"If YOU miss SOMEONE, what will YOU do?"

@Shavkat (140099)
Philippines
December 25, 2018 10:00am CST
It has been four years that my father passed away. Whenever there is a special occasion in our family, I always missed him. Christmas Eve is special for the family to be together. With this scene, I can't help remembering my old man. The best thing that I could do is to offer prayers and lit candles on his altar. "How about you, guys?" "What do you do when missing people close to your heart, alive or not?" Image Credit: static1.squarespace.com
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@deazil (4730)
• United States
25 Dec 18
I have not learned to deal with grief. I'm old, my parents have passed away, most of those I loved are gone. It's just very painful for me, but I pray for them, that they've found peace. And hope that someday I will join them again. I'm sorry for the loss of your father. Four years is not so long ago.
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@deazil (4730)
• United States
25 Dec 18
@Shavkat Thank you. I read your comment to GreatMartin below. It was quite uplifting to me. You handle the situation well. Your friend also had very good advice.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
25 Dec 18
@deazil We are rare people in this world.Some people don’t care if their loved ones are no longer here. Sometimes greediness lingered into their spine. That’s what happened to my old man’s siblings. After his burial, they turned to the evil side.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
25 Dec 18
Don’t worry, my friend. They are all in good hands now. They are our angels and continue to guide us. The only thing we can do is to offer prayers to them and be remembered.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
26 Dec 18
@Shavkat Yes, I miss my grandfather very much and my dog and cat that are no longer with me.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
26 Dec 18
What do you do if you miss them?
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
26 Dec 18
@Hannihar These things you've done are worth remembering, too. For my late father, we had created an altar with his photo. It is in the living room. We tend to offer prayers and lit the candles at the same time.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
26 Dec 18
@Shavkat For my grandfather I donated something in his honor and for my dog I planted a tree and cannot remember if did something for my cat but I pray they will come back to me.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
5 Jan 19
Hello friend @shavkat Ahh it's late but belated Christmas and Happy New year.. hope you are doing good..
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
6 Jan 19
I did enjoy the past events you had mentioned. I hope you, too. Did you?
@jobelbojel (35987)
• Philippines
26 Dec 18
My mom passed away in 2000. Missing her so much. I am grateful to God that she's my mother.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
26 Dec 18
I am sure she knows how you remember her right now. She is in good hands now.
@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
26 Dec 18
I am sure she knows how you remember her right now. She is in good hands now.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
26 Dec 18
I pray for them every night before bed.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
29 Dec 18
Whenever I woke up and before climbing my bed at night, I always talk to him. Then, I offer prayers for him.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
29 Dec 18
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
29 Dec 18
@Shavkat Excellent!
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
26 Dec 18
last 24th was my father's birthday, so i and my sister went to the cemetery yesterday and lighted candles, candies, and offered prayers for him and my mother.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
29 Dec 18
We do the same thing. What do you miss about him, kabsat?
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
31 Dec 18
@ridingbet I guess your dad is really a loving father. My late father is quite serious and doesn't show his feelings to us. But then, I can feel that he wants good things for his family.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
30 Dec 18
@Shavkat everything, kabsat. i can imagine him bringing my clothes and shoes for the fashion show when i was still in grade 6. also when he cried while praying to the Blessed Mother about my sickness that i want to study and become a nurse
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
25 Dec 18
Only thing we can do is remember them and pray for them. My sympathies with you.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
25 Dec 18
I always do what you had mentioned. It is a cycle of life. In time, we will see them afterlife.
@gunjanpri (603)
• India
29 Dec 18
I too miss my father very much. He was a popular teacher in a Higher Secondary School, an student leader during his college days and a popular poet of his region. I miss him as a friend and guide and try to help people because thats what my father always did. I am starting a small scholarship in his memory this spring.
@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
25 Dec 18
I firmly believe they have become my guardian angels sitting on my shoulders ready to slap me on the head when I am about to do something stupid or kiss me on top of the head when I am doing something right!
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
27 Dec 18
I just remember the moments I spent with them.. missing feel is very bad :( I miss my grandfather
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
28 Dec 18
What is your unforgettable moment with her?
@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
25 Dec 18
I will remember every good day with them RIP Merry Xmas to you
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
25 Dec 18
I agree. We can stills remember the happy thoughts with them. They are always in our heart.
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• New Delhi, India
25 Dec 18
If I miss someone I 'd prefer to chant for that person's peace and happiness.
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@Shavkat (140099)
• Philippines
25 Dec 18
I hope all these people who had passed away are at peace now.