Seems like forever

@1creekgirl (41387)
United States
June 14, 2023 5:33pm CST
I don't even remember the last full post I wrote. But I'll start with getting through the last chemo and about two weeks past. That night I started hurting all around my middle, having chills and vomiting and diarrhea and knew I was in trouble. Dale took me to the ER (mistake number one...should have called the rescue squad.) Got there about 11pm, it wasn't very busy, I told the receptionist that I was a cancer patient, recently had chemo, had excruciating pain in my left side and had had chills and vomiting. Told the triage nurse the same thing. Told it to the nurse who drew blood and did a urinalysis. He assured me I would get something for pain as soon as they got me in a bed. But they had no beds at the time and we'd have to wait in the waiting room. So of course we went back to the waiting room, praying it wouldn't be long before they called us. For those of you who have had back pain from a kidney stone, you know what I'm describing. We waited while I was writhing in pain. Dale checked several times and was told the doctors were treating the patients who came in on an ambulance. At 6am, they finally took me to a bed and got some morphine in me. It was a blur after that, but my Urologist was there that night and rushed me into surgery. I had two kidney stones blocking the ureter (?) and he did a stent around both of the them to let the infection start running out. Then I was in ICU for two days because my blood pressure kept getting too low. Received massive amounts of strong antibiotics. Finally transferred to a regular room and came home yesterday. My Urologist came to see me and he's not one to exaggerate, but he said when they got to me, I had a two hour window before dying. I'm so thankful God arranged it for him to already be at the hospital that night. So, in the future we'll call an ambulance. Yesterday we learned that Dale's niece in Arkansas passed away. She was the age of our children and was like a second daughter to Dale. She had a heart attack, but had many serious health issues. My mind was chemo brained before all this and it's really impaired now, lol. But found out I do start radiation June 21, so it will be good to get those behind me. Please say a prayer for Dale, he's really broken hearted. Hope you guys are well.
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@NJChicaa (119521)
• United States
14 Jun 23
I was thinking about you this morning. What a nightmare! I had kidney stones in the past but I never felt them pass. It was the gallstones that made me want to die.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
14 Jun 23
They can be really painful. You got your gallbladder taken out didn't you?
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
14 Jun 23
These two kidney stones will have to be surgically removed in the next week or so and at some point have the stent removed.
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@NJChicaa (119521)
• United States
14 Jun 23
@1creekgirl yeah that sucker is gone since 2010. It almost killed me. I'm glad you finally got the care you needed. I hope the removal goes smoothly.
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@AmbiePam (92401)
• United States
14 Jun 23
Oh, Vicki. I had no idea you were so close to dying. I know this isn’t foremost on your mind, but did anyone go back and inform the ones that essentially blew you off, how close they came to letting you die? Thank the Lord you made it, and are back home. And poor Dale…To see his wife dying to losing someone young and precious; I can’t imagine. You will remain on my prayers, as always.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thank you, Amber. I really don't know what's transpired in the ER, but I hope they're scared. Besides making me wait seven hours, they showed no concern or compassion. Not even a "so sorry for the wait, can we get you anything?" Nothing. I hope the fact that I was two hours close to dying scared somebody.
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@AmbiePam (92401)
• United States
15 Jun 23
@1creekgirl I remember that. Your family has been through too much. But yes, He will get you through.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
His sister who was my age passed away last May during our granddaughter's wedding which was really hard on him. We kept the news from Kristin (he walked her down the aisle.) But left the next day to drive from Charleston SC to Ark. He still misses Faye, now Donna was like our daughter. But God gets us through these things.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
15 Jun 23
Oh my goodness Vicki, I know how painful kidney stones are because I experienced. They were horrible at the ER! I am glad your urologist was there, he surely saved your life. I am so sorry for Dale's niece, keeping you and Dale in my thoughts. My sincere condolences.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
16 Jun 23
@1creekgirl Too many times the nurses at the ER are not at all good enough to spot the urgent cases.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
I really appreciate that, Anna. God was at work that night having my Urologists already there.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
14 Jun 23
I was wondering where you were and hoping you were both okay. I'm sorry it took so long for them to see you in the ER. But glad you got the surgery you finally needed. Keeping you and Dale in my thoughts. I'm glad to see you back on myLot.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
15 Jun 23
@1creekgirl You're welcome. I hope things get back on an even keel for you soon. We're both fine, thank you for asking.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thanks, DE. Now I just have to have surgery to remove the two stones and stent, then start radiation next week. Hope you and Pretty are well.
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@JudyEv (339464)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Jun 23
You poor thing. What an ordeal for you both. And I'm so sorry about your loss. That's very sad. Condolences to all concerned. I hope the radiation isn't too onerous.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
I hope the radiation won't be bad. May I'll glow in the dark!
