We gave away our dresser

@JudyEv (342112)
Rockingham, Australia
December 1, 2021 12:00am CST
We recently downsized to a much smaller home and had to get rid of much of our furniture. We had trouble trying to sell an oak dresser and eventually offered it for free to any of the extended family who might like it. One niece was keen to have it but couldn’t fit it in her entryway. Then Vince’s younger brother expressed an interest so today we separated the three parts and loaded it into his and our cars. We are going to his place later today for a barbecue as it is his birthday and we will help him unload them at that point. It is a shame we couldn’t keep it but with a small house, there are limits.
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
1 Dec 21
Oh, yes, I understand about having to downsize. We hated to move into this house. We had to give away half our furniture and a lot of things we'd stored in the garage at the other house. I'm sorry you couldn't fit the dresser into your house. That's a beautiful piece of furniture.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Dec 21
We have another lovely dresser which we have kept but we didn't have room for the two of them. Well, we did but it made the room look cluttered.
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
1 Dec 21
@JudyEv I understand... Our living room still looks cluttered with the few items we did keep for it. *sigh*
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• Laguna Woods, California
2 Dec 21
@DaddyEvil - I understand. We gave away a lot of things to our daughters, and I still feel like our living room is cluttered.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
1 Dec 21
That is a lovely piece. You do get attached to something like that! I hope it has found a good new home though, there are many more years of life in that!
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
We are really pleased it has gone to Vince's brother. We helped him install it yesterday and it looks really good in his hallway. I'm very happy about its new home.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv That's so nice that it will be treasured in his home, and you will still see it sometimes.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
1 Dec 21
Are the horses decorations part of that dresser? Nice dresser
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Dec 21
I still have the horses but I will try to dispose of some of them too.
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@jstory07 (139974)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Dec 21
That dresser looks really nice. Vince's brother will enjoy having it.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Dec 21
I'm sure he will and we will see it from time to time too..
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@Ronrybs (19584)
• London, England
1 Dec 21
My favourite bookcase is at my mum's. I just don't have the room for such a large and solid piece of wood, handsome as it is. Just a shot in the dark, but I think you like horses!
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
It might have been a shot in the dark but you hit the bullseye! I offered my BIL some horses as I'm trying to downsize them too but he didn't want any.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
@Ronrybs I can't believe I was so silly to collect so many over the years. Someone is going to have to get rid of them when I go so I'm trying to do it beforehand. At least get rid of most and just keep a few favourites.
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@Ronrybs (19584)
• London, England
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv Tricky to look after so many geegees!
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@Atikaa1 (118)
1 Dec 21
The table looks beautiful
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Dec 21
Thanks. It is a nice piece of furniture but my brother-in-law will appreciate it.
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
4 Dec 21
My husband made me several pieces, that a hundred years from now will likely be displayed on a future‘Antiques Roadshow’ they were so beautiful and unique. Blacksmithed bed frame with a peacocks tail inspired headboard. An ornamental mirror frame, solid wood table with ironwork legs …..ah
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
4 Dec 21
wrought iron w glass and wood shelves
@JudyEv No electronic pics - but I do have a picture of a piece we kept - a small 'phone table' (remember those?) It was made around the same time as the bed frame and mirror, and gives you an idea of the work.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Dec 21
Oh wow, they do sound very special indeed. Do you have photos?
@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Dec 21
@sulynsi That is very lovely. The metalwork is very intricate. I have a half-round phone table too but I bought it from someone. It's not my favourite piece but it has a nice home in this house.
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
1 Dec 21
It's a shame that you cannot keep it.
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@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv I hope they will treasure it the way you do before.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
Yes, it is but I am happy now that it has found a good home with my BIL.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
@Shavkat I am sure they will and we'll be visiting from time to time to ensure they look after it!
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
2 Dec 21
I am glad you could keep it in the family. I like the horses on it.
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv that doesn’t look like a lot; the dresser does have limited space for them. Are they Breyer horses?
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
@Aquitaine24 I have many more in other places. Most are Beswicks. Here is the majority of them in our other house.
@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
It looks really good in his hallway so I'm happy about that. I'm glad you like the horses although I have way too many.
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@LadyDuck (472081)
• Switzerland
1 Dec 21
I agree that it is a shame, but big furniture do not fit in small houses.
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@LadyDuck (472081)
• Switzerland
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv It is a very nice dresser, shame to have to donate it.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
It was quite simply too big but it looks great in its new position.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
@LadyDuck I don't mind donating it to my BIL but I didn't want to give it away to strangers.
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@xFiacre (13148)
• Ireland
1 Dec 21
@judyev Giving away old friends is not easy.
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@xFiacre (13148)
• Ireland
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv So you can go and visit it.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
@xFiacre He is a favourite brother and BIL so we will probably see it quite often.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
That's true but now I'm happy because my BIL is thrilled with it.
@DeborahDiane (40320)
• Laguna Woods, California
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv - We had to downsize when we moved into our retirement community, too. We gave a bedroom set to one of our daughters, our formal living room furniture to another, and our breakfast furniture and an extra patio table to a third. Afterwards, when we went to visit them, I joked that we were visiting our furniture, not our kids!
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• Laguna Woods, California
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv - Yes, I do enjoy seeing my furniture in our daughter's homes. It makes me feel like we made good purchases when we originally bought the things. Some of the furniture has lasted a very long time! At least I know it hasn't ended up in landfills, somewhere.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
I'm sure we'll be remarking on our dresser when we visit too!! It's nice that they were able to take the items. It makes giving them up so much easier.
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@franxav (13849)
• India
1 Dec 21
I had the impression that your new house was bigger than the last one. Hope you are comfortable in the new house.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Dec 21
Thanks for the good wishes. This house is very much small in every way almost. We had to dispose of a lot of items.
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@Faster16 (3181)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 21
it's a unique dressing table, I think the price is still quite expensive
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
I didn't mention a price.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
@Faster16 I understand but we couldn't find anyone that wanted it.
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@Faster16 (3181)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv that's just my guess after seeing the photo
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
2 Dec 21
Yess, for sure there are limits. Glad family could give it a home.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
It looks really nice in its new position and my BIL loves it so all is good.
@snowy22315 (182203)
• United States
1 Dec 21
That is a nice dresser. Anyone would be glad to have it I would think. I have two large full size dressers..I really think I need them both though. I did sell a large full sized bookcase though when I was hoping to move before.
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@snowy22315 (182203)
• United States
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv I understand.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
We had to downsize and there really wasn't room for this. Some pieces of furniture are really hard to let go.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
17 Dec 21
Is that antique? The wood looks strong and good quality
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Dec 21
Yes, it is antique but now too big for our new house.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
1 Dec 21
It’s so beautiful! Glad family has it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 Dec 21
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
It looks at home in his hallway so that is good.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
1 Dec 21
it went to a place where it would be loved as much as you love it!
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Dec 21
That's very true. We helped move it and my BIL is really pleased to have it and it looks really good in his house.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
2 Dec 21
@JudyEv There is always the happy side!
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• China
4 Dec 21
This thing is great
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Dec 21
It is a nice piece. It's a pity it is quite so big.