Her husband took her to a priest

@allknowing (137553)
India
October 1, 2023 10:36pm CST
My Oldest sister was very young when she got married - she was in her teens. Her husband had to take her to a priest to explain to her why it was not wrong - you know what I mean. Those days girls were ignorant and that does not mean I was any better - that some other time. Today I think even a three year old would know that and could teach you a thing or two. Did your husband take you to a priest?
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Oct 23
No we went to Las Vegas to the justice of the peace.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
2 Oct 23
Did the Justice of the Peace guide you?
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Oct 23
@allknowing No they just marry you and go to the next two people.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
2 Oct 23
@jstory07 My question was different
@Kouponkaren (5503)
• United States
2 Oct 23
Um, no, but we did have to go to pre-marital counseling with a priest before we got married. But not about that particular subject. My mom had already had that discussion with me many years earlier.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
2 Oct 23
That is good your mother spoke. But here not a word from her (lol)
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
2 Oct 23
In my country, couples need to undergo seminars before getting married in a church.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
2 Oct 23
That is happening here as well but not when my sister got married.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
5 Oct 23
@allknowing I hope your sister is happy being married to her husband now.
@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
2 Oct 23
No, we learned everything by ourselves.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
3 Oct 23
That is good
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@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
3 Oct 23
@allknowing Intimate secrets cannot be shared.
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
2 Oct 23
I married after 10 years dating my husband, nothing of "that" was new for me (if you know what I mean)and we had to go to seminars before the wedding. We celebrated 18 years of marriage this year.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
3 Oct 23
Congratulations! We too had a retreat that was only for 'to be married' couples. But when my sister got married there was nothing of the sort.
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
3 Oct 23
@allknowing I think it is something very common nowadays.
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
2 Oct 23
I am a husband, and I am born in a Hindu priest family.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
2 Oct 23
That does not answer my question. So did your wife tok advice from your priest?
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
3 Oct 23
@allknowing I am the priest she would take advice from
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@RasmaSandra (80635)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Oct 23
I learned the hard way. My first husband was 20 years older than me and I married him because my mom back in NYC where we lived wanted me to marry a Latvian. The second time round was no problem because mom and I moved to Latvia and then I got lucky and met my true soul mate,
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
3 Oct 23
I can imagine anyone marrying someone much older if they fall in love but here your mother did the match making Odd I say.
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