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@JudyEv (339464)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Jun 23
@1creekgirl You are very brave, even finding a joke about having radiation.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
14 Jun 23
Dale losing his niece, that's tragic! And you having infection from two kidney stones, blocking your ureter. I will certainly pray for you and also, for better medical treatment at the hospital. There wasn't any empathy or concern, it seems.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thanks, Kharla. My Urologists are excellent and it was the grace of God they were there. They just didn't know what was happening with me. But we saw no compassion of any kind in the ER staff.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Jun 23
@1creekgirl And you &others were praying, no doubt Dale was praying for his wife!
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@RasmaSandra (79648)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jun 23
I am so glad you hear from you and good to know you are back home, So sorry to hear about Dale's niece and I will say a prayer for him and for her family, I hope you are all right now and best of luck on the radiation,
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
16 Jun 23
Thank you so much!
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@xFiacre (12970)
• Ireland
15 Jun 23
@1creekgirl That’s a terrible time for both of you. I know all about the kidney stone thing - excruciating. Praying for you both.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thank you so much, Fiacre.
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• United States
16 Jun 23
Wow Vicki what an ordeal for you to go through. Thank God your doctor was in the hospital when you needed surgery. You certainly have been through so much and I continue to pray for you. I will certainly add prayers for Dale and his heartbreaking news about his niece.
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@Shiva49 (26661)
• Singapore
15 Jun 23
Tough time indeed. You need the prayers to get well soon. I can sympathize with Dale. He needs to be strong too.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
We'd never have made it this far without God.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
15 Jun 23
I’m so sorry for all these bad things happening to you and Dale. I hope you have clear sailing after all this is over.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thanks, Ruby.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
15 Jun 23
@1creekgirl You’re very welcome.You have my best wishes.
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@LindaOHio (177898)
• United States
15 Jun 23
I'm so sorry to hear about Dale's niece. Sending prayers and my condolences. I am so glad you survived your trip to the ER. Definitely go by ambulance the next time! Will be thinking of you on the 21st.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thanks so much, Linda! This sounds odd, but this is the second time this Urologist has saved my life. A few years ago, same symptoms, but I thought it was an intestinal obstruction which I have at times. So I waited almost too long to go to the ER and came close to not surviving septic shock. But no one to blame but my self. I wonder if God gets tired of rescuing me. Sure hope not!
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
16 Jun 23
@LindaOHio You are so right. I knew this time to go right away, but had no idea they'd keep us waiting for seven hours. Next time we're calling the rescue squad.
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@LindaOHio (177898)
• United States
16 Jun 23
@1creekgirl Next time don't wait. You know well enough now that you could be in trouble. Listen to your body!
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Oh goodness me, I am so sorry you are going through all that and Dale;s poor niece . I hope for comfort and healing for you dear Vicki club Vicki and your family too. God is good and will get you through.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
16 Jun 23
Absolutely. I wouldn't have made it this far without Him. How's your mom?
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
17 Jun 23
@FayeHazel Thanks so much, Faye. Hugs to our VickiClubVicki.
@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
16 Jun 23
@1creekgirl She's pretty good these days, though her legs hurt and her sense of balance are off , so she's been using a walker. Other than that doing ok though. Hugs to you my friend
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Jun 23
You have really been through it. So frustrating to get to the ER and have to wait for so long. Sound like you made it just in time. I hope today finds you feeling better. Thoughts are always with you. Sorry to hear about Dale's niece.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
22 Jun 23
@1creekgirl You are welcome and I understand what you are saying.
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@snowy22315 (180399)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Oh poor you and poor Dale..when it rains it pours doesn't it?
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
It sure seems that way!
@kaylachan (69258)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jun 23
I know you have a long road ahead of you. I wish you the best. Good luck with everything. Sending good vibes your way for both you and Dale.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thanks so much, Kayla.
@Juliaacv (51045)
• Canada
14 Jun 23
Oh you poor thing, you have been through so much this year. I am sorry for your most recent experience, and I will keep both you as well as Dale in my prayers.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thank you so much, Julia.
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@sallypup (60959)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Jun 23
I'm deeply sorry for your misery. Hugs from me and please pass on my condolences to your dear hubby.
@TheHorse (218480)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Jun 23
I am glad you got there on time. Sending healing thoughts.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
15 Jun 23
I am so sorry that you are going through all of this, the long wait in the ER. Surely they could have given you something to ease your pain while waiting for a bed? Some medical personnel can be very hard and uncaring. Sorry about Dale's niece too. I'll be praying for you both.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
15 Jun 23
Thanks, Kandase. That whole time no one ever offered us anything, no compassion at all.