Friends and Self

United States
September 12, 2020 5:24am CST
Let's talk about friends. How well do you know your friends? Would you trust your friends with your life? Do you know how your friends perceive you? Do you know if you are a good or a bad friend? What do you find yourself doing mostly with your friends? Is it gossiping? Investing? Team building? Uplifting each other? Hating on others? Tell me how well do you know yourself and your friends?
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@rhuenz (10643)
12 Sep 20
Every friends i have,i have a limit on what to share. I have a number of friends,they have different qualities. So i control ,i mean not all are the same,so is the same way,have limitations on everything.
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• United States
12 Sep 20
When you say you control, does this mean you show a different version of you to specific friends?
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@rhuenz (10643)
12 Sep 20
@GeniusSoul i mean like some friends only remember you when they need you,some is there rain or shine.So sharing things is limited but my personality can't change.
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• United States
12 Sep 20
@rhuenz I understand. But why keep up with friends who only call when they need you? Isn't this draining both emotionally and mentally?
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@happylife1 (13404)
• Karachi, Pakistan
12 Sep 20
Remaining within limits is the best way
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• United States
12 Sep 20
Please elaborate what you mean by "remaining within limits"
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
12 Sep 20
I have limited friends and the bonding we enjoy is very good. We discuss everything from investment to politics to personal problems joys and sorrows.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
12 Sep 20
@GeniusSoul You are right.
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• United States
12 Sep 20
This is amazing. My kind. Small circle less drama more love
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@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
12 Sep 20
I do not tell them about lots of secrets.
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@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
14 Sep 20
@GeniusSoul I had some friends who I thought they are. That's the reason why I am quite secretive to them.
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• United States
14 Sep 20
@Shavkat Sorry about that
• United States
12 Sep 20
I understand being secretive. But why are they still your Friends?How do you help each other?
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
12 Sep 20
Some friend are there through thick and thin and you bet I am here for them too but some of them are just there during times of fun...
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• United States
12 Sep 20
I understand this
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• India
12 Sep 20
Friends are like gifts and I cherish them because they are our true companions in joy and sorrow
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• United States
12 Sep 20
They are I agree but only if you get the right kind of friends
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@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
12 Sep 20
I have no idea what my friends think of me.. hopefully in a good way or else why are we still friends? When i am with my friends we usually play board games, have food trips and talk about our current lives and work.
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• United States
12 Sep 20
You have good and fun friends which is amazing
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@RebeccasFarm (90523)
• Arvada, Colorado
12 Sep 20
In reality, I have no friends, trust is golden.
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• United States
12 Sep 20
True. For me I don't trust anyone until they give me a reason to trust them
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@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
13 Sep 20
I don't have many friends but I trust the few I have.