How do we draw a line between frugal living and being a miserly?
By Anish Asokan
@RevivedWarrior (2097)
India
September 17, 2024 1:20pm CST
I have been a being follower of minimalist lifestyle or frugal living. I am only interested in mindful spending and cutting back on my expenses. This has helped me in exercising a good control on the rising expenses and my income. I am ok to be living a simple life especially when you have high debt. I am aiming to be debt free in a few years.
Many of my near and dear ones has been calling me miser! They are asking to enjoy the luxuries of life, parties and foreign travels and expensive purchases. While I am not prioritizing money on everything above me, I do reduce unnecessary expenses and look at smart ways to earn and reduce expenses. It is neither at the cost of comfort or my well-being. I am interested in quality and not on cheap resources. None of these near and dear ones are willing to help me financially on my personal finance.
So, how do we draw a line between frugal living and being miserly?
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12 responses
@Deepizzaguy (102302)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Sep
I am just happy living in a home in a nice neighborhood with the basic needs of having a computer for writing, a streaming television to see classic shows and sporting events like bowling.
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
You are happy with the things you just need. We do not need things to clutter our space and eat our money.Thanks for sharing!
@kaylachan (68980)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Sep
By doing what is right for you. Be sure to measure what you want vs what you need. Do the ends justify the means. For example, if you're required to travel, don't be afraid to spend a little more to enjoy the journey. However, that doesn't mean that you need to let others presure into doing something you're not comfortable doing. Decide where it's worth spending the money.
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
You are correct- I am only spending whats worth spending not otherwise around. Thanks for sharing!
@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
Minimalist lifestyle has made me simple and appreciate of thngs in life. Thanks for sharing!
@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
Well, that is also something I do . I do not want to buy unneccessary items . Thanks.
@anya12adwi (9144)
• India
17 Sep
You might chalk out some budget for the luxuries of life. That way you would enjoy and won't feel guilty!
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
I could think about that idea.Even if small to begin with , it could help .Thanks for sharing!
@pitsipeahie (5015)
•
18 Sep
As long as your spending choices support your goals and well-being without depriving yourself unnecessarily at the cost of your own comfort or enjoyment, then you’re likely on the right track.
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
Spot on - I do not feel I am depriving myself from my comfort. Getting out of the due is my biggest comfort. Thanks for sharing!
@popciclecold (38579)
• United States
18 Sep
@RevivedWarrior You are very welcomed.
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@snowy22315 (180080)
• United States
17 Sep
That is a good question. I guess if you are enjoying yourself it is frugal, if not, it is wisely
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
I am enjoying my life and living within my means. I am just frugal . Thanks for sharing
@nela13 (58534)
• Portugal
18 Sep
@RevivedWarrior In that case it is definitely better to ignore.
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
18 Sep
I have basic things to live . Others just want to give suggestions where as they never did anything financial help for me. So , I choose to ignore. Thanks for sharing!
@porwest (89689)
• United States
19 Sep
For me, frugality is not only a lifestyle and a good way to be about money. But it is also a means to an end. Frugality is what has allowed me to accumulate wealth and be more free with money when I choose to be. As I have always said, save on the things you need so you can afford the things you want.
Money earned is never considered money only to be spent. I save. I invest. And those investments then offer dividends, interest and returns. The principal can be left alone, while the proceeds can be used however I want. To replace income. To go on a vacation or buy something I really want. Or create an offset so I don't have to compromise somewhere where I do not want to. Or I can simply reinvest it so I can earn even more on it.
Being frugal allowed me to have a much more comfortable life. It's allowed me to choose where I want to work, where I want to live, the kind of car I want to drive and so many other things.
Being miserly to me means you don't want to enjoy your money at any point. I am not like that. I don't like spending money where I do not have to. But I want money to work for ME when I want it to. Frugality is what lets me do that.
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
25 Oct
Exactly - frugality allows you to enjoy what you need and be comfortable . Thats the key difference. Thanks for sharing!
@cabuyogty (2984)
• Philippines
20 Sep
It's good to be a minimalist at least you can watch how you can spend money, your room looks very clean and that was my opinion about being a miserly
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@cabuyogty (2984)
• Philippines
26 Oct
@RevivedWarrior Thank you friend! I have to stay control with my budget and always do that thing.
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@RevivedWarrior (2097)
• India
25 Oct
That's so true -we would have better control on cash flow. Thanks for sharing!