Would you like to be alone or criticized by others?

@dya80dya (36657)
August 28, 2023 6:23am CST
I am talking to people who criticize me often. Sometimes I feel judged by them, but not all the time. Sometimes I would like to be alone instead of being criticized or judged. I am judged and criticized because I wanted to save some kittens. This gives me purpose and meaning in life. I wonder why it's so wrong. Maybe I shouldn't talk to anyone and I would be more lonely than I am. Would you like to be alone or criticized by others?
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@sharonelton (28846)
• Lichfield, England
28 Aug 23
There is nothing wrong with wanting to save some kittens! Who criticized you for wanting to do that? They're obviously not animal lovers. Ofcause it gives you purpose and meaning. It's a good thing. It shows you have compassion. Those people who criticise you for it do not have compassion! I'd probably want to be alone rather than be criticized.
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
They don't have compassion and they say that I have a problem because I care. They don't care at all.
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
@sharonelton They can't understand this.
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@sharonelton (28846)
• Lichfield, England
29 Aug 23
@dya80dya That's absolutely right! Caring is not a problem! They are the ones with the problem!
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
28 Aug 23
People are mean, you have been very sweet to try to save those kittens. Ignore those who criticize you.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
29 Aug 23
@dya80dya Do not feel unhappy and frustrated for all what people say. Some are there only to criticize.
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
Thank you for saying that.
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@dya80dya (36657)
31 Aug 23
@LadyDuck All of them criticize. I will try to ignore them.
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@AmbiePam (92714)
• United States
28 Aug 23
Anyone who criticizes you for that has revealed how pathetic they are, and isn’t worth caring about their opinion. I realize it’s difficult sometimes to hear that abuse, but they have serious problems.
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
They don't think they have a problem. They say that I am the only one with problems. I wish I wouldn't care.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
28 Aug 23
At this point in my life, I just ignore people who think differently against me. I do not mind being alone if being with these people. I can accept constructive criticism and nothing else from them.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
30 Aug 23
@dya80dya Indeed. It would be another story.
@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
Constructive criticism is different.
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@Dena91 (16636)
• United States
28 Aug 23
I would rather be alone than criticized by others, and I would want to be surrounded by kittens/cats than people.
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
I have the same feelings. Sometimes cats are better than people.
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@Dena91 (16636)
• United States
29 Aug 23
@dya80dya Yes they are. Their love is unconditional
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• India
28 Aug 23
There are times when we all feel like that but staying alone is not a good option
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
Yes, staying alone is not a good feeling. But we don't need criticism.
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• India
29 Aug 23
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
28 Aug 23
Don't listen to them, there is nothing wrong with saving a life - be it a person's or an animal's. A life is a life, and you're doing a good thing. People will always have something to say about you, good or bad, no matter what.
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
It's true. Some people say that animal's lives are useless. But I disagree with them.
@RebeccasFarm (89882)
• Arvada, Colorado
31 Aug 23
I would rather be alone then be around imbeciles that have no understanding.
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
28 Aug 23
Alone. No one likes to be criticized
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@dya80dya (36657)
29 Aug 23
It's better to be alone than criticized.