3/1/24 - Update on My Husband
By LindaOH
@LindaOHio (184856)
United States
March 1, 2024 4:50am CST
I am feeling cautiously optimistic.
Hubby was very lucid yesterday, chatty and more like himself. He still thinks there is a movie out on his life; and he has trouble remembering details about our house. I am hoping he will gradually come out of that. I am thinking more and more that this was hospital delirium and not totally dementia. I'm not saying that he does NOT have dementia in some capacity because of the incidents that happened 3 or 4 months ago; but all the acting out, getting restrained, getting out of bed, not eating, has stopped.
He ate a good portion of his entree yesterday; and he said that he fed himself for breakfast. That's excellent. He is still having trouble grasping and holding things with his left hand. That will need to be addressed. Rehab's diagnosis of dementia and having to put him in long-term care seems to be incorrect.
The big obstacles to his coming home will be getting him through the surgery and then rehab.
Your continued support is so appreciated!
Photo Credit: Pixabay
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33 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
1 Mar 24
Oh Linda i love reading these posotive updates. So happy to hear that hubby is improving. He just needed the proper care. Sounds like he is in a good place now there they really care about him and his health. Continued prayers. 
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
1 Mar 24
I think our visits help too by giving him familiar faces.
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@marguicha (225707)
• Chile
2 Mar 24
I dearly hope that all this will soon be part of an old nightmare. Take care
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@marguicha (225707)
• Chile
2 Mar 24
@LindaOHio From what you wrote, it seems that he is a bit better.
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
13 Mar 24
@kareng Nope. He was transferred to another floor -- Surgical ICU at Cleveland Clinic.
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
11 Mar 24
Thank you, Karen. He will be going back to rehab possibly today.
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@LadyDuck (472506)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 24
@LindaOHio This is depressing, I hope he is not in pain.
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
2 Mar 24
@LadyDuck Yes, he's in pain. I just called him; and they are transferring him today!
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@Marilynda1225 (84105)
• United States
1 Mar 24
That does sound optimistic Linda and I hope and pray that he is able to come home eventually. I'm sure seeing you has helped too.
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@Marilynda1225 (84105)
• United States
2 Mar 24
@LindaOHio let's hope that he keeps improving
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
3 Mar 24
@Marilynda1225 Two weeks ago you wouldn't have recognized him. He has gotten over that "hospital delirium" for the most part.
@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
2 Mar 24
I know the visits have helped. He is improving every day.
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@Deepizzaguy (107990)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Mar 24
My pleasure to be praying for the recovery of your husband.
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@Deepizzaguy (107990)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Mar 24
@LindaOHio You are welcome.
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@jobelbojel (36595)
• Philippines
1 Mar 24
Good to hear about the positive update.
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@1creekgirl (43032)
• United States
2 Mar 24
Linda, that is an answer to so many prayers from all the people who love you both! Thank you for keeping us posted.
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
2 Mar 24
You're very welcome. They are transferring him to Cleveland Clinic today.
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@lovebuglena (45862)
• Staten Island, New York
1 Mar 24
It’s bad when patients are misdiagnosed. Things seem to be improving, so that’s a positive thing. Hope it only gets better from here.
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@lovebuglena (45862)
• Staten Island, New York
2 Mar 24
@LindaOHio He has to come back home finally...
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@RasmaSandra (83324)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Mar 24
I am glad to hear that things are improving and I hope the surgery will go well. I was just thinking that if his left had has problems somewhere along the line he might have had a stroke. Many blessings to you both and I keep praying,
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
2 Mar 24
Turns out he's having problems with both hands. I need to ask someone about that.
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@MarieCoyle (41969)
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1 Mar 24
I am sure it really does your heart good to see improvements! Hopefully, he will continue to improve. I am sure it really helps that he gets to see you and his sister every day, and that's no doubt a lot of the reason of his improvement. It's amazing what seeing loved ones can do for a person. It sounds like he is in a good facility with good care, which can mean so much.
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@LindaOHio (184856)
• United States
2 Mar 24
I'm more than encouraged by his recovery.
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