Remembering

@RasmaSandra (79747)
Daytona Beach, Florida
October 13, 2023 4:01pm CST
This is a poetic meme I did soon after my husband passed. It was coming to autumn and most of the summer flower had wilted. Leaves were falling from the trees and I was taking a walk. I remembered some of the country roads we enjoyed taking a walk on and was taking a roundabout walk where one road took me all around to another road that would take me right to my garden gate. I had my camera with me but did not expect to see too much to take photos of at that time of the year. Suddenly I so a sure sign the Martin was thinking of me there along the road was the beautiful and bright yellow flower you see in the photo. All around it there were piles of autumn leaves and it alone was there and still blooming. I returned home with a photo and a huge smile on my face.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50212)
• United States
13 Oct 23
What a precious memory.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Oct 23
@Tampa_girl7 just wondering what kind of flower that was. I looked at that photo now and don't know what it might be but then perhaps and I believe in this it was not really per se any kind of flower but more a symbol I was meant to see. The route I took we had walked back in July and in August he was gone and this was in mid-September,
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@Tampa_girl7 (50212)
• United States
13 Oct 23
@RasmaSandra I see an over abundant amount of yellow and orange butterflies since my mama passed and I feel her strongly when I see them.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Oct 23
@Tampa_girl7 virtual hugs to you and butterflies have always been symbols,
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Oct 23
It's a beautiful flower. I'm glad he showed you the flower as you walked along the paths you walked together.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@just4him since everything was heading toward autumn he also made it bright yellow or with all the leaves piling around in various dark colors I might have not even noticed the flower,
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Oct 23
@RasmaSandra I'm glad it was nice and bright so you could notice it.
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@kareng (59050)
• United States
14 Oct 23
Perfect memory for you!! Hold on to it!
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@kareng I treasure all my memories,
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@kareng (59050)
• United States
15 Oct 23
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@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
14 Oct 23
What a wonderful memory, Martin put that flower there for you, I am sure.
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@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
15 Oct 23
@RasmaSandra - We know when we receive "messages" from those we loved. I am so glad you could take a photo of this bright flower.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@LadyDuck I totally agree and made it bright yellow for me to see, If it had been a dark red or orange flower with all the leaves piling up I might not have even noticed,
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
14 Oct 23
I wish I could smile at my memories as you do but I’m not to that point and doubt I ever will be.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@RubyHawk believe me you will be when you remember or see something that makes you remember a very special time you will smile,
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
14 Oct 23
@RasmaSandra Thanks for the encouragement. I hope so.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
14 Oct 23
You were meant to pass that way at that time. Precious memories.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@Kandae11 sort of made me happy and sad since he had just walked that way in June and now in September he was already gone,
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@Kandae11 (54986)
15 Oct 23
@RasmaSandra l understand.
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 23
That's a lovely memory and beautiful flower.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Oct 23
@kaka135 thank you
@AmbiePam (92507)
• United States
13 Oct 23
That is lovely, and I am so glad you have that to hold on to.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@AmbiePam that is why I made a poetic meme around the flower
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@snowy22315 (180497)
• United States
13 Oct 23
That is sweet.It made you feel safe and protected.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Oct 23
@snowy22315 it certainly did, Imagine walking along a dirt road and the tops of the trees already bare and you feel kind of sad and suddenly this flower,
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@allknowing (136104)
• India
14 Oct 23
You were not wrong in thinking that Martin was by your side Nice thought
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@allknowing it made me feel better taking that walk all by myself
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@rebelann (112785)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Oct 23
What a wonderful memory. I hope you'll get more of them.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@rebelann I have many memories and always treasure them,
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@sallypup (61016)
• Centralia, Washington
14 Oct 23
That's lovely. I'm glad you found some comfort in your sorrow.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@sallypup it was something even in life he would do for me making me happy again when I was sad
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@JudyEv (339581)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Oct 23
I can only imagine the pleasure that yellow flower would have brought you.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@JudyEv sure made me feel a lot less lonely on that road
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@LindaOHio (178124)
• United States
14 Oct 23
A lovely, bittersweet meme.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Oct 23
@LindaOHio it was during one of the first walks I took by myself.
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@RebeccasFarm (89872)
• Arvada, Colorado
15 Oct 23
You did..I am so glad you have these memories so precious with Martin in Latvia ..lovely Latvia
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@jstory07 (139579)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Oct 23
What a beautiful picture.
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@jstory07 (139579)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Oct 23
@RasmaSandra Flowers are a beauty to enjoy.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Oct 23
@jstory07 I was so miserable at that time so it was so nice seeing this flower to bring a little joy to me,
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@mom210 (9117)
• United States
18 Oct 23
so sweet! very beautiful flower too.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Oct 23
@mom210 thank you
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@innertalks (21906)
• Australia
18 Oct 23
It is good to be able to connect to something like that, and to know that it is a personal message to you, from your husband.
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@RasmaSandra (79747)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Oct 23
@innertalk a great feeling all around
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