Do you like yourself?

By sofs
@sofssu (23662)
February 27, 2019 8:05pm CST
Honestly that is a not a question I should be asking. However, yesterday I was reading a post by someone online in which the lady expressed how she hates herself and stuff like that. It made me feel really sad. I am sure all you myloters are not like that. So the questions is what do you like about yourself? Which of your characteristic features do you like about yourself? You can talk about physical or psychological traits here.
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@GardenGerty (159754)
• United States
28 Feb 19
I like myself, most of the time. IF I am taking care of my health and other things I feel good. I do not hate myself ever, but sometimes hate the situation I am in at the time.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@GardenGerty That is a very positive outlook and I love it. We cannot love all the situations that we are in. I agree with that completely.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@andriaperry so true.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 Feb 19
We always have situations!
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• Santiago, Chile
28 Feb 19
In the past I did not use to like myself. First of all because I was chubby when I was younger, and second of all my teeth were crooked. Once the years went by, I started growing up so I looked thinner, and also I started working out so now I feel better and I definitely love myself. As for my teeth my mom paid an orthodontist to fix my teeth so I wore braces for a year and a half, and now they look better. I feel more comfortable with myself now!
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@jvicentevalera I am glad that you have worked on yourself and you are happy with who you are now. Life is good and we ought to enjoy it. We can't do that if we don't love ourselves.
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• Santiago, Chile
28 Feb 19
@sofssu Exactly. However there are certain insecurities that are still there, but I definitely have to work on them by being kind and understanding with myself! Thanks for making such a good post that helps us all open up a little.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@jvicentevalera All of us have levels of insecurity but learning to overcome them is life. And thanks for being so simple and honest about yourself.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Feb 19
I like the fact that me, myself, and I can get along with each other and we are never lonely.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@RasmaSandra That is the most amazing thing and that is how it should be. I love that.. I guess i can say that of myself too.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@RasmaSandra Have a wonderful evening.
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 19
@playertwo I love my lone time too, though I hardly get any these days.
@nela13 (56678)
• Portugal
28 Feb 19
I like myself, I am aware that some things could be improved but I am ok with that.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
LOL @nela13 no one is perfect. If we waited to be perfect to love ourselves we can never do that. I have my own shortcomings but I won't let that come in the way of liking myself. The most important thing is to be aware and you are.. that is awesome.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@nela13 We really cannot please everyone. Its important to be true to ourselves and like ourselves.
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@nela13 (56678)
• Portugal
28 Feb 19
@sofssu true, I am quite happy about myself, I learnt how to like myself and don't care about what others think.
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@didinedhia (8470)
• Algeria
28 Feb 19
hmmmm in this moment !! nothing good
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@didinedhia do you like yourself normally?
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@didinedhia Maybe we do not understand each other .. So do you want to answer the question you put forward, Its okay if you don't want to respond to that.. there is no force involved.
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• Algeria
28 Feb 19
@sofssu i dont agree with this question !!! maybe we should say !! do you like where you are in this moment!!??
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
28 Feb 19
I love & like myself...I wonder who wrote it negative about yourself
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@LowRiderX That is wonderful. That was a blog I came across .. that lady sounded quite depressed.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@LowRiderX Yeah so true. I just wrote a nice comment and left. There was nothing much I could do.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
28 Feb 19
@sofssu It does not sound good at all
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@allknowing (132209)
• India
28 Feb 19
My motto in life is "Love yourself and help save planet earth" There is a lot of philosophy in this statement.
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@allknowing (132209)
• India
28 Feb 19
@sofssu Good you understood my philosophy (lol)
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@allknowing great philosophy. Superwoman.
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@Shavkat (137762)
• Philippines
28 Feb 19
I like being me. I do love being persistent and consistent with what I do.
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@Shavkat (137762)
• Philippines
1 Mar 19
@sofssu Thank you.
@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@Shavkat That is lovely, I both are great qualities.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
28 Feb 19
I love and like myself. I should do that first before I expect others to do that for me.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
28 Feb 19
@sofssu That is true.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@cherigucchi Absolutely, I am glad you do. If you don't you are sure to make others miserable.
