Do you typically prepare meals for other people or just yourself?

@Shavkat (140119)
Philippines
December 16, 2023 8:46pm CST
As for me, I usually cook not only for myself but also for my family members. My siblings are far better at cooking than me. Since my siblings are always out for work, I do not have a choice but to cook at home. Besides, I wanted to learn it. It is a regretful matter for not asking my mom to teach me to do it. Along the way, I am teaching my 12-year-old niece to cook. So that, she will know what to do when no one will cook in the house. At what age do you think a child learns how to cook? Image Credit: bansaloilandfoods.com
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@sallypup (61627)
• Centralia, Washington
17 Dec 23
Even a five year old or younger- depends on the child- can help measure out things for baking. Teaching a child to cook or bake is also a way to teach simple math skills- a half a cup versus a quarter cup.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
You said it right. Today, I taught my niece to learn the measurement of making "dorayaki" or Japanese pancakes. She learned how to make them.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@sallypup You said it right. I can see that she is starting to like baking and cooking lately.
@sallypup (61627)
• Centralia, Washington
17 Dec 23
@Shavkat You are making good memories with your niece.
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@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
17 Dec 23
I think that the only way anyone can learn anything is by wanting to do it. So children want to learn how to cook and some are not interested.
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@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
17 Dec 23
@Shavkat Need and wish are two good weapons to learn something.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@marguicha You are right. My niece is learning these words in mind.
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
I agree with that. When I was a child, I am not interested in cooking. My family members do not pressure me about it because they are not confident that I can prepare good meals. Now that the queen of our house passed away, I do not have a choice but to learn it. At this point, I must say that I had improved in the cooking department lately.
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@crossbones27 (49723)
• Mojave, California
17 Dec 23
Any age is all it takes. I once wanted cookies. I read the directions and every thing. I think I was 13 or maybe 15. These are like sugar cookies. I love sugar but dumping a bag of sugar on a cookie sheet did not sound like I would make it out alive so I figured better read the instructions. Came out perfect, and even my little sister was like I thought you would screw it up, but these are good. See what kind of support I get. Why I never cook for no one other than my self, do not want to ruin my reputation that I can cook when I want.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
I must say during my medical mission in Tajikistan, I was struggling what to cook for myself. Eventually, I learned how make spaghetti with modified ingredients there. Although I cut down eating rice at that time and lose 10 kg. It was funny because when I got back home, my parents did not recognized me.
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• Mojave, California
17 Dec 23
@Shavkat See, you could have been in the Marines. You do not want to hear some of the funny stories out of MRE's meals they make, can make bombs too, but they Marines. Please, don't let that get out, world is dangerous enough.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
@crossbones27 I think I am suitable to be a marine. I wondered if they will handle me when craving certain meals.
@RebeccasFarm (90464)
• Arvada, Colorado
17 Dec 23
These days it is just myself and son.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
I am sure he loves what you cook for him. Does he also cook for both of you?
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@RebeccasFarm Nice. It is a forbidden place for him.
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• Arvada, Colorado
18 Dec 23
@Shavkat No he stays out of the kitchen.
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
17 Dec 23
I always cook for my husband and myself. My cousin (who became a Chef) started the cooking school at the age of 9.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
He is a master chef by now. If my parents only encourage me more, I might be a chef now. At present, I realized that I can cook proper meals.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@LadyDuck I bet they have their own restaurants, right? Do they vlog their cooking stunts?
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@LadyDuck (472074)
• Switzerland
18 Dec 23
@Shavkat My cousin is a pretty well known Chef in Italy, his son is also a Chef now. He studied for many years and traveled to several countries to learn different kinds of cuisine.
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@Deepizzaguy (104150)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Dec 23
I cook meals for myself since my older sister has a rule to make our meals when she needs her rest at night.
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@Deepizzaguy (104150)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Dec 23
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
It is my wife who prepares our meals. She is more capable than we are at doing it. That is a useful life skill to have because you can use it for both yourself and your loved ones.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@Shavkat Well done. That seems almost like a blessing in disguise—you succeeded, and congratulations on your newfound appreciation and love for it. Having this life skill is incredibly beneficial.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@rsa101 I wish I could let my mother have some of my masterpieces in the kitchen.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
My mom used to do this at home. At first, I am not into it. When I started to learn it by heart, I can feel the importance of having the cooking skills. Along the process, I am encouraging my oldest niece to learn cooking or baking with me.
