They celebrated me royally for my delayed birthday!!
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (40983)
February 8, 2025 5:35pm CST
On my actual birthday, the weather and the roads were not the best for any highway/interstate travel. Since I was born in January in Chicago, I am totally used to this, and have had many birthdays that we celebrated on a different day, it doesn't matter, I just love spending time with family and friends.
My oldest daughter and son in law and I celebrated in a quiet but fun day. We went to Barnes and Noble(all three of us are big readers) had coffee and walked around looking at all the books, etc. Then they took me to a wonderful (but way to expensive!) local restaurant and I had a delicioius dinner. Chicken Marsela with fresh sauted spinach and mushrooms, tiny roasted potatoes, delicious bread. and a wonderful salad. The portions were big enough for about 3 people!! That was packaged up to take home, and we ordered coffee.
Then they surprised me with a delicious lemon cream cake that was absolutely to die for...and of course, I had to take most of that home as well, it was all just too much food. But so good!
One of my son's friends came over and stayed with him. The friend wanted to, and they both had decided to eat (weird combo, but guys can be weird) pizza and spaghetti. I made the spaghetti sauce before I left, and the friend brought the pizza--he had made it at home knowing how my son likes homemade pizza!! The plan was that I would bring them a dinner if they wanted it, but this is what they preferred. His friend said they ate and watched a movie and my son fell asleep during the movie, but when I got home they were watching TV.
It was so nice to be celebrated and I had such a good meal and wonderful company. My other son and his family are all down with influenza--they seem to be taking turns having it, and do not want me to get it so I have not seen any of them for several weeks. My daughter (the daughter I was with) recently had surgery and has been resting and recovering, so we were really celebrating her as well as me, I guess.
I felt guilty for going out, in a way, since my son wasn't up to it. But he said they had a great time and good food and talked computers and such, which is what he likes--so I guess it was a nice evening for them, too. It was so nice of his friend to do this for us, he is a busy man with a young family.
It's so wonderful when friends offer to pitch in at times. And this friend made my son's day a lot better, I am very thankful!! It was a very full day for me, I had to get the at-home stuff done so I could hand over the reins and be gone for awhile, and then when I did get home, it started sleeting/icing about 3 miles from home. But I made it before it got too slick, yay!
That was my delayed birthday celebration. I could not imagine that anyone had a better evening for their birthday than this, I am so thankful for my kiddos!
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
Amber, I felt so spoiled!! It was wonderful. Thank you! 

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@sjvg1976 (41710)
• Delhi, India
9 Feb
@MarieCoyle family get togethers are always important for me.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
That's really nice that your family can all be there to celebrate with you!
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
@sjvg1976
They are for me, as well. I am very thankful for my little family.
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@Juliaacv (52307)
• Canada
9 Feb
Happy Belated Birthday!
I am so happy for you to have been able to celebrate as you did.
And for everything to fall into place like it did, a friend to hang out with your son while you were gone, and making it home before the roads got dangerous, that was great.
Time spent with family is always THE best time.

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@Juliaacv (52307)
• Canada
9 Feb
@MarieCoyle I think that is great, you deserve it.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
I soaked up every minute, and gasp special and spoiled! Thanks, Julia!
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@DaddyEvil (141817)
• United States
9 Feb
Happy belated birthday! I'm glad everything worked out for you and your son. 

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@rakski (132919)
• Philippines
9 Feb
@MarieCoyle that's great, I'm sure you enjoyed it
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
@rakski
I really did. They are so good to me. Thank you.
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@Deepizzaguy (106761)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Feb
I am happy for you that enjoyed your birthday celebration even though it was delayed due to the bad weather.
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@Deepizzaguy (106761)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Feb
@MarieCoyle You are welcome.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
@kareng
It was wonderful, but like all good things, it flew by very fast!
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
Thank you. I am just glad we all had a good day at last, it was long overdue!
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@snowy22315 (185371)
• United States
8 Feb
Happy Belated Birthday! It sounds like it was a great day for you, and I bet your son enjoyed the time to hang with his buddy too A win, win for all 





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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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8 Feb
Yes, the son definitely needs to see friends, it always perks him up so much. It was a huge win-win, for sure. Thank you, Snowy. 

