Do you talk to strangers whom you meet in the flight, bus or train while travelling?

@LadyDuck (470746)

• Switzerland

2 Feb 19

Sometimes I talk to strangers, I have to study the person first and see if they would like or not to start a conversation.

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@LadyDuck (470746)

• Switzerland

2 Feb 19

@Sheali Now I feel more confident, when I was younger to start a conversation with a man could have been a bad idea, some interpreted this as an "invitation".

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

That's a sensible thing.. I generally don't start the conversation as I can't understand like you.. Of someone talks to me, I am happy to talk..

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

@LadyDuck Oh Yes.. Here also some people take it in that sense.. :(

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Always smiling

@allknowing (135316)

• India

2 Feb 19

If I am travelling long distance I do strike a conversation but with caution.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Same here.. I talk but I don't get carried away..

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anil02

@anil02 (24688)

• India

2 Feb 19

Not only you most of person like to talk with co-passengers, specialy in train. But we must be care full when talking.

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@anil02 (24688)

• India

3 Feb 19

@Sheali we must be care full during journey in eating food of others.

@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

You are very correct..

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Toni

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

2 Feb 19

Depends. When I'm in queue and bored and when I see that the person is someone who would also want to have a conversation, I go for it. I'm not really a talkative person but I do like to hit a conversation with a stranger once in awhile. But like @LadyDuck I do check the person first.

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Toni

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

2 Feb 19

@LadyDuck So true. I usually start with a warm smile anyway. But when I'm being ignored, it's understood that the person is not up for a friendly conversation at all.

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@LadyDuck (470746)

• Switzerland

2 Feb 19

@toniganzon I do exactly the same. Some days I am not in the mood to talk to strangers, so I understand that it's the same for the others.

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@LadyDuck (470746)

• Switzerland

2 Feb 19

You can be misinterpreted, it's better to be careful and to avoid to "annoy" people who want to be left alone.

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Arnold Nangis

@ARN4567 (1061)

• Baguio, Philippines

2 Feb 19

No most of them are busy with their cellphones,playing games, texting or listening to music with their headsets... others sleeping...so...

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Arnold Nangis

@ARN4567 (1061)

• Baguio, Philippines

2 Feb 19

@Sheali I was hoping to talk to someone but then again...so I just enjoy watching the view outside...

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

@ARN4567 Actually while travelling by train, I love to look outside.. I live in a city so it is only while travelling by train that I get to see the villages..

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

So, you also do the same..

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dhia eddine

@didinedhia (8470)

• Algeria

2 Feb 19

yes all the time

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

So you are a talkative person

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dhia eddine

@didinedhia (8470)

• Algeria

2 Feb 19

@Sheali im a erally calm person but i really like talking to people it's really nice

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

@didinedhia Yes, sometimes you get to know some nice people as well..

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Heather Echola

@GardenGerty (160488)

• United States

2 Feb 19

I will make courteous and non personal conversation.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Same here..

Sreekala

@Sreekala (34312)

• India

2 Feb 19

I am not that much open for a talk, but other person started to ask anything then I won't mind to join.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Yaa, even I don't initiate a conversation as I don't know if the other person would like it or not..

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Bojel

@jobelbojel (35356)

• Philippines

2 Feb 19

Not all. I talk to strangers when they start the conversation.

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Bojel

@jobelbojel (35356)

• Philippines

3 Feb 19

@Sheali Yes, we should respond when they talk to us.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Ya,, even I don't initiate a conversation as I don't know if the other person would like it or not.. but if they talk, I also respond..

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

3 Feb 19

@jobelbojel exactly..

M.-L.

@MALUSE (69373)

• Germany

2 Feb 19

I do that occasionally, but I don't discuss personal stuff. Who tells you not to discuss things with strangers? Your parents? You're not a child anymore.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

I am not a child but still my mom is like don't do this and don't do that.. even though I know the rules.. Most of the parents are very concerned..

Talking with strangers is not wrong.. but getting carried away and telling too much about yourself can be dangerous at times..

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

3 Feb 19

@Merliva Yes, I have talked to the person in the next seat as me when I have been on the bus. It helps the ride go faster and it is interesting meeting others.

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

3 Feb 19

@Merliva If they are not nice I stop talking to them.

honesty and loyalty

@Merliva (3535)

• San Marino

3 Feb 19

am a bit confused as i never commented of the topic but don't you ever wonder weather or not the person might be nothing but mean in return

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

3 Feb 19

Yaa.. @Hannihar It helps us to pass our time..

Swayamsiddha Dash

@Swayamsiddha (4354)

• New Delhi, India

2 Feb 19

Yeah sometimes I do despite not being a talkative person

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Yaa.. sometimes when you are bored of listening to music and want to talk to someone..

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@florelway (23282)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

2 Feb 19

Yes, about 2 decades ago I met this man on a plane. He was a nice man seated beside his son who is seating beside me His FIlipina wife was seated on the other side. He gave me his business card that made me remember his name. He is now my friend on FB. I only talk to strangers when I am traveling alone especially when you travel by plane. But if you travel by bus unless it's a 4 hours drive I just do not talk.

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@florelway (23282)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

2 Feb 19

@Sheali because I can stir up a good conversation, but if I don't like the aura of the person seated to me I just keep quiet lol.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

@florelway Same here

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

That's a really nice story. So you can even make friends while travelling.. :)

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Wise Ghost

@WiseGhots (14606)

•

2 Feb 19

Yes. I'm very talkative.

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Wise Ghost

@WiseGhots (14606)

•

3 Feb 19

@Sheali Imagine if we met on the plane?

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

3 Feb 19

@WiseGhots

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

3 Feb 19

Me too..

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maezee

@maezee (41988)

• United States

2 Feb 19

Nice. I am not super outgoing but I don’t mind talking to them if they start the conversation!

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

3 Feb 19

Me too.. If they initiate, I also respond to them

The Horse

@TheHorse (217891)

• Walnut Creek, California

2 Feb 19

I talk to everyone, from bums on the street to former Governor Jerry Brown at a party we were both at. But, like you, I have boundaries. I rarely give out personal information.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

3 Feb 19

Good to know that we have something in common.. :)

Manuela Lopes

@nela13 (58491)

• Portugal

2 Feb 19

I usually like to talk and some people do it very naturally. I only talk to strangers after seeing their behaviour.

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Manuela Lopes

@nela13 (58491)

• Portugal

2 Feb 19

@Sheali so do I

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Me too.. If I feel positive vibes, then only I talk..

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Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

2 Feb 19

I often talk to strangers. They usually are the ones who talk first

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@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

2 Feb 19

@Sheali I am too shy for that.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Even me.. I don't take the initiative

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Aniko Online

@anikoonline (3250)

• Hungary

2 Feb 19

I am not talkative and I think that I am not too friendly with strangers. I try to avoid talking to strangers while travelling.

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Aniko Online

@anikoonline (3250)

• Hungary

3 Feb 19

@Sheali Sometimes when I feel positive vibes, I also like talking, but this rarely happens.

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@Sheali (7461)

• India

2 Feb 19

Hi, Thanks for responding.. I am also not too friendly, but I talk if they start the conversation and if I feel positive vibes..

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Funmilayo mercy

@Funmilayomercy (106)

• Nigeria

2 Feb 19

Yes I do talk to strangers but it depends on how the person actually relate to me during the first conversation, if the person is not the cold type of person then definitely we will both have a wonderful trip together because there will be no chance for boredom at all

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