen-and-not-reacted-to (and the post-ers know that people WILL respond- or react-to them ... and if they're afraid of a certain reaction; then they can either block the react-ers they fear, limit the post to a certain group of people, or just NOT POST! )
But I do 'what you're talking about'---see posts and just 'not react' sometimes. I think "reactions" are there to show 'what we think about the post,' and--if the post doesn't seem to be 'directed at me' (like if they're just trying to sell something or find a recommendation I don't know about or get donations)--I just skip it.
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@wolfgirl569 (108277)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Oct 18
If I like the post I will press like. But if not I go on past. It dont matter to me whos post it is.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
6 Oct 18
Actually, i just used the word stalker in a funny way for my husbanf who just keep seeing post but never giving any reaction or just a like even.
@freelancermariagrace (28690)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
Haha, that’s funny. I don’t use my Facebook anymore. I don’t like the drama I have been seeing for the past few months.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
6 Oct 18
I also seldom.post. I only post when there is an event where we have pictures. Or when I like a saying or quote.
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
5 Oct 18
I haven't been to FB for almost a year. I kind of forgot. But you're story is funny.
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