Long distance relationship
@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
Indonesia
13 responses
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jan 19
I do not go for it. It failed me twice.
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
That's terrible. I might be on the verge of that too. Because I'm still confused whether to continue or not,
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jan 19
@Jeanne_KaSaHa my guiding principle. I you love the person, you want to start life together the soonest time possible. How can you develop strong attachment if you are not able to be with him often,
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
@florelway Yeah that's true. But our situation makes it harder to meet. Even chatting and calling is so hard too. Even I don't really know if this is a real relationship at all.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
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23 Jan 19
@Jeanne_KaSaHa I know and I respect that. I just don't believe it.
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
@WiseGhots yeah I know. I don't want it too. And that's why I was confused.
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
But it happened necause of other circumstances that we can't ignore it.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
23 Jan 19
No, I never experienced that too
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
23 Jan 19
@Jeanne_KaSaHa Yes, I hope you will listen to your heart.
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
Very difficult. I seem to doubt whether this is a real relationship or not.
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
@Nevena83 Sometimes I don't know what I should follow. My heart or my logic.
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@yuj___ (120)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Jan 19
I cannot stand the feeling of not being able to touch or hug or kiss the person I'm in a romantic relationship with. I tried, twice, but no, it's not for me. Video calls, tons of messages and you spend money on having data anywhere and everywhere to keep yourselves connected, plus the time differences. You're awake, the other's sleeping. Sacrifices done, all for love.
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@yuj___ (120)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 Jan 19
@Jeanne_KaSaHa Trust is a big word.. It may be different if you've met personally before you had the long distance relationship. What happened to me was, I met them online, so it's different...
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 19
@yuj___ Ah I see. Me and him are college friend. So maybe it was a little different. Thank you for sharing with me.
@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 19
Seems like you really have it bad. So I guess having trust at the other is not enough huh. I always read in the internet about how to go through long distance relationship. They always say about trust and so on.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
Its difficult to be in a long distance relationship, I experienced it before. It really tests each others love and loyalty and too bad for us that time he fails. Someone come between us, it brings so much pain to me. But for some reason, I don't know, despite all the trials, problems that we encounter, we still end up in marriage. Maybe we are just meant for each other and love prevails... but again, its not easy.
@eliza_godinez12 (5726)
• Philippines
23 Jan 19
I have experienced long distance relationship before but it doesn’t work. It’s really sad he’s my first love
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
23 Jan 19
i didn't have any problem with this. now my BF decided to move here. so we don't have long distance relationship anymore.
@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
23 Jan 19
I have not experienced it before. However I think it is better to call it quits, than being attached to somebody who is in the distance and you can't even touch and sense them. It sounds hard, and not right, nonetheless I think it is the healthiest decision ever for both parties. It is better a current pain that will probably heal in a few weeks or months than feeling hurt all the time for not being able to be with that person.
@Sheali (7461)
• India
23 Jan 19
@Jeanne_KaSaHa Ok.. That is up to you.. Every one is different and so are their relations..
It depends on the bond that you share.
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
@Sheali Yeah... After all the advice I gained eventually it will come back to my own decision.
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
But we're really not that serious yet. And I still prioritize my parent than my boyfriend. And I can't really treat him like one of my family yet.
@Krazi87 (8)
• Rochester, New York
27 Jan 19
You have to make it work if you want to. I hear it aint easy.
