What Do You Think About Wedding Celebration?
By Mifth221
@miftha (1621)
Bekasi, Indonesia
June 14, 2021 1:08am CST
I think as Muslim, MARRIED .. No need to be extravagant by holding a magnificent reception, if only to get flattery with beautiful words.
Remember, the purpose of marriage is to perfect religion, not to follow lust alone. Therefore, do everything simply, without having to overdo everything. Do not do something that is not useful, let alone invite immorality.
Don't be afraid that your wedding will be judged as not classy, ??or not festive just because it was held simply. Because the blessings that are created in a marriage, do not depend on how big or how luxurious we hold it.
However, how big is the intention to build a relationship in the right way, prayer that accompanies sincerity in perfecting religion, and the courage to testify before Him in the form of perfectly.
Interpret a marriage solely for the purpose of worship, so that it becomes a blessing until it leads to Jannah. Matters of love, happiness, or a coveted life, let it be His provision. It depends on how much sincerity and belief we have when pursuing His pleasure.
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@aidels (274)
• Philippines
14 Jun 21
Reminds me of what a cousin of mine likes to say about lavish weddings, that it's like the couple almost seems to be overcompensating. That they probably think that opulent wedding = strong marriage.
It's not how extravagant your wedding is that's important. It's the love and the trust.
But if you want a grand wedding, go for it. To each their own.
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@profree2019 (1218)
• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
15 Jun 21
The celebration of a wedding, in my opinion, is a cover for a very sacred act. That coverage depends on how much they are willing to spend in money for the celebration, and the culture in which it takes place. What I am clear about is that it has absolutely no influence on the development of the marriage itself. Even in many opportunities, the waste of money and the showiness of the celebration is inversely proportional to the duration of the marriage.
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@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
15 Jun 21
Honestly, For me I like to have a big wedding so that I can invite the people that are close to me but thinking about the expenses you need enough money for that.
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@AnitaPorwal (254)
• India
15 Jun 21
Yes I think it depends. As people have different ideas and views for their marriage and it generally happens once in life time so yes they can celebrate the way they want but for sure extraordinary expenses can be surely controlled. Have a great day ahead.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
14 Jun 21
I also don't believe in lavish weddings, it should be based on what the couple could afford and not break the bank. I also believe that the money is better spent as starter money for the couple, business capital or savings for future children. For me a wedding is not an occasion to show off but a ceremony to solemnize a union but again its my personal belief and opinion and to each his own.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
14 Jun 21
Christians' weddings are essentially the couple's parents' party for getting rid of their children by sending them to live with each other 'like grown-ups.'
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@lovebuglena (44758)
• Staten Island, New York
15 Jun 21
Some people put on weddings to impress others. They invite too many people and do things over the top.
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@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
14 Jun 21
I agree with you my friend. Marriage is only for two people.have a nice day
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