It is HARD to be the ELDEST in the FAMILY
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140395)
Philippines
February 6, 2022 6:31am CST
Now that my biological parents are enjoying their second lives in heaven, I am the one who took the responsibility in dealing with my siblings' flaws. You must say that we are adults and why do I need to interfere with their personal lives. I only do this if something is not right. It is not easy to be the eldest and I have proven many times through the years.
What do you think, guys?
Are you the eldest in the family?
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12 responses
@Novianping (47)
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6 Feb 22
Im the eldest in my family. Keep spirit, you're strong and you know it. Send virtual hug
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@kobesbuddy (78856)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Feb 22
My sister is the eldest in our family, she's as mean as a "poisonous snake!" I stay far away from her manipulation and controls.
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@Shavkat (140395)
• Philippines
7 Feb 22
@kobesbuddy I am sorry that she is like this. I hope she could turn to a new leaf.
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@kobesbuddy (78856)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Feb 22
@Shavkat She's bosy and mean, she doesn't like any family members!(except herself)
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@averygirl72 (38526)
• Philippines
7 Feb 22
I'm the second in my siblings. My eldest sister is very responsible and I'm so happy that she became the eldest. Yes I believe it is hard to be the first born. You have to be like the parent when the parents are gone. I think my eldest sister will not have a hard time dealing with us her siblings
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@DaddyEvil (146148)
• United States
6 Feb 22
I'm the next-to-the-youngest in my family. I don't have an opinion anyway. In the US, unless we ask for advice from an older sibling, they don't interfere in our lives after we're over 18 years old. *shrug*
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@wolfgirl569 (114860)
• Marion, Ohio
6 Feb 22
I am the eldest. But they are adults and have to live with what they do, not me.
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