Does it have to hurt me so much?

@DaddyEvil (138417)

• United States

8 Mar 21

@Lucky15 I think she misunderstood something but... you'll just have to wait to find out what that was. *sigh*

I like my friends on myLot a lot. I always wish them well and hope the best for them. You are one of my favorite people here.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

I was caught by suprise, never thought that she’d think of me that way, sigh. It is just pretty painful. We were just chatting then iut if the blue, like what???? It took me two hourse to think what she said, cried then send her text that says... that hurts, thank you for that. You will always welcome me, DE. You are warm-hearted.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

@DaddyEvil i felt that she sees me as one if those backstabbers. I don’t have any time for that. I am too busy. I’d rather me in mylot and earn that gossip

You too, i only have few fave here, lol

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (317878)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

8 Mar 21

I'm sorry your friendship is over. I'm sure it hurts.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (317878)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

8 Mar 21

@Lucky15 I'm glad you have some good memories.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

it really does, val. I don't have regrets that i became a friend of hers. it was nice knowing her :)

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Anna

@LadyDuck (472305)

• Switzerland

8 Mar 21

I am sorry, I wonder why she suspected that you did something wrong... may be a common friend who is jealous of your friendship.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (472305)

• Switzerland

9 Mar 21

@Lucky15 This is really sad, I feel betrayed when someone who visited my house often has this kind of behavior.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

Maybe anna. I don't go out that much, don't talk to anyone else that much, and she's been a frequent visitor on our house, so... i didn't know how and why. sigh

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

9 Mar 21

@LadyDuck she was treated like a family

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Thelma

@thelme55 (77162)

• Germany

8 Mar 21

I am sorry about that. You have to talk to her. Maybe it is just misunderstanding.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

Hoping that it was the case. :(

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Thelma

@thelme55 (77162)

• Germany

9 Mar 21

@Lucky15 I hope that was the case.

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Manuela Lopes

@nela13 (58745)

• Portugal

8 Mar 21

I am so sorry, maybe you should talk with her and clarify the situation.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

I sent her a text message that she hurt me, and no reply yet :(

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Manuela Lopes

@nela13 (58745)

• Portugal

10 Mar 21

@Lucky15 maybe she needs time to see things more clearly.

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Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (87931)

• Bangalore, India

8 Mar 21

Sorry about that. You must be feeling hurt. But misunderstandings do happen. And if you value the relationship, you have to give it a try to clear it.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

Send her a text. Told her what she said hurts me, but it took me hours to have that courage

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Arunima Singh

@arunima25 (87931)

• Bangalore, India

8 Mar 21

@Lucky15 I can relate to that. I too take a little longer to get composed and calm after feeling hurt and angry. I am getting better with age. Hope she realises her mistake soon.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

@arunima25 am hoping that she will come to her senses :(

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Heather Echola

@GardenGerty (161315)

• United States

8 Mar 21

People are strange and not always nice. I am sorry you are in this situation.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

It is indeed strange, that i am confident that she is ok, our friendship is ok. Sigh

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Kareng

@kareng (63158)

• United States

8 Mar 21

So sorry this happened to you. Maybe you could try to open the door to a conversation with her and ya'll get to the bottom of the misunderstanding? Maybe you could save the friendship.

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Kareng

@kareng (63158)

• United States

10 Mar 21

@Lucky15 Good luck!

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

Maybe, i am still hoping, really :)

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Sue21

@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)

• Pamplona, Spain

10 Mar 21

We all know what hurt feels like wishing for your hurt to soften and not hurt you so much.

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Sue21

@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)

• Pamplona, Spain

11 Mar 21

@Lucky15 Hope it has gone away now all the hurt I mean.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

10 Mar 21

thank you

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

11 Mar 21

@lovinangelsinstead21 we have talked about it and she felt sorry :)

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Kayla Tsukino

@kaylachan (72945)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

8 Mar 21

It's okay if you do cry. We all need to sometimes. Don't let yourself feel bad for feeling bad. It's perfectly normal. I am sure you're a good person, and if you had a friend who treated you like that, maybe she wasn't truely a friend in the first place. While friends won't sugar coat things, or shouldn't, there's a difference. Good luck to you.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

i have cried enough, i think. with a bowl of ice cream, felt better

maybe she really didn't see me as someone she could trust

RasmaSandra

@RasmaSandra (81331)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

9 Mar 21

If you cannot get along and if someone hurts you best to remember you are a great person and so turn your back on them. You know the truth and that is what counts here.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

9 Mar 21

I walking away now and moving on, the best thing i can do for myself :)

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David Story

@dwstory (1276)

• Roseburg, Oregon

9 Mar 21

Can you get a hold of her to find out why she is mad at you. It could just me a big misunderstanding.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

9 Mar 21

I have replied to her and, still nothing :)

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Arya

@yoalldudes (35037)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

This has happened to me. We had a talk and it was cleared up. But then things were never the same. It's sad but we have to move on.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

Things can never be the same especially with trust. Sigh

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Anne

@Hytton03 (5451)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

Sad to hear this, time goes by it will heal.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

I agree, maybe tomorrow, i will feel better. Thank you

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Anne

@Hytton03 (5451)

• Philippines

9 Mar 21

@Lucky15 yeah tom is another day.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (138578)

• India

8 Mar 21

It could upset anyone specially when there is no truth in it You will get over it Time is a healer.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (138578)

• India

9 Mar 21

@Lucky15 I have learnt to move on faster than I used to in my younger days. Not worth spending time on issues that disturb our peace.

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

9 Mar 21

in time, i am hoping that she will realize things. we are not getting older :(

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rakski

@rakski (127451)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

apparently she has her own trust issues too. that may mean your friendship is not that deep her words are rather harsh and straightforward but at least now you know what she think of you. truth will set you free Life goes on....

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rakski

@rakski (127451)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

@Lucky15 true. Move forward. That means her trust for you can be easily swayed. You do not like those kind of people

@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

8 Mar 21

I know. How can i say someing behind her back when i was just too busy with things? Sigh. Have no time for gossips

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DianneN

@DianneN (247184)

• United States

9 Mar 21

I’m so sorry. It’s better you find out what kind of a friend she is now. Buh bye to her. Apparently, not a true friend.

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DianneN

@DianneN (247184)

• United States

9 Mar 21

@Lucky15 Sometimes a person’s true colors just slip out. No apology from her?

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

9 Mar 21

@DianneN i got words from her, yesterday. Told her that i have trust issued too and the reason why I don't say anything

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@Lucky15 (37374)

• Philippines

9 Mar 21

There are just things where common sense can be used :( sigh She should have think more

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130213)

• Israel

9 Mar 21

@Lucky15 I am so so sorry that she turned on you and really did not know you. I know about crying and being sensitive. You have to be who you are and do not change for anyone but for yourself.

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