Sister Trip Reserved

@AmbiePam (96186)
United States
February 25, 2025 1:06pm CST
The sister trip is official, and I’m actually looking forward to it. You might remember my sister wanted to take me on a sister trip, and (for some reason despite her own 4 trips) was intent on it being Disneyland. The problem was she wanted to leave on a Monday and come back on a Wednesday. That’s not doable for me (bad back, fibromyalgia). She apparently started to really think about what she was talking about because she came back (very kindly) with a few changes. She has reserved me a scooter to use wherever we go (I’ll use it, but feel stupid doing it), she has extended our stay from Monday to Thursday, giving us an extra day. That was huge since I flat out told her I couldn’t do such a rushed trip. And, she found things to do other than just roaming the parks, although we’ll do both. She also told me even with her kids, she never stays past early afternoon. In addition, she sprung for, what do you call it, a fast pass? Where you don’t have to wait as long in line? Plus, she sent me videos of all the really tame rides, and there are a lot. I’m doing the Ferris Wheel quite a few times as I love that. Those concessions, along with some extra info from a few Disneyland fans (you know who you are) made me think I could do it. It’s not going to be until the fall when it’s cooler and cheaper, but most importantly I’ll be with my sister. The picture is of the macaroni and cheese they offer at the Princess Breakfast. Looks good, doesn’t it? I also appreciate those who advised against it. But with all the things she did to make it easier, I felt like it was doable. Even my dad, not in favor, was like, hey, even he could probably do that (although he won’t, lol) I’m actually getting excited. The big thing was the extra day. It’s going to be fun.
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19 responses
@MarieCoyle (41190)
19h
I am so, so glad she somehow realized your limitations and went the extra mile for you. Don't feel stupid about a scooter, ever!! You don't want to miss out on life because you don't want to use a scooter!! I have a memory of a wonderful, special sister's trip my sister took me on before her illness overtook her and she couldn't walk anymore. I can remember the details of that trip like yesterday, and it was years ago. So glad it's all set and that you will be safe.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
18h
I appreciate it so much, Marie. I hope to have memories like yours.
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@MarieCoyle (41190)
18h
@AmbiePam It means a lot to me, since she is no longer with us. I will always miss her, she loved me and my kids so much. She couldn't have children, so she said mine partly belonged to her. And they miss her just as much as I still do. Thank you, Amber.
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@NJChicaa (121554)
• United States
20h
I'm so happy for you!
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
20h
Thanks so much!
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@Tampa_girl7 (51608)
• United States
19h
I am so excited for you. I know you will have a blast. The mac and cheese Mickey looks scrumptious.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
18h
Thank you for everything!
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@Tampa_girl7 (51608)
• United States
17h
@AmbiePam I can’t wait to here all about your sister trip.
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@sallypup (62972)
• Centralia, Washington
19h
Your sister sounds like she is going all out to give you a super fun time. Go, you! You're going to love that scooter. I'm happy for you.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
18h
I appreciate that so much, Lenore.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
16h
@sallypup I definitely will.
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@sallypup (62972)
• Centralia, Washington
17h
@AmbiePam I know its hard and I'm not one for doing this- but maybe try to build up a bit of strength before your trip? Even exercising from your chair?
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@Dreamerby (6734)
• Calcutta, India
20h
Yeah I too don't like rushed trips. Enjoy!!
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@lilacskies (5791)
• United States
18h
I'm really happy for you! And that looks like a really interesting dish in the picture!
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
18h
Thank you so much!
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• United States
18h
@AmbiePam You are welcome!
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@GardenGerty (162283)
• United States
14h
Wow, she did finally "hear" what you were saying. I am glad it is a trip you can look forward to now.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
14h
Thanks, Heather!
@kareng (68613)
• United States
17h
I'm so happy she made these changes for you! This will be a FUN trip!!
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@kareng (68613)
• United States
16h
@AmbiePam I know you are excited now!!
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
17h
Yes, I think so too!
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@snowy22315 (185584)
• United States
17h
Good, alot of things are doable with accommodations. I am sure there will be rides that will be gentle enough for you to ride.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
16h
The Winnie the Pooh ride is looking good right now.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
15h
@snowy22315 What’s funny is I was watching the video of the ride she sent me, and thought, eh. But then they went in the tunnel, and I was impressed by the visuals.
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@snowy22315 (185584)
• United States
16h
@AmbiePam Too bad you don't have a tyke you can rent so you look like you are on the ride for her .
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@allknowing (141293)
• India
15h
Good your sister finally realised what woudl make you comfortable Have a blalst now That scooter thing is a good idea.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
15h
Thank you so much for your support.
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@Juliaacv (52216)
• Canada
16h
This compromise sounds like a really wonderful resolution. It is funny that you post this today, as we just finished a long facetime chat with our son and his wife about our trip to Disney at the end of the year. I am still not completely convinced that I should go, for the same reasons as you, bad back, long drive (3 days) and I don't even like rides, but to see the girls experience it is the only reason how I can justify going. I've had a few helpful hints from another member who the unofficial Disney VP, and his suggestions were really sensible.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
15h
He is quite the knowledgeable fellow. His enthusiasm is encouraging too! I hope you do get to go. I remember going as a child, and while my dad didn’t care about how it went, my mom loved watching how much we loved it.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
15h
@Juliaacv Yes, I hope so!
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@Juliaacv (52216)
• Canada
15h
@AmbiePam It will be alot, the 3 day drive, the blending of 2 families essentially, and all of the habits that we have but don't realize. My hubby and I have never been, so we might be just as excited as the twins are.
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@JudyEv (346973)
• Rockingham, Australia
11h
That's such good news. I'm glad your sister has made these concessions for you. I'm sure you'll both have a great time.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
11h
Thank you, Judy.
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@Kandae11 (55879)
4h
Your sister is really trying. She really wants this outing with you.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
3h
I sure do appreciate it.
• United States
3h
Well she tried and that's what counts. She appears to have made every effort to accommodate your needs. That says a lot of good things about her.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
3h
It really does. She’s great.
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@wolfgirl569 (111998)
• Marion, Ohio
17h
Glad you found a way to make it doable. Hope you have a great time.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
17h
Thanks, Eva. I didn’t think it was going to happen.
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@RasmaSandra (82679)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16h
I hope the two of you have the very best time ever. Say hello to Mickey and Minnie for me,
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
15h
I shall!
@1creekgirl (42545)
• United States
16h
Amber, you have no idea how big my smile is right now! I'm so thankful it sounds like it will work out well to have time with your sister and hopefully not be hard on you. We want pictures and posts! I'm so glad it will be in the fall when it will be much cooler.
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@AmbiePam (96186)
• United States
16h
Thanks so much for praying, Vicki. I’ll definitely be posting about it.
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@grenery8 (13806)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
50m
i like the photo, makes me hungry. i was against it but in the end, she showed some flexibility and important thing is you're good with it. forget what we are writing here, your well-being is the main point here
• India
3h
Looks like your sister put a lot of thought into making this trip work for you. That is awesome! The scooter reservation and extra day are huge, and it is great that she listened to your requirements and made the modifications to make everything more comfortable. I completely understand the feeling of using a scooter and feeling a bit of self-conscious. It’s important to remember it’s there for your convenience and your well-being. It is great to see she planned activities beyond just parks, making it a more relaxed experience. The fast pass if a great bonus, prefect for you! You should be able to enjoy the tame rides. I am sure you are going to have a wonderful time with your sister and family. It’s great to hear that you are already excited. The Princess breakfast macaroni and cheese does look delicious too. Enjoy the time!