Do you think fat people deserve to be laughed at?

United States
November 28, 2006 7:33pm CST
Do they put it on themselves. Or can they really not help it.
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@riskey58 (248)
• United States
29 Nov 06
NO I do not think fat people should be laughed at. I know it is not healthy too be over weight, but everyone is different.I think you should accept people for who they are and not what they look like. I think laughing at someone is rude.I know I would not want to be laughed at.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Actually sometimes who a person is reflects on what they look like. I've never met a person that was ugly and was a cool person truthfully. I don't know if its because there bitter or hate people in general. It's ok to have some excess poundage, but not to let it get outa hand.
• United States
29 Nov 06
Actually sometimes who a person is reflects on what they look like. I've never met a person that was ugly and was a cool person truthfully. I don't know if its because there bitter or hate people in general. It's ok to have some excess poundage, but not to let it get outa hand.
• United States
29 Nov 06
Woops...it said it was unable to post the first time.
• United States
29 Nov 06
My mother was 115 pounds till she had her thryoid removed due to cancer. After this happened she gained up to 279 in one year. She was skinny her whole life. So I think the thyroid underactive can play an important part in your health. ALso, during that time my mother ate less, because she did not feel well. Go figure.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
I agree with you. Thyroids do play a big part in someones weight. My sister has thyroids that keeps her skinny, and my hubby has the one that makes it hard for him to lose.
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• India
29 Nov 06
I agree with you but laughter is more beneficial to the old and depress person.
@DeenaD (2684)
• United States
29 Nov 06
They may be responsibile for their condition, but even so, no one deserves to be laughed at. That's just cruel.
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@jricbt (1454)
• Brazil
29 Nov 06
I have to agree with that. No one deserves to be laughed at. It is bullying insĀ“t it? At least a kind of.
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@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
29 Nov 06
no over weight is often accompanyed with low selfesteem they need encoragment not put downs
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Very True, Acting guys that are bigger usually have alot of friends though. They have higher self a steem because they can take the jokes, but because of that his friends like him for it.
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@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
First of all, I don't think anyone deserve to be laughed at, wether they're fat, skinny, ugly, weird looking and so on. Sometimes, bigger ppl don't know where to start to try and lose that extra weight. There are so many diets out there! Some other bigger ppl have thyroid gland problems or other diseases. Laughing at those ppl only makes it worse for them, makes them want to cave in and never come out, it's wrong and mean.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Would it be ok to laugh at thin people? or people with a disease? People who are overweight can't always help it, sometimes it is genetic, sometimes it is a physical problem, sometimes they have jobs which don't allow them enough time to increase their metabolism enough to burn the calories they eat. It isn't nice to laugh at anyone unless they are doing something that they intend for others to laugh at...although there are times when someone may accidentally say or do something that is actually funny. Laughing at someone simply because they are different is cruel.
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
29 Nov 06
no over weight is often accompanyed with low selfesteem they need encoragment not put downs
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@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
I think that often they cannot help it, even if they can, it's not helping matters by having people tease them...if anything it's gonna hurt them even more and cause them to eat more.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
I see so you against constructive criticism?
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
No, they don't deserve to be laughed
• United States
29 Nov 06
hey I'm fat,300+ pounds, you wanna come laugh at me? If so email me at echo_2003@mail.com and I'll tell you where we can meet so I can kick your... I mean, so you can laugh at me.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Dude calm down im not here disrespecting. Just cause its a touchy subject for you you dont have to be enraged. Beside if you knew me you would know I'm a fighter and am striving to be a pro wrestler. I'm pretty sure I can take people that outweigh me no problem. So just back off and stop your trash talking. This is an intelligent conversation for once.
• United States
29 Nov 06
I will be awaiting your apology for getting out of hand.
• United States
29 Nov 06
also I live knowhere near texas so to call me out like that isn't really worth it. Your an old man and I wouldn't take advantage of that in a fight, but what I would do against a bigger guy in a fight would be to use my speed and stay on me feet and work on your knees and put a bigger guy to the ground after that its over. Just some word of advice dont call out people in top shape and young.
• United States
29 Nov 06
I'm overweight (fat), but I'm the first one to poke fun at myself. My favorite shirt is "I'm in shape, round is a shape".
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• United States
29 Nov 06
lol...much respect. Well thats kinda like how I am I'll be the first to make fun of how I look.
• United States
29 Nov 06
you know what i'm gonna give you best response. you should be looked up to!
• United States
29 Nov 06
I dont know how long i'll be on mylot since I got reported a few times, but it was good chattin with you 2...lol.
@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Unless they are trying to be funny at something. Otherwise I don't think they deserve to be laughed at.
@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
Take it from someone who struggles with her weight all the time. I have to put restraints on myself so I don't eat and I have unfortunately gained a lot of the weight back that I had lost due to emotions which is no excuse. But it's still hard. If anyone laughed at me because I am overweight (well not severely, yet anyway) I would punch that person in the face :) But anyway YES, of course we can all help it... but the desire is not always there to help it.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Simply put... no one deserves to be laughed at, whether or not they put themselves in the situation they are in. I have a special needs child. Does she deserve to be called "retarded"? No, she doesn't. Laughing at someone else's expense just because they are in the condition they are in, is NOT moral or ethical. Making fun of others is not something I want my children thinking it's okay to do.
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@rainbow (6761)
29 Nov 06
I know exactly what you mean, I have a special needs child too and at the end of the day no-ones perfect. I can laugh at myself but not at others because it's not nice or clever and I grew up to know better. It's just another form of discrimination and quite unfair. If this was my discussion - not that I do this kind - I would give you best response.
• United States
30 Nov 06
Thanks Rainbow, I really appreciate that :-) Personally, I think starting this sort of topic opens up a can of worms best left alone, but then again, this is the internet. People can post whatever they want.
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
29 Nov 06
No one deserves to be laughed at for how they are, look, heritage, weight.... doesn't matter. Human life should be respected. Laughing at them is not a motivaton to improve themselves. for many it will do the exact opposite. How would you feel if you were the one being laughed at?
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@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
Nope, I dont think so.
@tsamcq (457)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Do they deserved to be laughed at for the way they look? Do people missing an arm deserved to be laughed at? Do Asians deserved to be lauughed at? Do people wearing glasses deserve to be laughed at? No one deserves to be laughed at based on their appearance.
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@amy0214 (1513)
• United States
29 Nov 06
No, they don't. It is meant to laugh at other people and you shouldn't do it. You wouldn't like it if someone laughed at you
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Truthfully I enjoy it when people laugh at me. I mean making people laugh rules. Whether its falling on my face or getting hit in the groin. Aslong as you look good doing it. It's awesome.....
@amy0214 (1513)
• United States
29 Nov 06
No, they don't. It is meant to laugh at other people and you shouldn't do it. You wouldn't like it if someone laughed at you.
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@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
29 Nov 06
No, overweight people do not deserve to be laughed at. No one deserves to be laughed at for something so superficial as physical appearance. There are dozens of reasons for weight issues, from genetics to diseases to simple body chemistry. For some folks, it's impossible to lose weight. And some people are actually happy to be big. As long as they're healthy, more power to them. And yes, you can be large and healthy.