I feel sad seeing few posts.

@sjvg1976 (41281)
Delhi, India
October 3, 2021 1:23am CST
I like plants and gardening but I feel sad because of the space constraint, I don't have a garden. I feel jealous when I see posts mentioning gardens and about the plants bearing flowers. I feel jealous when I read posts of Judy mentioning wildlife near her place and Carol mentioning the birds she watches at her place. I wish I also could have a big place where I would have a garden having plants bearing beautiful flowers and butterflies sucking nectar from them and I could listen to the chirping of the birds and see them making their nests on the trees. I have plenty of land in the village but that's too far from the city where I live and it's not possible for me to settle there but I think I should settle in there after I get retired, as I love nature.
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• Greece
3 Oct 21
Maybe others envy you living in the city! The grass always looks greener elsewhere. I think you need to grow some flowers, or herbs in a pot plant where they can get some sunlight and loving care from you. Mint is rather a nice herb to grow in a pot, it smells good when it is watered and you can use it in meals and also chew on a leaf to sweeten your breath.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
3 Oct 21
I don't think anybody envies us concrete jungle dwellers. LOL
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
4 Oct 21
@41CombedaleRoad India is ugly. More like your slums perhaps. Yes, I can walk to any shop for basic needs. For good clothes and shoes, I would need my car. But if I needed something for emergency, I have it easily. Most of the shops are not too far. My monthly petrol (gas) bill is less than 50 USD.
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• Greece
4 Oct 21
@vandana7 I don't know how it is in India but I do feel a little envious of good shops and public transport. It is expensive to run a car and my clothes are not the same quality as if I could visit a good a good clothes shop. So no car and nicer clothes would be a bonus to enjoy occasionally.
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@solidcodes (1764)
• Philippines
3 Oct 21
Just work hard and pray to GOD. soon you will have a lot near nature.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
3 Oct 21
But you can always appreciate gardens of others until you get one of your own. And that you are doing each time I write posts on my garden and pets. You are still working and you can already now plan for your retirement in your village.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
3 Oct 21
Yes, I appreciate such posts. I have to work on a retirement plan.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
3 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 There is joy in planning. All the best.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
3 Oct 21
Are you allowed to keep potted plants in your home? You could create your dish garden.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
3 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 have you heard of air plants? They don’t occupy much space coz you can hang it anywhere where it could see a bit of sunlight. No soil needed. And when they bloom, they’re colorful.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
3 Oct 21
@toniganzon yes I have seen them. But I don't like them.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
3 Oct 21
Yes, we are allowed but if we do that then the house will become congested.
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@wolfgirl569 (106397)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Oct 21
Do what you can for now. I will not be posting about my garden for a few months.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
3 Oct 21
You are the one I envy. Farm animals and farms.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
6 Oct 21
@wolfgirl569 We have had no choice :( First job, then facilities as dad is aged. Now I am old too. LOL
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@wolfgirl569 (106397)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Oct 21
@vandana7 Thank you. I dont think I could stand to live in town.
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@Shiva49 (26686)
• Singapore
3 Oct 21
I know of a few who are happy to settle in villages but most will prefer to stay in cities. It depends on acting on your passion.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
3 Oct 21
In old age, health becomes a serious consideration preventing relocation. That is why I selected an old age home where there is ample open area.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
4 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 No. Not as yet. But dad is 88. I have selected one for me. Kinda, if I survive dad then within six months everything will be settled, and I will know where I am moving to. Too old to do much gardening I feel. But not too old to enjoy nature and peace that somebody else tends to. :)
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
4 Oct 21
@vandana7 do you live in a old age home? @Shiva49 it all depends. If a person is connected to village he/she will prefer to live there in an old age otherwise not. Also the health conditions of a person is the major factor which may deprive him/her to live there.
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@RebeccasFarm (89873)
• Arvada, Colorado
3 Oct 21
You have land Sanjeev? Will you let me live there? lol
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
6 Oct 21
That is what I told him. He is rich. LOL Farm lands are not wherein you can actually live. At least not in India. You will have plenty of snakes and other critters troubling you. Moreover, the soil is not steady to build some place. It will get washed down in rains. The area where we all have homes is further from farm lands. That part is more solid though that can also get inundated, though not as often.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 21
You can come anytime.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 21
@vandana7 it's not that. I have an old house in the village but the thing is it's a joint property of my father's brothers. They won't let me live in that house.
@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Oct 21
Nature is great and the wildlife is great.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
3 Oct 21
I agree. But maintenance is something for which health is needed.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Oct 21
I wish I could have a good healthy garden. Our garden this year wasn't that great.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
4 Oct 21
Why? What happened this year?
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
5 Oct 21
@LeaPea2417 maybe because of the weather being weird this year.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 We tried growing tomatoes but didn't get many. We grew cucumbers and did get more but not as many as grew in the past.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
3 Oct 21
We moved here in the countryside after we both retired, I think you can do the same.
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• United States
5 Oct 21
I also enjoy seeing and reading about fellow myLotters gardens and nature.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
5 Oct 21
It's always a pleasure to know about nature and watch the photos which people share here.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Oct 21
I hope you do, too. I have lots of land, a garden, shrubs, and lots of flowers. However, the wildlife gobbles everything up unless I spray repellent every couple of weeks.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
4 Oct 21
That's fine. I always wished to have a huge garden.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 Oct 21
@sjvg1976 Hopefully you will!
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
11 Oct 21
Don't feel sad, you can go visit. I also wish I could spend more time in the country, but then I get bored and want to come back to the city. This way I can do both
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
12 Oct 21
Yes if you stay there for long you will get bored because you won't get the facilities like you get in the cities.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
3 Oct 21
Husband and I plan to shift to our lush green village after retirement and indulge totally into agriculture. Not sure as how much of that will be materialized in the future. Meanwhile wherever I have been staying, I always had some plants.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
3 Oct 21
Retirement in village is something everybody dreams of. But the issue is, medical facilities.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
4 Oct 21
@vandana7 Yes, that is the main concern. My brother in law has kept one apartment in Mumbai and he has shifted to his native village after retirement. But then he keeps coming to Mumbai to have all her medical check up done. But it's always a concern in case of medical emergency.
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@rakski (123356)
• Philippines
4 Oct 21
I wish I can grow my own produce, but it seems like they do not want to grow on me.
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@RasmaSandra (79892)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Oct 21
That is a nice photo, I hope you can have a garden someday,
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
4 Oct 21
Hope so.
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Oct 21
I have gone to feeling jealous of those with more space as we have moved and have a very small patch of land now. I hope you're able to retire to your village land one day.
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@vandana7 (100303)
• India
6 Oct 21
Some folks with green thumb can find to make even small corners count. I am not that blessed. The Japanese ..can give ideas.
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@nela13 (58669)
• Portugal
3 Oct 21
You will have a big garden when you retire.
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• Cuddalore, India
3 Oct 21
Luckily I got some good space in the terrace.
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@Zavibis (21)
4 Oct 21
Hope you not sad again
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
4 Oct 21
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