What do girls look for more in a guy?
By Jimmy Cannon
@jimmy423 (245)
Davison, Michigan
December 30, 2020 3:33am CST
I guess I have always wondered this, just what do girls look for in a guy?
What I mean by that is, do they just look for looks or is it much more than that.
I have not had much luck with dates or girls so maybe its the fact I dont get out there much or even put myself out there. I guess the type of person I am I have always hoped a girl would find me, I dont do well with searching for the right girl.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
31 Dec 20
From the opposite gender's point of view - I had a clear idea in what I wanted from a man but fell in love with someone who had none of the attributes I was looking for. You will know when you meet the right girl that it's personality that counts.
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@eshtreef (180)
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30 Dec 20
From my experience, confidence, good sense of humor and being yourself are the most important things, not just when dating women, but in general with whoever you are talking and whatever you are doing just be yourself, no need to copy or act as a certain persona to get people's attention and make them like you. Just act natural, and if somebody loves you they will love you for who you truly are.
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@jimmy423 (245)
• Davison, Michigan
31 Dec 20
Thank you! Thats really good advice. I hope there is someone out there for me.
@ShankyAmbasta (126)
• New Delhi, India
30 Dec 20
These days its mostly about how the guy looks and financial conditions of the man.
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@GooglePlus (3831)
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30 Dec 20
What I think, everyone looks for Stability financially and Emotionally in direct or indirect way. It's may vary person to person,
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
31 Dec 20
Ah. I'm the same in that I always hoped that someone would find me. I'm not good at putting myself out there.
Anyway, I can help you with what I'm personally looking for.... maybe it applies to more women than just me.
First and foremost - personality is important. It is just a pity we can't see personality up front.
Someone kind, caring, good listener, variety of interests of his own. Some mutual interests would be good, but doesn't need to match everything I'm into. I really want him to be into his own things, too. Someone into better himself and the world around him. Intelligent. Sense of humor. Makes me smile.
Lookswise? Some women pride themselves on having a "type". (Actually it seems like a lot of men do this, too). I've never understood it but each to their own. Lots of things are attractive in my book and I don't seem to have a certain hair color, eye color, body type preference. I don't seem to gravitate to those "plastic muscle" "built guy" types, though I can certainly appreciate the effort that must take. If anything - I seem to gravitate to thin/slim/average type men. The only reason I don't so often gravitate to the heavier/more muscled is because that was my dad's body type (he was a weight lifter) and... I mean.... who wants to think about your dad when you look at your partner? Anyway, that said, I wouldn't rule out a heavier/muscle man, either, because like I say personality.
Attractive things for anyone - a nice genuine smile, a kind word, politeness, style... now by style... in my opinion you don't have to be dressed up unless that is what makes you feel good. I mean clean clothes that fit well. Jeans and a button down shirt. Smelling nice. (or at least not having a problem with body odor, more of a common issue than you might think) hair combed.
Best wishes on your search
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
31 Dec 20
@jimmy423 You and me alike. Online is full of scammers. Real world it's just hard unless you are super confident and don't mind approaching people. Good luck :-)
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
30 Dec 20
There are many times of women. I looked for someone handsome and I have connection with/ fall in love with.
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