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@capirani (2840)
• United States
18 Dec 23
I started learning how to help my mom cook before I was 10 years old. I love cooking, But now I live alone so do not cook as often as I would like. My apartment is too small for any kind of real cooking, but I do some of that at least a few times a month. I have almost always cooked large quantities, however, as those can be put in the freezer for future meals when I don't feel like making anything, Even with delivered food, like pizza, I tend to order larger quantities for the same reason. I mean, those delivery charges add up. So get what you can in one trip, right? Now when I do cook a big meal with lots of leftovers, I do like to share it with neighbors when I can.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
I can feel you on this matter. When I was still in Tajikistan, I am leaving alone at my place. The cooking part was a struggled situation. If I can sense that there will be a lot of leftover, I sometimes invite my local friends to eat with me at that time.
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@jstory07 (139974)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 Dec 23
I mostly just cook for my husband and me.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
I am sure he offers his helping hand when cooking certain meals. I sometimes ask my niece to help me out. Since I am living with my immediate family, I need to consider the food budget.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@jstory07 Speaking of this, my other siblings do this thing.
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@jstory07 (139974)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Dec 23
@Shavkat He fixes stuff on the grill all the time.
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@LeaPea2417 (37379)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Dec 23
I prepare meals for my family regularly.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
When my left us and joined our God in heaven, I was forced to learn how to cook and do it regularly now. Don't get me wrong,. It is a good thing to cook for the immediatel family.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
18 Dec 23
It's great to hear that you're taking the initiative to cook not only for yourself but also for your family, and it's admirable that you're passing on your cooking skills to your 12-year-old niece. I regularly cook for me and my husband
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
It is always a good feeling when cooking for the immediate family and eating together. Guess what? The number one food critic is my dog. If he did not eat the food cooked, then it is a failed attempt.
@thelme55 (77165)
• Germany
17 Dec 23
I prepare meals for my husband as well as for the lady I am care giving of. I think it depends on the child. I learned how to cook rice and eggs when I was 7.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
Most Filipino children learned how to cook rice at an early age in the past. But now, some children are relying on their parents to do so. In my family, the kids need to learn household chores. I assumed that your husband helps you when cooking, right? If my siblings are around, they do not let me cook in the house.
@dya80dya (36774)
17 Dec 23
I am cooking only for myself because cooking for many people is too difficult. I never liked to cook, but I cook some easy meals. I don't have the energy to cook for many people.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
I can only cook for my immediate family, since I am not confident that I can do this. Although it is a good training ground for me to polish my cooking skills, Thus, I can make food even if I am in another place.
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Dec 23
I've learned to cook since I was a kid. When I was 9 years old I already know how to cook rice, there was no rice cooker at that time, then I learned how to fry fish also at a young age. I am also the one tasked by my mother to buy fish at the market because I know what kinds of fish my mother wants. I've learned some cooking from my kapampangan aunt who I always watch while she cooks our meal and I act as assistant lol.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
My siblings and I learned how to cook rice at the same age. We also cook without the rice cooker and even hand wash our clothes at that time. The feeling is so relieved when they bought the rice cooker and laundry. The cooking per se, it was not really my thing not until now.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
19 Dec 23
@florelway I also have tight schedule lately. The good thing is I can do cooking since I am working from home. In this situation, I am taking the chances to learn and do it. If I could still remember, you are working in a local government there, right?
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Dec 23
@Shavkat I still love to cook but cannot do it often because of my tight schedule. We even hire cook for our small cafeteria.
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@May2k8 (18391)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 23
I'm an eater, not a cook.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
I used to be like you, but not anymore.
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@wolfgirl569 (108126)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Dec 23
When they are ready to learn. It varies by child and what they are learning to cook
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
I agree. I always ask my niece what she likes to cook. So that I can still fuel her interest in cooking.
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• United States
17 Dec 23
Just me. I've been microwaving my food since 19 when I moved out. I remember cooking tacos, and thought, "All this work, and it's going to take me 2 minutes to eat" and then I'd get sick of eating it, and I didn't want to just store it in the freezer, so I haven't cooked in 20 years.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Dec 23
If I am living by myself, I might be like you at present. Since we have some kids here in the house, I need to push myself to cook slow food as much as possible.
• Georgia
17 Dec 23
If I'm with family, I normally do the all the cooking. For some reason they see cooking as work and for them it is good if I give them a break from "working" in the kitchen I think children should learn to cook from a very young age. I was never taught to cook and it was a real difficulty when I left the house. I lived off instant food for a very long time and it was bad for my health.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Dec 23
When I was young, I was not also taught how to cook. My parents tried to teach me, but it did not last for long. They knew that I am not interested in cooking. Now, I am quite regretful because I want some meals. However, I have not tried to cook them yet. It will take time before I can be so confident in doing them.