What About a Hug?

@celticeagle (168256)
Boise, Idaho
December 13, 2023 12:41pm CST
I'm not a hugger. I come from a long line of non-huggers. I was really surprised to hear what power a hug has. Studies show that people who received more hugs would generally get sick less often. In the moment of a hug, a participant's blood pressure can be lowered. This could translate into better stress management. Just a 20-second hug can release the hormone oxytocin known as "the love hormone". This is the same hormone that has a key role in the female reproductive system, childbirth, breastfeeding, and bonding with your child. A mere hug can help reduce pain symptoms, depression, sleep quality, and feelings of loneliness. The good news is that hugging and petting your furry friends can release this same hormone.
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@dya80dya (36774)
13 Dec 23
I hug my cats, but I don't like when someone wants to hug me.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
I avoid hugging humans.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@septabchips ........Many. Social anxiety begins it all.
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• Nigeria
14 Dec 23
@celticeagle Any reason for that?
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@kaylachan (71772)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Dec 23
I love getting hugs from my husband and people in general.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
That's a good thing. I'm going to try to be more huggy.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
@kaylachan ........It's more of a shyness thing.
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@kaylachan (71772)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Dec 23
@celticeagle You might grow to like it.
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
13 Dec 23
Yeah some people cringe about hugs. I dont mind but these days..got to be careful with germs sadly.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
That's true.
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• Arvada, Colorado
13 Dec 23
@dya80dya Oh yeah I remember that..you told us..how weird is right.
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@dya80dya (36774)
13 Dec 23
I cringe about hugs too. Once a stranger hugged me on the street when I was with my mom. It was so weird.
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@aninditasen (16503)
• Raurkela, India
14 Dec 23
I do hug my dog and used to hug my children when they were young and often was hugged by my husband.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
You should start the cycle up again.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@aninditasen .......At least one remains.
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@aninditasen (16503)
• Raurkela, India
15 Dec 23
@celticeagle My husband has expired, children have grown up and its only the dog that remains.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
14 Dec 23
@celticeagle I did not know that hugging was so good. I should hug my cat more.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@Hannihar .......There you go, already something to look forward to.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
Hug all those you love both human and kenine.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
15 Dec 23
@celticeagle Thank you and if I see my friend that is in the reserves in Gaza I want to thank him and give him a big hug and my cat deserves a big one too.
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@LindaOHio (181717)
• United States
14 Dec 23
I'm a big hugger. My husband is not; and I no longer have dogs to hug. Sigh. Have a good day.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
Grav him and hug him. Geesh!
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@LindaOHio (181717)
• United States
15 Dec 23
@celticeagle I usually do. I certainly can't wait around for him to do it! lololol
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@LindaOHio .......You could drop off the face of the earth in that time.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
14 Dec 23
The power of human connection, even through something as basic as physical touch, is truly remarkable.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
There needs to be more hugging and less listening to lying.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
15 Dec 23
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@TheHorse (220245)
• Walnut Creek, California
14 Dec 23
Dan Levitin told me that playing music with others may release oxytocin as well.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
That could very well be true.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@TheHorse ........That is such a great feeling.
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@TheHorse (220245)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Dec 23
@celticeagle I feel a sense of "bonding" when I play music with others.
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@just4him (317241)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Dec 23
I'm a hugger. I would agree with everything you said about hugging. Though, I didn't know about the oxytocin hormone. Interesting. All I know is that I feel so good when I hug someone, or someone comes up to me and hugs me. It's wonderful!
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
It is wonderful. I like my grandson's hugs.
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@just4him (317241)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Dec 23
@celticeagle I'm sure he loves them too.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@just4him ........It is a nice experience for both of us I think.
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@Deepizzaguy (104150)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
13 Dec 23
It does work when I hug my cat when he wants to be hugged inside my home since I do feel better mentally.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@Deepizzaguy .......That is great.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
I bet you both feel better.
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@Deepizzaguy (104150)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
14 Dec 23
@celticeagle We both feel better since the cat likes to visit me in my room from time to time.
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@Ronrybs (19584)
• London, England
14 Dec 23
Not a hugger too. I do like cats and they are plenty huggable!
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
They are very huggable.
@thelme55 (77165)
• Germany
14 Dec 23
Hugging is okay if you like that person. I am careful with hugging nowadays because of colds in winter.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
So true. Very smart of you.
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
13 Dec 23
I hug my family a lot, I am a hugger
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Dec 23
I think that is a good thing to be.
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
19 Dec 23
@celticeagle thank you
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
13 Dec 23
That's pretty interesting, me & hubby has been married 37 yrs this past Sept, & we have 13 yrs between us, if we've huged a 100 times awesome. We don't do a lot of touchy feeling thing like back in our earlier yrs, every now & then we'll squezze a little love hug on each other & blow a kiss.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
Hugs can be very nice indeed. Affectionate stuff is always nice.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
14 Dec 23
@celticeagle I'm not much of a huggy person.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
@2ndchances24 .......I haven't been but I am going to try to hug my family more.
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
14 Dec 23
I am a hugger and I do not get enough of them.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
Never enough.
@AmbiePam (93889)
• United States
14 Dec 23
I am a hugger, and everyone knows it. However, I never hug anyone who doesn’t want to be hugged. I’m not going to make someone physically uncomfortable. Fortunately, all my friends and and a lot of my family are huggers.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
That would defeat the purpose.
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@LadyDuck (472081)
• Switzerland
14 Dec 23
I get hugs from my husband every day and I hug him. I only like to be hugged by family members, not by strangers.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
I can relate to that.
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@wolfgirl569 (108166)
• Marion, Ohio
13 Dec 23
For me it depends on who is giving the hug.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Dec 23
Very much so for me too.
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@lazydaizee (6735)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 23
I do not like hugging especially with people I do not know well. This habit has become popular over the last few years , we never used to hug at all in the past. They say that hugging makes people healthier , and that would be a good thing but what about all the germs that are being spread by people hugging each other? People have not learned anything since Covid about how germs are passed by close contact.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
I will push forward to try to hug my loved ones more. You do what makes you comfortable.
@Mohanda (97)
14 Dec 23
Hug is beautiful if both people are feel comfort
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Dec 23
That is very true.