about the trust

Oh no I am so sorry to hear this. He needs to earn your trust. I confess about something. My husband didn't show up at the hospital the day after my daughter was born and I have never completely forgiven him for that. He was "sick" but poor guy wanted all the sympathy in the world. For goodness sake I was the one who went through the physical trauma, not him! He made a few slips that he went with his stupid mother to set up a trust fund for the baby and I know he did this anyway. However he said he needed to rest at home "because he was afraid to give me and the baby what he thought he had". Well.. I admit I am not guiltless either, because I have done plenty behind his back too. I have never slept around or anything but I did other things behind his back that he would never approve of. But.. that is not the way a relationship should be. As two wrongs don't make a right.

well, since he broke his trust with you before, talk to him and let him know you don't trust him as much anymore, tell him it will take some time for you to trust him again. soon you will be able to trust him, it will just take some time thats all. he didn't actually cheat on you did he?? it was just talking?? anyhow..most woman have problems with their husbands contacting their ex's...i see how you can be worried. but the best thing to do, is to talk it out with him and let him know where you stand. maybe both of you can work out the trust issue.

Not everydoby know the true meaning of TRUST. For those who know the value and the meaning defintely they can't accept if they got cheated. It is very painful experience which cannot be described which i also have goen thru. Only god knows, Just leave it to him and pray harder. May god bless you!

It takes a long time to rebuild the trust you've once had. If you really love the person,and you're willing to `give it another go`,sometimes it works better than before.But they have to prove without a doubt that they've changed,but you'll always have that nagging feeling in the back of your mind.

Im sorry to say but You may never trust him. Or it may take a long time for you to trust him again. Remember he has to earn your trust.

like someone else already said he needs to earn your trust. Did you really talk things out? you need to tell him all of what you are feeling because otherwise it's never going to work. He has to prove himself to you and that's not fair but he put himself in that position. I think many more conversations need to follow before anything will happen and it will take time to get past it. but you can if you really want to.

In A Relationship like Husband and wife. Its A Factor, its a big deal to have trust. They both need to trust each other.

It is very hard to trust someone again after they have betrayed your trust, It will take time but one day after he has proofed himself to you some more you will be complete and utter trust for him like you did before this all happened! Hang in there if he is really serious about giving your marriage another go then he will work hard to show you and he will be patient with you.

there is no reason for you to trust him until he earns your trust and proves himself. However, why would you come back to someone who did this to you in the first place? I could never be with someone like that. Think about it, maybe move on and find a REAL husband, one who is there for you, loves you, supports you, and doesnt go out to party when you are home with the kids.

Just have patience and try n trust him but at the same time keep an eye on him coz once such act is done the other person tries and find out someother safer way of doing the same... Make him realize that you trust him and do convince him that he can share all his secrets with you.But keep your eyes OPEN

when a husband committed a mistake or did something that makes a wife got angry or makes her feel bad the first thing that's taken away from the wife is TRUST which is the main ingredients in a relationship... i guess you'd be able to trust him again if you learn to forgive your husband.

earning trust is a really difficult situation. its harder to trust someone again then it is to love. Unfortunately, honesty and time are the only solutions in this case.