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@kobesbuddy (78889)
• East Tawas, Michigan
28 Feb 19
I never liked myself, for many years. Any compliments from others made me suspicious, what they might want from me. Now, I realize that I'm no different than anyone else. Looks wise, I'm average, not considered beautiful or ugly. I've received comments about my eyes, their pretty color. It's different, not blue and not green, they are turquoise. So I guess that's a positive thought.
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 19
@kobesbuddy I think you are unique, God doesn't manufacture us on those production lines..
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@kobesbuddy (78889)
• East Tawas, Michigan
1 Mar 19
@sofssu We look at movie actresses and television celebrities, then compare ourselves to them. They are as flawed as everyone else!
@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
28 Feb 19
Of course, I like myself... If I don't, who else will? But there will be times that I feel sad because there are things that I haven't done or succeed in something...
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@Dextoi Who else will if you don't ..that is right! Life is full of ups and down and it's okay to feel sad but its not okay to stay down in the dumps.
@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
28 Feb 19
@sofssu It's not okay to feel sad all the time... if I do, i'd rather get a checkup
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@Dextoi not all the time .. that would be rolling in the dumps.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
28 Feb 19
I don't hate myself.
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 19
@responsiveme But do you like? love yourself?
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@sofssu (23662)
2 Mar 19
@responsiveme why the hesitation? Gosh girl you have nothing to not like yourself about.
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• India
1 Mar 19
@sofssu ummmm
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• Agra, India
28 Feb 19
I live myself and the way I'm.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@amitkokiladitya Yeah, that is how its gotta be.
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@sofssu (23662)
5 Mar 19
• Agra, India
5 Mar 19
@sofssu yep .. a way for a happy life.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
28 Feb 19
I love being honest, I hate being honest. I love being good to others, I hate being good to others ... As you can see, all the good that I love with myself, at the same time, I hate, because I always have this problem.
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 19
@Nevena83 I guess the problem is you don't know where to draw the line.. I am not sure.. but you need to work that out as both can work in your favor.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
1 Mar 19
@sofssu You're right, that's the problem, but I'm not sure how much they can change.
@jobelbojel (35114)
• Philippines
28 Feb 19
I like myself as generous. I want to be a cheerful giver.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@jobelbojel And the Bible says god Loves a cheerful giver. Good on you.
@LadyDuck (467179)
• Switzerland
28 Feb 19
I usually like myself, may be the lady was depressed.
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@LadyDuck That is wonderful. She did sound like one, I have never read her blog before, but I guess I may not go back again.
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@LadyDuck (467179)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 19
@sofssu Depressing people can be contagious.
@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
28 Feb 19
I'm firmly of the belief that you can't truly love someone else if you don't love yourself!
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@sofssu (23662)
28 Feb 19
@WorDazza I cannot dispute such strong and perfectly worded statements. What you have inside is what comes out. If you have love it shows. To put it in my not so prefect language.
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@Happy2BeMe (99355)
• Canada
28 Feb 19
My name says it all. I am Happy2BeMe
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 19
@Happy2BeMe That is the best way to celebrate yourself.
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• United States
28 Feb 19
I think most people go through that feeling of not liking themselves. I still feel that way sometimes. but I've learned to accept who I am and that I can't change everything I don't like about myself, and to not stress because that only makes it worse. I guess I like that I'm creative, funny (well, I think I am, not everyone else does ), and usually stay pretty positive. I also make a mean grilled cheese sandwich so I hope that counts for something lol. what I like is that we're all works in progress. we're not perfect but that's what's so fun about life! best not to stress
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 19
@isweartokira I agree all of us go through phases of like or dislike. But its all about accepting that we 'll never be perfect and do the best with what we have. I always call myself work in progress.. everyone is. Creative, funny , positive and a good cook is something lots of people want to be. Wonderful.
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• Blue Island, Illinois
28 Feb 19
I love myself, not tryna be negative but Im sure there are some narcissists out there that love themselves too much. LOL!!!!
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@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 19
@Naturalkinks Glad to know that you love yourself. I agree that there are people on the other end of the spectrum too