Waiting is Wasting Time?!?

@Shavkat (140157)
Philippines
October 30, 2024 10:15am CST
One of the good online work perks is that I do not waste my time while waiting for my student to enter the class. For the reason that I can be here. If it is an offline thing, I really cannot bear waiting for someone or something to start. It will definitely trigger my mood swing. Now I am hoping that she will not attend the class. Can you wait for someone or something for a long period of time?
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@grenery8 (11245)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
30 Oct
i'm having troubles after 20 minutes and it shows disrespect.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
30 Oct
You said it right. If they do this, I always feel disrespected. Thus, there will be no next time to meet them.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
31 Oct
@grenery8 I am glad that you cut the tie with her. For me, she can even hear some words that she might not swallow. It is not your loss; it is hers.
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@grenery8 (11245)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
31 Oct
@Shavkat precisely.i had that experience with a friend or more of an acquintance on college. It wasn't 20 minutes,it was 10ish but every time she was late and i told her it was bothering me while she laughed it off and didn't care.and ok,one time, i was late, it was a traffic jam and she was mad,imagine this.it was a play in cinema and she said she will leave my ticket at a reception.not sure did she got her ticket back or the money,i texted if one time you can't wait for me,like i waited for you every time,then you keep the ticket,i'm not coming.we didn't contact each other after that.maybe i did her but maybe.it was all crystal clear what kind of friendship it was.if i endulged her,all good.one time without indulging and story was finished. Maybe i was too harsh,not flexible but i felt disrespected cause,my time was important too.
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@much2say (56444)
• Los Angeles, California
30 Oct
I don't like to wait, but sometimes we just have to. Sometimes it's worth it . . . sometimes it's useless - and those are the kinds that make me mad.
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@much2say (56444)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Nov
@Shavkat Did you ever walk away and realized later that you should have waited ?
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
3 Nov
@much2say If I did this, there is no turning back even if I should not do it.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
30 Oct
I agree. If it is worth it, I can wait. If it is not that important, it is better to walk away.
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@nela13 (58709)
• Portugal
30 Oct
Waiting isn't pleasant but sometimes we all wait for something or someone.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
30 Oct
If it is really an important, I am willing to wait.
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@nela13 (58709)
• Portugal
31 Oct
@Shavkat I think it is that way for everyone.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
3 Nov
@nela13 Deep inside, I am feeling the anger for waiting that too long.
@dgobucks226 (35806)
1 Nov
Like you I dislike wasting time. I am very task oriented probably too much, but anything or anyone who disrupts my planning or if something takes too long to accomplish, I find that extremely irritating.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
3 Nov
We are on the same page. If someone did this, I will surely call his or her attention about it.
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• India
31 Oct
I do not think no one would like to wait whether it is online or in physical world. Definitely it is waste o time. However, we cannot get frustrated because of that and have to make the best of time. Either we mylot or learn or read or call some of the old friends. Make the best of the time available. True , online , you have options to do a few other things compared to offline as you could do other things without bothering too much. I have waited long time while calling Government agencies and have absolutely hated it. Well, recollect few times I am cancelling meetings as team did not join even after 10 minutes. Well, got to live with patience!
@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
31 Oct
It is also the same thing here. Most local government agencies work so slow like a snail. Despite upgrading their systems, they became slower than before.
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@somewitch (1423)
31 Oct
I dislike wasting time, and it surely hits differently when it's someone else's fault. I mean, I waste a lot of time on my own already. It's cool to stay productive while waiting, it is not always possible but if you can, that's great.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
31 Oct
When I was in my younger years, it is fine not to do anything during my idle time. Now, I need to use my time wisely. I cannot afford to waste it.
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@allknowing (138315)
• India
31 Oct
I do not make other people wait and I hate it when I am asked to wait
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
31 Oct
I also do not like that. I am always on time and never want others to wait too long.
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• Philippines
31 Oct
It depends. When I was young I am so patient, but as I get old, I become so impatient even on other things.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
31 Oct
I must say that I am the kindest person to those people who have acquainted with me in the past. Now there is no chance for me to be one.
@wolfgirl569 (108824)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Oct
I don't like to
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
30 Oct
It really wasted our time.
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@JudyEv (342466)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Oct
I always have a book in the car so I don't get impatient when I have to wait somewhere.
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
31 Oct
That is a good idea. I was reminded  of having a novel in my bag. If it happens again, I might have to read it while waiting.
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@aureategloom (11024)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Oct
if i know in advance that there's a chance that i'll have to wait for something or someone - i'm fine with it, i can wait. but i don't like "unexpected" waiting, like when the bus is late, or when there's only one cashier and then she needs to go somewhere to find "the code" or the thing someone wants. that can be annoying
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@Shavkat (140157)
• Philippines
31 Oct
I do not like waiting on queues. It will make me annoyed a hundred percent.