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@marguicha (225020)
• Chile
9 Feb
I´m glad that you had such a good birthday party.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
Thank you, Marga. It was wonderful and well worth waiting for!
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@kaylachan (75131)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Feb
I'm glad you had a late birthday celebration. I bet you enjoyed it.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
I did. It wouldn't matter if it was hamburgers or gourmet, as long as I get to spend time with the kids. Thank you.
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@id_peace (14916)
• Singapore
9 Feb
@MarieCoyle a pity for us, there isn’t too many bookstores in my area these days. Online books are everywhere but I still like to hold on to physical books.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
My daughter and son in law live books and love to read. We have several favorite book stores we visit, but we had gift cards so we went to Barnes. I can’t hardly ever pass up a book store!
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
@id_peace
I am old fashioned enough to really prefer a book to hold in my hand. I think the only reason we have so many bookstores here is that we have a huge college campus. I could literally spend days in a bookstore!
@FourWalls (71505)
• United States
9 Feb
A belated happy birthday to you! I’m glad you had a great time, and I’m also very thankful that your son had a friend to come over and “geek out” with (and spaghetti and pizza isn’t all that weird!).
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
Those two fellows love spaghetti and pizza. They claim they eat the pizza instead of garlic bread? Hey, whatever works. I was so happy that he had a friend over to visit with. Ol' Mom is good to hang out with, but everyone needs a friend or two. This guy had my son in his wedding party, he came to the hospital when son was in the horrible wreck, and he is a really nice guy. I appreciate him, and I told him that. Thank you, Karen. 



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@wolfgirl569 (111794)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Feb
Glad you had a great time. You deserved it. Sounds like your son did too
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
He did, but he’s been pretty wiped out today. His friend said he would do it again sometime. So nice of him!
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@celticeagle (171528)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Feb
Sounds like a wonderful meal. Happy belated birthday. You have such a lovely family.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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9 Feb
I don't know what I ever did right to deserve the wonderful and caring kids I have. Thank you so, so much.
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@much2say (57209)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Feb
Happy belated birthday to you, Marie! [
em]hugs[/em]
Sounds like you had a most lovely day of celebration with family
- that's the best
and was worth the wait. It's good that your son enjoyed time with his friend too. A special day with special people for a special mom 

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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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16 Feb
@much2say
Awe...shucks....
Thanks again, it means a lot!

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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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11 Feb
I honestly was rather surprised it all fell together and I was able to go, as I didn't think there was anyone to stay here with him that day. I got lucky!
Thank you so much for your very kind words!! 

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@noni1959 (10234)
• United States
11 Feb
@MarieCoyle Oh, it doesn't sound weird!! It sounds so good!! Now I want one.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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11 Feb
@noni1959
We were so impressed with that dessert...my son in law, who is really a gourmet cook in his nonexistent spare time, wants us to try to recreate that cake sometime soon. He loves doing that.
@MarieCoyle (40983)
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10 Feb
Oh, that cake!! And the topping had shreds of candied lemon rind--sounds weird, but it was absolutely delicious! Thank you!
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@lilacskies (4537)
• United States
9 Feb
That's wonderful! I never celebrated my birthday before.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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10 Feb
@lilacskies
It's not always about gifts, although of course it's wonderful to get them. For me, it means a lot to know that people love and care enough to think of me on my birthday. I am sorry you spent your birthday alone.
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@MarieCoyle (40983)
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10 Feb
Most people I know get cards, usually a gift from close family and sometimes a friend or two...for years, when the kids were all young, I always let them pick what they wanted me to cook for their birthday dinner and what cake they preferred if they didn't have a favorite. It's just a time to show the person that you care, and you are glad they are here with us.
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@lilacskies (4537)
• United States
10 Feb
@MarieCoyle That's really sweet! I did get gift cards for my birthday, but I just spent it alone and saved up my gift cards to give gifts back. Lol!
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