Too much choice!

@Fleura (30404)
United Kingdom
February 11, 2022 5:39am CST
About three years ago, we had an Italian lodger. When she left, she had too much to carry so she left a lot of toiletries behind, mainly hair products, and of course, not wanting to throw things away unnecessarily, I have been using them ever since. One of the things she left was a little bottle of some sort of linseed oil hair treatment. It obviously came from Italy so I have never seen it in the shops here, but I rather liked it - just a little smear made my hair wonderfully shiny and tangle free. Now it’s almost finished I thought I might look for something similar. So yesterday I went to a beauty store to see what I could find. Of course I couldn’t find the same thing. But I did find rows and rows of hair-care products. Shampoos, conditioners to wash out, conditioners to leave in, hair masques (which as far as I can see are basically conditioners you leave in rather longer before washing out!), oils and sprays, colour-enhancing and detangling treatments. I must have spent about 20 minutes in there looking at all the different options but in the end I didn’t buy any - how on Earth does anyone choose? Of course every tub or bottle claims to be the best ever product. Unless you just stumble upon something by accident you could spend years trying out all the likely-sounding treatments! How did you find what you like? All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2022.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
11 Feb 22
We kept trying them all, year by year, until we found what works for us... and then it was taken off the market or the manufacturer closed shop. Now we use what our hair dresser tells us to use.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
I guess that's the snag of not going to a hairdresser.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
11 Feb 22
@Fleura Unless you ask, most hair dressers won't suggest what you should be using on your hair. Or at least, that's been our experience.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
@DaddyEvil When I have been in the past, I seem to remember that they always had their preferred brand (or sponsored brand?) prominently displayed around the salon, presumably so that you would subconsciously pick up on that and then buy it later even if you didn't buy it from them.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
11 Feb 22
My husband is picky about hair products, he is the one who buys, he tests and most of the time dislikes, so I use. In my opinion they are all similar. I also have the linseed oil hair treatment that he bought.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
11 Feb 22
@Fleura All the time and two days ago I told him that I forbid him to buy new hair products until all those we have in the bathroom are not gone.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
So you get hand-me-down hair products too!
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@BarBaraPrz (47332)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
11 Feb 22
I remember back in the late 70s when grocery stores became "supermarkets" There was so much choice I sometimes wouldn't buy anything because I felt intimidated.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
Yes I read loads of labels, walked all round the shop twice, and came away with a packet of cotton wool!
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@rebelann (112875)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Feb 22
I still haven't found what I really like but the shampoos I have are ok for now.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
I was happy enough with the things I normally use, I wouldn't have even thought of trying this if it hadn't been here in my house!
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@rebelann (112875)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Feb 22
That makes purrfect sense.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
11 Feb 22
I use what my hairdresser uses on my hair. Love the stuff! Perhaps you can find that product online.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
I have looked online but not found it yet. Will try again though.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
@DianneN No, it can be difficult, such things cannot be sent by air-mail. What was the perfume?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Feb 22
@Fleura I hope you can find it. I tried in vain to order a perfume from England, but they won’t ship to the USA
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@Anqaya (3033)
• United States
11 Feb 22
Too bad that linseed oil thing is finished.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
Maybe I will have to go to Italy to find some : )
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 22
@Anqaya No, not really. But perhaps if I do go there I could remember to look for some.
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@Anqaya (3033)
• United States
15 Feb 22
@Fleura Haha. And where do you live? Will you really go to Italy for that oil.
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@GardenGerty (160696)
• United States
12 Feb 22
Fleur this makes me want to go research and find that just for you. Or find an herbal recipe for something similar you can make at home. What is in it besides linseed oil?
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
12 Feb 22
I will have to investigate, it's all in tiny writing in Italian of course!
@kixsh101 (2105)
• Philippines
12 Feb 22
Have you checked the label? you may find something with the same contents on the label of what you have now.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
12 Feb 22
I haven't found anything with linseed oil except a couple of sprays that seemed far too runny.
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
11 Feb 22
I can feel you. I tend to buy things that were tested by me and the rest of the family.
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@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
14 Feb 22
@Fleura At some point, I usually take time to check the feedback from the buyers.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
Yes I think many people do the same and stick to what they know unless a friend (or maybe an 'influencer' these days) recommends something.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Feb 22
I just buy products that have good ratings and are not too expensive.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
Mostly I buy fairly ordinary things from trusted brands, I don't often try new things any more. Especially if they are expensive!
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Feb 22
Maybe go online and look for the one she left behind for your use. I don't use anything in my hair. I suffer it when I get my hair done. I'm washing it out the next day.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
I have tried searching online but no luck so far. I have found some of the other things, but of course this was the one I liked best!
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Feb 22
@Fleura I'm sorry you can't find it online.
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@Ronrybs (19345)
• London, England
11 Feb 22
The only things there can never have too much choice are books. I will whizz through any store, but a bookstore
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
Oh I don't know, the problem of too much choice is that you see so many books you want and can't buy them all, so in the end you can't decide and leave without any!
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@Ronrybs (19345)
• London, England
18 Feb 22
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• Nairobi, Kenya
11 Feb 22
I also always waste time looking at many different products of the same kind and end up not buying anything only because I just want the best and I'm not sure which one will work for me.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
That's the problem isn't it? And it would take a long time and a lot of money to try them all!
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• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Feb 22
@Fleura yes it will. I personally won't try all of them. I might try two or three and that's it.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Feb 22
I agree, there are too many choices of many products.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
Some choice is good, but an overwhelming number of choices is just too much sometimes!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 Feb 22
@Fleura I totally agree.
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• China
11 Feb 22
Sadly you can't find any alternatives to that linseed oil hair treatment ,though there is a superb collection of hair-care products there.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
There are certainly plenty of options.
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@Juliaacv (50988)
• Canada
11 Feb 22
I buy my hair products from the salon that I do to. After they use the product on my I know if it is right for me or not.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
I haven't been to a hairdressers' for more than 20 years. Maybe I should and get some advice!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
You're right - the mind boggles when faced with too much choice. I generally stick to what I know.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 22
Indeed, some choice is nice, but when you are faced with hundreds of options you just don't know what to do!
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@JudyEv (340210)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 22
I'm not sure but I'm probably using the one I started using 20 years ago! I guess mostly I'd go by price, meaning cheap, and if I liked it then I'd stick with it. Otherwise I'd move up a notch.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
Yes mainly I just buy the own-brand shampoo etc and if it works, stick with it.
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@Kandae11 (55035)
11 Feb 22
I tend to check the ingredients first then make my choice. I try not to use products with petrolatum as an ingredient.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
Yes if you choose natural products that does reduce the range I guess.
11 Feb 22
What I normally do is to read buyers' reviews from different sites and make my own conclusions on which brand of product to buy.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 22
I'll have to try some online places I think.
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