Officially a Grandma.

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@rakski (125767)
Philippines
December 12, 2021 9:30pm CST
I never thought I will be a grandma at 45. I know that there might be some younger than me who might be grandparents already. So, officially I am a grandma now with my husband's nephew's son. His name is Ralph Riley. He is one week old now. I just have a question. How do grandparents are called in your place? In my country, the grandmother is called Lola, and the grandfather is called Lolo. But I do not want to be called that. Any suggestions?
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@JudyEv (341752)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Dec 21
You wouldn't be called a grandparent here but that's okay. Grandma, Grandpa, Nanna, Poppa, Pop - those are some of the names given to grandparents in Australia. There are others but it depends on the culture. For Dutch people, I think it is Oma and Opa.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
13 Dec 21
awesome information. we have a strong practice with those things. Some younger ones will call even a bit older than them ate (older sister) or kuya (older brother) for respect
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@JudyEv (341752)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Dec 21
@rakski We came across that in Nepal. We seemed to become brothers and sisters to many people.
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@Babino (5759)
• Morocco
13 Dec 21
Oma and opa sounds like Korean I think.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Dec 21
Congrats, ours here grandparents are called Nanay, Tatay
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
25 Dec 21
@cacay1 yes, that is true. I am back. Merry Christmas!!
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
19 Dec 21
My friend do that too
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Dec 21
@rakski okay others mommy, daddy.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
I thought you have a grandchild from your own children.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
@rakski And you are only 45.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
My eldest is 14 and youngest is 12 That is not possible yet
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
21 Jan 22
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@Juliaacv (51458)
• Canada
13 Dec 21
Congratulations. Here people go by Papa, Pops or Grandpa. Our son, who will make us grandparents next year, refers to my hubby as Granddaddy. Grandmothers go by Grandma or Nana for the most part. Our daughter-in-law is Polish and her mother is Bubsha.
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@Juliaacv (51458)
• Canada
13 Dec 21
@rakski Thanks.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
13 Dec 21
advance congratulations to you! thank you for those information
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
@Juliaacv welcome
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@1creekgirl (41690)
• United States
13 Dec 21
What a sweetie! Our grandkids call me Caca and my husband Papa.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
oh, can I ask why Caca? Any reason for that?
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
21 Jan 22
@1creekgirl oh yes, they always have their own way of saying names and words
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@1creekgirl (41690)
• United States
15 Dec 21
@rakski When our first grandchild was learning to talk, I tried to teach her how to say grandma (very unimaginative!), but she couldn't say it. It came out Caca and that's what I've been ever since!
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
14 Dec 21
In Japanese, our province calls grandma Babun & grandpa Gechan. Congratulations, young Grandma!
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
Babun and Gechan is cute
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
21 Jan 22
@oahuwriter I agree with that!
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
15 Dec 21
@rakski Thanks. But so is Grandma.
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@snowy22315 (181961)
• United States
13 Dec 21
Hmm, aren't you more like a great aunt?
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
13 Dec 21
yes, in the true concept of the word. but we do not practice having great aunts or uncles here. It will be more likely the aunts and uncles will be grandparents
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@snowy22315 (181961)
• United States
13 Dec 21
@rakski Oh I see, well enjoy the little cherub!
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
@snowy22315 we are enjoying him
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
13 Dec 21
Congratulations! I’m a grammy or grandma. Either is fine for me!
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
that is nice! Thank you
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
21 Jan 22
@DianneN thank you!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Dec 21
@rakski The baby is beautiful!!!
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
13 Dec 21
My mom was 41 when i made her a grandmother. Congratulations on being a grandmother.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
oh wow, your mom is way younger! Thank you!
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
15 Dec 21
@rakski yeah, cuz i was 15 lol
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
Let him call you nana.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
21 Jan 22
@sunrisefan nice! I like that
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
I think I like Nana. How do your grandchildren call you and your wife?
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
@rakski Dada and nana. I only have one grandchild - a cute little boy who tells his tita everyday to "call dada" :)
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
13 Dec 21
@rakski The baby when he starts to talk can call you by your first name if you do not want to be called Grandma. Here in Israel in Hebrew the Grandmother is Savta and Grandfather Saba. You could be called Nana and your first name. I almost forgot congratulations.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
Here, we do not call our elderly by their first name. Higher distinction and respect for name-calling is what we diligently practice here Thank you!
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
22 Jan 22
@Hannihar I choose to be called Nonna
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
15 Dec 21
@rakski ok so what is the name you want to be called? You are welcome.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Dec 21
Congratulations. Brings back good memories.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
thank you! Yes, my son asked to see all his baby photos
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
15 Dec 21
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
5 Jan 22
Congratulations. Lovely baby. Here are called grandparents.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
7 Jan 22
thank you! He is one month already
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
9 Jan 22
@Nevena83 He is getting bigger and heavier
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
7 Jan 22
@rakski He is so small.
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@Treborika (17850)
• Mombasa, Kenya
16 Mar 23
Congratulations for that. That is a bridge you have crossed in life. To be a grandma is not a joke. It's cost the hand of God for you to be that.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
16 Mar 23
Thank you
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
16 Mar 23
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@Treborika (17850)
• Mombasa, Kenya
16 Mar 23
@rakski Welcome my sister
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
13 Dec 21
Wow you are that young to be a grandma. I thought it's your son/daughter that is a parent already. But anyway I think that it is something you cannot avoid since there are many that becomes parents before you're supposed to be called officially a senior citizen.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
My eldest is 14 and youngest is 12. I am not ready yet to be a grandparent for their kids. way too young
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
16 Dec 21
@rakski Anyway it's something that we all have to face. You're being a young grandma is not official as of yet since it's not from your children.
• Greece
13 Dec 21
I was grandmother in my late 40s, helped by being a mother in my late teens. I asked to be called Gran Marion but only a few followed that, most choose to call me simply 'gran'. I have seven grandchildren.
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
14 Dec 21
Gran is shorter maybe.
@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
21 Jan 22
@41CombedaleRoad I agree that names run in families.
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
3 Jan 22
Grand maman and grand papa here,
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
25 Jan 22
@rakski , Thank you!
@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
5 Jan 22
that is nice!
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@LadyDuck (471992)
• Switzerland
13 Dec 21
We are only grandmother if one of our children has a baby, in this case it would only be a second-nephew. In my country the grandmother is called Nonna and the grandfather Nonno, the aunt zia and the uncle zio.
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@LadyDuck (471992)
• Switzerland
15 Dec 21
@rakski The day my niece will have a kid we will not be a Nonno and a Nonna, we will never be, because we have no chidlren.
@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
Nonna and Nonno is nice. Here we have nephews and nieces but their kids will still be our grandchildren. We do not have here great aunts and uncles.
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@noni1959 (10104)
• United States
27 Dec 21
I am Noni but pronounced by my grandkids as Nonnie. In other countries it's with a long o sound. My ex-husband is called Popi (poppy.) My oldest grandson will call me grandmother when I'm in trouble. My mom was called Nana and I called my own grandma and grandpa.Congratulations!
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
3 Jan 22
@noni1959 oh nice!
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
Noni and Popi are nice! And your grandson already knows how to call you when you are in trouble
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@noni1959 (10104)
• United States
1 Jan 22
@rakski It seems I've been grandmother a lot this week.
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
13 Dec 21
So cute baby. At our place, grandmother is called Naani and grandfather is called Naana in India
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@rakski (125767)
• Philippines
15 Dec 21
those are nice names for grandparents
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
15 Dec 21