I always feel alone and want a relationship

@jimmy423 (245)
Davison, Michigan
December 29, 2020 10:31pm CST
I know this might be a silly discussion but I figured this is the best place to have it. I am 29 years old and have been single for about 9 years believe it or not, I would love a relationship but girls always are picky it seems like, sometimes I feel something is wrong with me, maybe I am ugly or something? or maybe its cause I have a 9 year old daughter. I noticed guys that have nothing going for them get the most beautiful girls and Im over here like are you serious. It just seems like girls dont find me attractive, thats what it feels like anyways. Im just tired of being alone and not having that love, that missing piece. Someone to cuddle with or watch late night shows or movies with, just to enjoy life with and laugh and joke.
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• New Delhi, India
30 Dec 20
Enjoy life bro. Single life is the best. This is what I feel
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@jimmy423 (245)
• Davison, Michigan
30 Dec 20
You dont feel lonely or anything? Your happy being single?
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• New Delhi, India
30 Dec 20
@jimmy423 no I don't feel lonely at all. I am happy being single. By the way I am an introvert. I don't like to mingle so much with people . Its so fine fir me to sit at one place watch YouTube videos with the earphones put on and sip a cup of tea.
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@jimmy423 (245)
• Davison, Michigan
30 Dec 20
@Swayamsiddha I use to feel happy with playing video games and watching movies and just being content with being single, but its just really getting to me. I wish I could be like that and feel like that. Im happy you are able to be content with that though. Thats awesome.
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• New Delhi, India
30 Dec 20
Well, not gonna lie but there are times when even I feel this way and to that extent that I would even disturb my ex girlfriend ! But let this feeling fade away and whenever you get the feel do something you would love to do ! I listen to music to forget the lonely feeling. Hope this might help !
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@jimmy423 (245)
• Davison, Michigan
30 Dec 20
Yeah I defiantly need to think of things to keep me busy and get my mind off of the loneliness. Hope it passes and I can be happy.
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@jimmy423 (245)
• Davison, Michigan
30 Dec 20
@ShankyAmbasta Thanks man
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• New Delhi, India
30 Dec 20
@jimmy423 Yes it will surely go away ! It's just a phase for everyone's life. Have fun !
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@jstory07 (139508)
• Roseburg, Oregon
31 Dec 20
Go to parks and walk around or other place where young girls hang out. When the time is right you will find someone. In the mean time enjoy your daughter and do things with her.
@Deepizzaguy (102524)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
30 Dec 20
I am single and enjoying my life living with my family.
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@Deepizzaguy (102524)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
31 Dec 20
@jimmy423 (245)
• Davison, Michigan
30 Dec 20
Im happy to know your able to find happiness within youself with your family.
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@Janet357 (75646)
30 Dec 20
I believe there is someone for you. I found my first and last at age 33. Got married at 34. I have been single for 32 years!
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@jimmy423 (245)
• Davison, Michigan
30 Dec 20
How do you do it? Thats a long time
@MmaiLuv (958)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 21
I'm 16 and still single and happy cause i just want thinking about future and my momm
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
30 Dec 20
We all go through phases like this, so it is not silly. It's normal to feel sad or alone when we are actively seeking someone to be in a relationship with. They say that the more you search for it the more it becomes elusive. It will find you when it is the right time and place. You wouldn't want to rush it as it can be disastrous. I know it's easier said than done, but when you finally find the one for you you'll be glad that you did not settle.
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
30 Dec 20
I am still single but I am not looking for a lifetime partner for now. It will come at the right timing.
@RebeccasFarm (89832)
• Arvada, Colorado
30 Dec 20
I used to feel like that when I was much younger, but now I am happy to be my own boss. I wish you luck in finding the right one.
@Hytton03 (5451)
• Philippines
30 Dec 20
Oh i hope you find the right one.