Do you typically prepare meals for other people or just yourself?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
Philippines
December 16, 2023 8:46pm CST
As for me, I usually cook not only for myself but also for my family members. My siblings are far better at cooking than me. Since my siblings are always out for work, I do not have a choice but to cook at home. Besides, I wanted to learn it. It is a regretful matter for not asking my mom to teach me to do it. Along the way, I am teaching my 12-year-old niece to cook. So that, she will know what to do when no one will cook in the house.
At what age do you think a child learns how to cook?
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@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
17 Dec 23
I think that the only way anyone can learn anything is by wanting to do it. So children want to learn how to cook and some are not interested.
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@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
17 Dec 23
@Shavkat Need and wish are two good weapons to learn something.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@marguicha You are right. My niece is learning these words in mind.
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
I agree with that. When I was a child, I am not interested in cooking. My family members do not pressure me about it because they are not confident that I can prepare good meals. Now that the queen of our house passed away, I do not have a choice but to learn it. At this point, I must say that I had improved in the cooking department lately.
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@crossbones27 (49723)
• Mojave, California
17 Dec 23
Any age is all it takes. I once wanted cookies. I read the directions and every thing. I think I was 13 or maybe 15. These are like sugar cookies. I love sugar but dumping a bag of sugar on a cookie sheet did not sound like I would make it out alive so I figured better read the instructions.
Came out perfect, and even my little sister was like I thought you would screw it up, but these are good. See what kind of support I get. Why I never cook for no one other than my self, do not want to ruin my reputation that I can cook when I want.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
I must say during my medical mission in Tajikistan, I was struggling what to cook for myself. Eventually, I learned how make spaghetti with modified ingredients there. Although I cut down eating rice at that time and lose 10 kg. It was funny because when I got back home, my parents did not recognized me.
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@crossbones27 (49723)
• Mojave, California
17 Dec 23
@Shavkat See, you could have been in the Marines. You do not want to hear some of the funny stories out of MRE's meals they make, can make bombs too, but they Marines. Please, don't let that get out, world is dangerous enough.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
@crossbones27 I think I am suitable to be a marine. I wondered if they will handle me when craving certain meals.
@RebeccasFarm (90464)
• Arvada, Colorado
17 Dec 23
These days it is just myself and son.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@RebeccasFarm Nice. It is a forbidden place for him.
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@RebeccasFarm (90464)
• Arvada, Colorado
18 Dec 23
@Shavkat No he stays out of the kitchen.
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@Deepizzaguy (104150)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Dec 23
I cook meals for myself since my older sister has a rule to make our meals when she needs her rest at night.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
My mom used to do this at home. At first, I am not into it. When I started to learn it by heart, I can feel the importance of having the cooking skills. Along the process, I am encouraging my oldest niece to learn cooking or baking with me.
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@capirani (2840)
• United States
18 Dec 23
I started learning how to help my mom cook before I was 10 years old. I love cooking, But now I live alone so do not cook as often as I would like. My apartment is too small for any kind of real cooking, but I do some of that at least a few times a month. I have almost always cooked large quantities, however, as those can be put in the freezer for future meals when I don't feel like making anything, Even with delivered food, like pizza, I tend to order larger quantities for the same reason. I mean, those delivery charges add up. So get what you can in one trip, right? Now when I do cook a big meal with lots of leftovers, I do like to share it with neighbors when I can.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
I can feel you on this matter. When I was still in Tajikistan, I am leaving alone at my place. The cooking part was a struggled situation. If I can sense that there will be a lot of leftover, I sometimes invite my local friends to eat with me at that time.
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@LeaPea2417 (37379)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Dec 23
I prepare meals for my family regularly.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
18 Dec 23
It's great to hear that you're taking the initiative to cook not only for yourself but also for your family, and it's admirable that you're passing on your cooking skills to your 12-year-old niece.
I regularly cook for me and my husband
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
Most Filipino children learned how to cook rice at an early age in the past. But now, some children are relying on their parents to do so. In my family, the kids need to learn household chores.
I assumed that your husband helps you when cooking, right? If my siblings are around, they do not let me cook in the house.
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Dec 23
I've learned to cook since I was a kid. When I was 9 years old I already know how to cook rice, there was no rice cooker at that time, then I learned how to fry fish also at a young age. I am also the one tasked by my mother to buy fish at the market because I know what kinds of fish my mother wants. I've learned some cooking from my kapampangan aunt who I always watch while she cooks our meal and I act as assistant lol.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
My siblings and I learned how to cook rice at the same age. We also cook without the rice cooker and even hand wash our clothes at that time. The feeling is so relieved when they bought the rice cooker and laundry. The cooking per se, it was not really my thing not until now.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@florelway I also have tight schedule lately. The good thing is I can do cooking since I am working from home. In this situation, I am taking the chances to learn and do it. If I could still remember, you are working in a local government there, right?
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Dec 23
@Shavkat I still love to cook but cannot do it often because of my tight schedule. We even hire cook for our small cafeteria.
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@wolfgirl569 (108126)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Dec 23
When they are ready to learn. It varies by child and what they are learning to cook
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@PinkFloydFan (1101)
• United States
17 Dec 23
Just me. I've been microwaving my food since 19 when I moved out. I remember cooking tacos, and thought, "All this work, and it's going to take me 2 minutes to eat" and then I'd get sick of eating it, and I didn't want to just store it in the freezer, so I haven't cooked in 20 years.
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@TraveOnWorld (854)
• Georgia
17 Dec 23
If I'm with family, I normally do the all the cooking. For some reason they see cooking as work and for them it is good if I give them a break from "working" in the kitchen
I think children should learn to cook from a very young age. I was never taught to cook and it was a real difficulty when I left the house. I lived off instant food for a very long time and it was bad for my health.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
When I was young, I was not also taught how to cook. My parents tried to teach me, but it did not last for long. They knew that I am not interested in cooking. Now, I am quite regretful because I want some meals. However, I have not tried to cook them yet. It will take time before I can be so confident in doing them.