Mother always has a role.

@marguicha (222856)
Chile
April 16, 2019 10:48pm CST
Today I was asked to babysit my grandchildren at Claudia´s. I obliged. But when Claudia came home from work she was tired and worried so that she also needed her mom to listen to her, give her advice and cuddle her. No matter old old we are, we are in need of our mom. And no matter how old our children are, we are not retired from the mommy job. Claudia asked me to go with her to the doctor on Monday. She is afraid. And shed rather have me go with her than to have her husband-psychiatrist go with her. After all, he accepted some months ago the verdict of another doctor that all that Claudia had in her shoulder was stress. Today I touched her shoulder, listened to the way the bones sounded and said that this was not stress. On Monday she will finally go to the best hospital we have for trauma patients. Mother knows best.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
17 Apr 19
A mother's job never ends.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I feel that.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
26 Apr 19
True
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Apr 19
I hope they find out the problem with her shoulder and she gets relief from the pain soon. Yes, a mother's job is never done.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
After I checked, I think she is in for surgery. The bones rattle inside her shoulder.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
@just4him I´ll post about why the doctor said on Monday.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Apr 19
@marguicha I'm glad she's getting it fixed.
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@GardenGerty (160626)
• United States
17 Apr 19
It is so wonderful that you have this great relationship and that she still has you to go with her.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I´m glad she asked me to go with her. I touched and saw her shoulder and although I´m no doctor I have common sense. There´s something wrong beyond stress there. I think that Claudia is in for surgery at some point.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Apr 19
Very true, we will always be a mother no matter how old they get. What a blessing!
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I am very close to my children.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
20 Apr 19
@marguicha Me to and my grandsons who are now 18 and 22.
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
22 Apr 19
That is so true @LovingMyBabies.
@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
17 Apr 19
I always believe that being a mother is a difficult job.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
But it is a lovely one.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Apr 19
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@LeaPea2417 (37350)
• Toccoa, Georgia
19 Apr 19
@Shavkat It is the hardest job on Earth.
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
17 Apr 19
You are so right to say that no matter how old we get, we need our mother. Though I am a mother and keep caring for my children and solving their issues, I always turn to my mom for all my problems. I feel Mom knows best. Hope Claudia feels well soon.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I will go with her to the doctor next Monday.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
18 Apr 19
@arunima25 Thank you
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
18 Apr 19
@marguicha Hope things go well.
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@jobelbojel (35511)
• Philippines
17 Apr 19
Mothers have the not so easy job in the world. I hope that Claudia gets well soon.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I hope so too.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
17 Apr 19
It's very true that we never retire from being a mom. And vice versa should apply too - children should not forget their moms no matter how old they are.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
18 Apr 19
I think they won´t forget them although I don´t expect them to take me to their home when I´m older.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
18 Apr 19
@jaboUK I have told them to take me to a senior house if I cannot manage on my own. But not at their house.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
18 Apr 19
@marguicha No, hopefully we can remain independent until we die.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Apr 19
And they will always be our babies no matter the age
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
Yes, they will.
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@rakski (122354)
• Philippines
17 Apr 19
I grew up with my mother not being on my side. I grew up with my grandma together with my older sisters. But having a mother is really important. As for me, I usually ask advice from my sisters
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
Your grandmother took the rol of your mother. Where was she?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
17 Apr 19
Most moms are always there for their children, no matter how large or how small the problem.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
18 Apr 19
So true.
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@JudyEv (339591)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Apr 19
I'm sorry about Claudia's shoulder. It's lovely that you are so close. Thanks @hereandthere for suggesting this.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I´m also happy that I live nearby. I can help them in many ways.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
17 Apr 19
Mothers could really comfort their children, no matter the age; just like your daughter who needs your support in her medical condition. I hope she'll be fine.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I hope so. Thanks.
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@thelme55 (76944)
• Germany
17 Apr 19
Mothers know best for their children. How I wish my mother is still alive.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
We miss our loved ones forever.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
28 Apr 19
Me to @thelma55.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
5 May 19
We do but I feel like she is close by as I can feel her with me. I talk to my parents a lot even though they are both long gone. @marguicha
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
17 Apr 19
I am sure she will alright soon with your support. A mother is the God in the Earth.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 Apr 19
@marguicha Definitely, she need love and support other than the doctor's help.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
18 Apr 19
@Sreekala And the needs someone that thinks. I don´t know why she hasn´t gone to an specialist yet.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I´m hoping a good doctor can help her.
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@allknowing (136100)
• India
17 Apr 19
Sadly these days many children leave the shores seeking greener pastures which means both parents and kids are not available for each other at time of need
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I´m glad that my both girls are here, where I live.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
17 Apr 19
Mother's always know best.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
Yes. And I want the best doctor.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
18 Apr 19
@ramapo17 After a conversation, she understood what must be done.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
18 Apr 19
@marguicha Absolutely.
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@nela13 (58665)
• Portugal
18 Apr 19
I fully agree, mothers are always important.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
18 Apr 19
My daughters are middle aged, but they still come to me
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
20 Apr 19
@nela13 It is a hard but rewarding job.
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@nela13 (58665)
• Portugal
19 Apr 19
@marguicha I also go to my mother as well
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@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
17 Apr 19
Oh yes as a mom I always wanted the best for my children and it is a lifetime responsibility.
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
It is.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
17 Apr 19
I immediately miss my mom after reading this. To all the mothers out there, I love you all...
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@marguicha (222856)
• Chile
17 Apr 19
I´m a mother and a grandmother. And the great grandmother of a cat
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