We Broke Up
By YoghurtGal
@flapiz (23148)
United Kingdom
February 19, 2022 1:24pm CST
I don't know what my boyfriend is undergoing but if he's not willing to let me in to help him then I can do nothing. Yesterday I made a painful decision to break up with him as his indecision seems like an answer already. I also feel like although he says he loves me his actions does not show it. I'm still hopeful he'd wake up and change his mind but I'm just really praying a lot that if he's for me I hope he wakes up and step up, if he's not, then may I have the courage to let him go.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
Yeah letting him go for the both of us. Today he actually texted me. Which is quite a change after we parted ways last week.
"I hope you're okay Floraine, I'm not communicating because I don't know what's best for you. I'm here if you need me for anything. I do think of you x"
I don't know if I should reply.
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@moffittjc (121604)
• Gainesville, Florida
20 Feb 22
Sometimes people don't realize the good thing they had until they've lost it. I hope he realizes sooner than later that he had a great thing with you. Like you said, hopefully he wakes up and sees what he's doing and then realizes he should be with you. If not, it's his loss. I know it's not easy going through a breakup, but I hope you are able to weather this storm and emerge a stronger and more beautiful person than you already are.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
Thank you. I do feel like I'm becoming less beautiful by the day. The sadness is making me stoic. He texted me today asking if I was okay and how I was doing and apologising for not communicating as he does not know what's best for me. I don't know if I should answer it or ignore it to be honest.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 22
@moffittjc I'm trying. I still have been able to smile but there are times when I'm alone where I feel like I'm in a bad and dark place.
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@moffittjc (121604)
• Gainesville, Florida
21 Feb 22
@flapiz You are not becoming less beautiful! You’re just going through a rough time. Keep thinking positive thoughts!
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
26 Feb 22
Good decision. You will realize that as time pass by. We need a reliable partner to hold us in our 30s 40s 50s and beyond.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
26 Feb 22
I'm in my 30s he's in his 40s and sadly I don't think he can hold me till I'm 50. He can't even now.
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
26 Feb 22
@flapiz Being single opens opportunities to find a good man. Best of luck sweetheart. You deserve to be happy and secure. Dont settle for less.
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@Queenoflife (942)
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20 Feb 22
Time will tell if he is the right one. If he is, you will be together.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
20 Feb 22
@Queenoflife I may see that eventually. But right now I really don't want to let go.
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@Queenoflife (942)
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20 Feb 22
@flapiz I understand. Sometimes it's better to move on.
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@kaylachan (69844)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Feb 22
Perhaps it's for the best, perhaps you might've pushed him over the edge. However, if you're not happy, you shouldn't have to suffer. I don't know what's wrong with your ex, but sometimes when we struggle is when we need others the most.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 22
I know I'm not going to let him play with my head and emotions.
@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
26 Feb 22
Thank you Marlin. I'd like to think this way too. May God give me what I need.
