Missing You

@Kandae11 (55131)
February 17, 2024 6:45pm CST
Today February 17th is the 1st anniversary of my mother's death - and the pain is still there. During the earlier months if something terribly interesting happened l would reach for my phone to call her and discuss whatever it was - then reality would hit me and l would face the fact that she is gone, forever. I can never talk to her on the phone or face to face ever again. This is so hard. I miss her so much.
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Juliaacv
@Juliaacv (51453)
• Canada
18 Feb
I am sorry that you are enduring this. It is so hard when we usually reach out to them for chats on the phone and they are no more. I'm sure that she is looking down on you from above.
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Juliaacv
@Juliaacv (51453)
• Canada
18 Feb
Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
Thank you very much.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (90295)
• Arvada, Colorado
18 Feb
I am so sorry for your grief Kandase..we only have one Mother RIP yours and mine. I know the feeling very well.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (90295)
• Arvada, Colorado
18 Feb
@Kandae11 You are welcome friend..yes very very good.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
Thank you . Especially when that mother has been a very good mother.
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vikingswest
@Vikingswest1 (6304)
• United States
18 Feb
My thoughts are with you today.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
Thank you very much.
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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl
@1creekgirl (41686)
• United States
18 Feb
Kandase, I know this is so hard for you. Sounds like you were blessed with a wonderful mother.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
I was, thank you.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (341743)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb
My mother has been gone ten years but I still miss her just as much as I did when she first passed away.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
I can understand.
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M Cheung
@Beestring (14672)
• Hong Kong
18 Feb
I can understand your feeling. My mom passed more than 20 years ago. I still miss her a lot.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
She was my rock.
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Heather Echola
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
18 Feb
I have many people I miss that I would love to talk to and just chat.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
I understand how it can be.
Amber
@AmbiePam (93739)
• United States
18 Feb
My heart goes out to you. Our mothers are so special, and I imagine your pain is just so tremendous.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
She was also my best friend.
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snowy
@snowy22315 (181948)
• United States
18 Feb
Awww,. Could you still talk to her? I know she won't be able to answer you..but who really knows what those who pass on might be able to sense.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
I should try.
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Feb
Sorry for your loss. You will miss her forever.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
She is in my heart forever.
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RasmaSandra
@RasmaSandra (80635)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Feb
I know what that missing is . I lost my mom back in 1996 but still the missing goes on. I am sure she is with you in sprit. On anniversaries I usually light a candle,
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
Thank you for the thought. I will light a candle.
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
18 Feb
I am so sorry, I believe it is extremelly hard. Our moms should be eternal.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
When we lose a loved one we can't take a pill to ease the pain.
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
18 Feb
@Kandae11 we can't, unfortunately that is true.
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Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
18 Feb
Mothers are so special. It is so hard to loss them. My mom will be gone 10 years on the 25th. I miss her so much. Thinking of you and sending virtusl hugs.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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18 Feb
Thank you.
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Diana
@dya80dya (36773)
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19 Feb
I still have my mom, but I miss my grandmother a lot. We talked often and she loved me a lot. I am very sorry for your loss. When time passes we miss them more and more.
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Kandase
@Kandae11 (55131)
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19 Feb
Make the most of every day.
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Diana
@dya80dya (36773)
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21 Feb
@Kandae11 We argue a lot. I wish we had a better relationship. I will try to make the most of every day.
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