How do you feel as introvert?

@edywei (40)
Indonesia
August 28, 2020 3:41am CST
I just wanna know how do you feel as introvert when you should join or come to party? Sometimes I feel so exhausted after this party. Is it normal for me, I am feeling so tired and weak after it too. Is it anyone who feel the same? How do you solve this problem? I just need your advice all. Thanks
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
i was so, but studying in college changed me alot
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
@edywei i joined student organization and it helped me alot
@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
@nawala123 I join too, but I just like when we talk about serious discussion. I am not so interested with joking or anything like that. So I just keep silent
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
I don't know why I don't change a lot whereas I have tried many times to break my own introvert. Congratulations for you nawala
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@Kanika1234 (1546)
• India
28 Aug 20
I feel very sad after these get togethers and parties That feelings are really bad But now I don't care about all these
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• India
29 Aug 20
@edywei I only said not in a good mood so could not go but still sometimes I have to go to that parties
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
So, where do you escape yourself if you have an invitation? What is your reason or you just said that you don't like join on party? Sometimes, I feel uncomfortable to said that I don't like join to party but I don't have good reason.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
@Kanika1234 thanks for your idea, I will try it later
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@rhuenz (10643)
28 Aug 20
I don't like parties,i stayed at home more and i don't gatherings.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
I like it too, but sometimes we got an invitation right? So what is your reason if you don't wanna go? I need your tricks too
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• India
28 Aug 20
Relax. Nobody knows.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
Someone will know if we don't enjoy it right? I don't know how to hide it when exhausted feeling is come.
• India
28 Aug 20
@edywei Do not have to tell anyone.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
@piyushbhatia1 It is so difficult for me to hide something that I don't like. Anyway thanks for comment here nice to meet you.
@Overflowing (3709)
28 Aug 20
welcome to myLot.. im not use to party, but when i was with my husband already whom traditionally have big celebrations always, iwe just locked up in the room sometimes or we help do wash the dishes
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
I almost same with me, when there is a celebration on my family I will go to my room too. I just out of my room after celebration is over. But sometimes I feel like? Is it okay that I do like that? I feel kinda confused about myself
@shatty (9)
28 Aug 20
its stressful to be in party and the stress actually makes me exhausted as well.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
Almost same with me.. feeling so exhausted after that
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
28 Aug 20
I don`t feel going out on a party. I love staying at home better with less stress
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• Germany
28 Aug 20
@edywei Most of my friends knows me and they don`t bother to ask because my answer will always be no
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
@m_audrey6788 how lucky you are, you have friend who understands you. Sometimes, I should explain a bit longer to say that I can't join. How poor I am. Hope I can have good circle who understands me too later.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
Same with me, I just enjoy myself at home. But I still just curious what do you say with your friend when you don't wanna go?
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
28 Aug 20
We can break free from being an introvert. I think you need to take a rest at a party.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
You are right dude, sometimes we just need take a rest
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
28 Aug 20
@edywei I do not like parties or things so bow out and stay home. It is hard right now and even before to be around people that do not know me or do not have anything in common with. Do what is best for you. If you do not want to go to the party then do not go.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
29 Aug 20
@edywei Your discussion made perfect sense too.
@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
2 Sep 20
@Hannihar I just wanna make this case blow up here. So many extroverts will know there is someone like me who don't like party. Anyway. Thanks for dicsussion
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
You are right Hanni, just let them know that we don't wanna go. Sometimes just ask me my reason why? Because of that I make discussion here.
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• New Delhi, India
30 Aug 20
I am also an introvert. I know how it feels when you go to big places like dinner parties , clubs etc. Just try to find some space for yourself after attending parties or any other event and you will feel better than before.
@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
2 Sep 20
You are right, usually I just stay at my room and laying on my bed. Enjoy my me time alone. I need 2 days usually when I should recharge my energy again. It's not affective to me, because I should work and it makes me lazy when I wanna enjoy my me time. Do you have any tricks to solve this one?
• Philippines
28 Aug 20
I am introverted and I loathe attending parties. LOL. It makes me feel extremely tired afterward
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• Philippines
29 Aug 20
@edywei I just don't feel like going. I'd rather stay at home and work or watch Netflix all day.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
You feel it right, yeah it look like they are take our energy. What is your reason when you don't wanna go, sometimes your friend ask it right?
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
@freelancermariagrace same here, sometimes netflix and youtube will be our best friend.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
31 Aug 20
I have already overcome all those things you mentioned. I'm now a senior citizen.
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
2 Sep 20
@edywei I may. I may even feature it here for others to know.
@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
2 Sep 20
@Nakitakona sure you can, I am so happy if you wanna write and share it here. So all introvert like me will get some helps. Thanks
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
2 Sep 20
I need ypur advice, how do you overcome this situation. I have tried many things but it just not work and make me feel tired. Hope you can share it here. Thanks
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28 Aug 20
I normally mingle in a flock of people I personally know. But if i was in such situation i do tend to have like a focal point or a target set of people whom i can talk throughout the night... It really depends on the chemistry you have with people though and if you have the same interests. Thanks for posting.
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29 Aug 20
@edywei I don't think it's rejecting when it boils down affecting one's mental health. I have some similar situations where my friends are pushing me to go to this event or a function but I don't want to go because I don't have the financial expense to go, In that case I explained to them very calmly on my situation and whether they take it or leave my reasons that is up to them. Thanks for your response.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
@StyleWithSense I will explain like you do too dude. Hope I can explain in good ways. Thanks for giving your suggestion. Cheers
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
I always like to join with my bestfriend who know me well who I am. I can spend my times with them. But sometimes we have some invitation from our others friend right? How do you reject their invitation if you don't wanna join. What is your reason?
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@mariaph (112)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
i'm introvert too.i would rather be at home for days than going outside
@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
High five.. hehe.. I like stay at home too. But sometimes my friend's invitation make me confuse how to reject it.
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@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
@mariaph do you mean just with close friend right? I always do it too, but I don't know how to reject others invitation when they invite me to join party. Are you introvert too?
@mariaph (112)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 20
@edywei It's okay to go out, especially with friends alone
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@Janet357 (75646)
28 Aug 20
I love being introvert wnd extrovert.
@edywei (40)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 20
It means you are ambivert right?
• Philippines
2 Sep 20
You can go and explore but dont overdo things. Just be yourself. When youre home, sit down take a deep breath, if u could still manage to roam around the house then why not but dont forget to go to the kitchen and make a cup of coffee or tea. It would help you to regain your energy. Here is another thing, take nap after the party. Hope it makes sense...