I'm Having a Panic Attack
@chrissbergstrom (10767)
Banks, Oregon
July 16, 2023 2:48am CST
I'm sitting here in uncontrollable tears barely able to breathe, as much as I vent about helping with the care of my family, the minute I'm without them I feel like my life is falling apart.
My Niece took my Nephew with her to Washington she said for a few days, I love my niece dearly but she has not had very good judgement with men. The guy she's currently dating is not a very good guy.
I'm trying to not worry but for the last two years I've been helping raise that boy, and now when we tell her that her boyfriend can no longer live here she is going to stay with him wherever. I just don't know what to even do.... Family have no real rights we just got to pray the parent makes good choices, and if they don't be ready to step in to rescue them if they don't.
Pray for my sanity because all I can do is worry she took him away from everything he knows and loves for some loser guy, I hope somehow he still has fun and most of all I hope he's safe.
I just wish she would be with someone who was actually good for her and her son. Maybe someday she will wake up.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
16 Jul 23
You are right! The family has no rights at all and we could only pray. And when we are needed, we just have to be there for them.
I feel what you're feeling. I had that same exact feeling with my sisters and brothers before.
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@leighnyork (1880)
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16 Jul 23
im sorrry to hear about your difficult situation. it is understandable that you care for your nephews dont forget to take care of yourself
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
16 Jul 23
I want to understand what you are going through and I feel sad about it.
I am praying that things get better for you.
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@LindaOHio (178131)
• United States
16 Jul 23
How old is your niece? Please try and relax and breathe. Some things you cannot control. I know you worry; but she is going to do what she wants to do. Hopefully it won't bite her in the butt.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
16 Jul 23
She is only 22, still a child herself in how she thinks she had him at 19.
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@LindaOHio (178131)
• United States
17 Jul 23
@chrissbergstrom I thought I was mature when I got married at 22; but I was wrong!
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
18 Jul 23
@LindaOHio we always think we are when we are not yet lol I look at myself at 22 and think no way in hell could I have been a full time parent lol
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@popciclecold (38637)
• United States
16 Jul 23
I understand how you feel. Been there. Just be prayerful.
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@RebeccasFarm (89831)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Jul 23
I am sorry there is so much stressful worry on you..I know what the feels like.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
18 Jul 23
I love my niece dearly I just question her judgment in men, she is a good mother when present but these idiots distract her attention not fair to her son
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@noni1959 (10096)
• United States
23 Jul 23
@chrissbergstrom That is so sad to hear.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
18 Jul 23
I have him a lot of the time that's the issue though she so often chooses time with idiot men over time with son
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