In-depth discussion or lightweight chat?
By Teddy
@ThreeTeddies (2038)
United Kingdom
15 responses
@rebelann (113175)
• El Paso, Texas
7 Feb 19
I've gotten into a few serious debates a long time ago but I won't do that anymore, too many people get really mean if you don't agree with them.
Now those that are light hearted or even those simply about what a person is doing all day are much easier to respond to and generally don't generate hostile feelings.
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 19
@rebelann Yeah, I get what you mean. Such deep debates must be handled with sensitivity and I don't think myLot is the place for that but those other types you refer to I see as 'chewing gum for the brain'. Maybe I'm on the wrong site.
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@rebelann (113175)
• El Paso, Texas
7 Feb 19
Do you enjoy serious debates @ThreeTeddies ?
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@hillhjill (23761)
• United States
7 Feb 19
I don't like getting into debates on here even tho I have had a couple, but sometimes I see someone getting bullied on here and I will end up saying something.
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@hillhjill (23761)
• United States
7 Feb 19
@ThreeTeddies it's more than that, you just have to find it. And if that's what you want to do then go for it lol.
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 19
@hillhjill My conscience wouldn't allow me to post banal stuff like that. I like to think I give value for money to those who read my discussions
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 19
@hillhjill I'm beginning to realise what myLot is all about. Maybe I should just tell people what I have for breakfast every day
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@mayka123 (16837)
• India
10 Feb 19
@ThreeTeddies I think when we are face to face we think of the consequences of being nasty. But online people dont have to face the other person and think they can say anything.
@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 19
@mayka123 Some people seem to think that because they're not face-to-face with someone they can get as nasty as they like. They're probably not like that in real life
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@allknowing (140139)
• India
8 Feb 19
I prefer to the point discussions that could be read in minutes (lol)
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 19
Yeah, I'm beginning to realise this is the norm on myLot
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@just4him (318962)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Feb 19
@ThreeTeddies If you like serious discussions, why are your posts so short?
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 19
@just4him As do I but I do like to become involved in serious discussions
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 19
@just4him When I first joined I saw what others were posting and simply followed the crowd. I did try a couple of longer posts but the consensus of opinion from the replies to this discussion seems to favour short, easy-to-interact-with posts probably because a quick read and a simple reply allow people to move on to another post thus maximising their earning opportunities. myLot obviously isn't a site for long, thoughtful, serious stuff
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@JudyEv (345288)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Feb 19
@ThreeTeddies That's fine with me.
I like to try to give 'value for money' so I mostly avoid food posts if it's just a list of what I had for breakfast, not that I mind others doing that. I like to think there is a bit of useful stuff in most of what I post. Or it is at least entertaining. But that's just me.
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
7 Feb 19
@JudyEv From some of the replies here I think you are in the majority. myLot doesn't seem to be the place for serious debate. Be prepared to know what I have for breakfast every day from now on!![](/Content/images/emotes/lol.gif)
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
7 Feb 19
If I have so much time, I can read a lot of discussions depending on the topic that catches my eyes.
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 19
@acelawrites It seems that on myLot speed equals income so most people operate that way
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
22 Apr 19
@ThreeTeddies
I guess it is the mood I am in when I go into the post to see what it says. If does not interest me then I go out.
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@nela13 (58773)
• Portugal
8 Feb 19
@ThreeTeddies it is easy to interact and there are no conflicts.
@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 19
@nela13 That seems to be what most people think
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@Shivram59 (38432)
• India
9 Feb 19
@ThreeTeddies I prefer lightweight discussions. They are easy to respond to.I don't think mylot is a site for serious discussions.
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