nishas3

@nishas3 (57)

United States • Age 39

Joined myLot 18 years ago

All Activity

nishas3's Activity

Mother Has 12-Year-Old Son Arrested for Opening Christmas Gift Early

rracers89 @rracers89 (3246) • United States 6 Dec 06

Get a load of this story, I say good for Mom, trying to teach him a lesson and set him straight. What do you think? A 12-year-old South Carolina boy got an unexpected stocking stuffer — a pair of handcuffs — after he...

111 responses •

17 people

nishas3 Wow, the strangest things are in the news lately. I just think that things are blown out of proportion here. You wanna punish the boy? send him to boot camp. Way ta go trying to set up a police record as a juvinile so colleges and jobs frown upon him.

6 Dec 06

Why are young mother looked down upon???

mummy2jake @mummy2jake (399) • Australia 6 Dec 06

I am 21, going on 22 in 6weeks & we have a beautiful nearly 1 year old bubba boy. I do my best to give our son the best start to life i can. Yet whenever im out, etc, people look at me like im some young mother, who probably had a...

119 responses •

12 people

nishas3 I think people believe that a woman should now get an education, get a stable job, date a man for a while, get married, and then plan to have children one to two years after marriage. Its an automatic no-no when some one steps out of the stereotype. Its just...

6 Dec 06

Is physical contact important in your marriage?

anatildes @anatildes (18) 6 Dec 06

I been try to decide: when you are married for a few years and your partner RARELY touches you, give a “nice” kiss or he(she) looking for dates just once a month or every 2 months, sometimes goes for 3 months… even if you tried...

all interests

221 responses •

21 people

nishas3 Tough question. I definately think that the family should get counselled and if that doesnt work, then try to work things out on their own for their kids sake before considering divorce. I think some people jump to divorce too quickly.

6 Dec 06

Unemployed

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 6 Dec 06

I have been Unemployed since September 18th, 2006. My husband has been

bills

finding jobs

unemployed

unemployment benefits

181 responses •

15 people

nishas3 I know some people can really be quick to judge and im sorry your husband is in that situation. Have you tried siting with him and working on his speech? He may not need it but because of prejudice you have to do what you gotta do just so you can pay the...

6 Dec 06

Parents: What do you think about Britney’s Parenting???

emarie @emarie (5442) • United States 6 Dec 06

I recently started watching the news again and I was surprised to see all the things going on with Britney Spears and her babies. After her first one, I thought her parenting would get slightly better, I mean, kids made Madonna...

90 responses •

11 people

nishas3 I think brittany can afford to treat her children better than child services can...but she needs to be fixed and get a reality check.

6 Dec 06

•

1 person

How Do You Know If Your Depressed??

zoewiles @zoewiles (44) • United States 6 Dec 06

Latley I have been thinking a lot. You know random things about life in general, what im going to do today, or what i think about certain things going on in my life. I have been upset lately, my mom has just been diagnosed with...

130 responses •

19 people

nishas3 Well if you are sleeping all the time, you dont want to do anything, and you constantly think about ending your life, then you are depressed. It sounds to me that you might be burned out. Take a 'me' day,play hookie from work, go shopping, pay a maid for the...

6 Dec 06

How do you deal with a High School Teacher that won't work with a parent?

juls2me2 @juls2me2 (2150) • United States 6 Dec 06

My son is failing his English class. I've asked the teacher to help me set him up with tutoring, asked to have access to daily/weekly homework that is due, and have also asked to be called or emailed the day a behavior problem or...

44 responses •

5 people

nishas3 I would surpass the teacher if I were you. go to the counselor or the princapal. This teacher should have made an effort.

6 Dec 06

•

1 comment

should parenting be 'licenced' - are some people unfit to have children?

rhinoboy @rhinoboy (2129) 6 Dec 06

There is a huge problem in my country (UK) with teenage pregnancies. Beyond that, there are thousands of people who live off state benefits and continue to have many many children. Many of these children ignore their education and...

120 responses •

16 people

nishas3 China actually taxes a family a really high wage for families with more than one kid. Its actually population control but the teen pregancy rate has fallen conciderably.

6 Dec 06

•

1 person

What is the right age to have kids... 23-24?

she002 @she002 (47) • United States 28 Aug 09

A friend of mine has recently got married and she is 30 yrs old.Her mom has been coaxing her since to have a baby since.However she is adament to not have kids for another 2 years.This is making her mom worried since my friend is...

4 responses

nishas3 A friend of mine has recently got married and she is 30 yrs old.Her mom has been coaxing her since to have a baby since.However she is adament to not have kids for another 2 years.This is making her mom worried since my friend is already in her 30s.Her mom's...

28 Aug 09

•

4 comments

It's LOSE not LOOSE............

coolsasi2k6 @coolsasi2k6 (279) • India 5 Dec 06

.......when you lose your sense of direction, lose your property, lose your health, lose your sense of humour. It's a verb. It's loose when it's not tight (eg a loose knot) That's an adjective. It can also be an adverb (eg...

2 responses

nishas3 the confusion between lose and loose pisses me off sometimes too. but what gets me more is when people mispronounce 'often'. check the dictionairy and you'll know exactly what I'm talking about.

5 Dec 06

You & Your Siblings

coolsasi2k6 @coolsasi2k6 (279) • India 5 Dec 06

Are you and your siblings close? Were you always close?? I'm the oldest and the only girl out of 4 kids. We were all KINDA SORTA close when we were younger, but not really. I mean.... we did everything together but mostly cuz...

6 responses

nishas3 I'm really lucky because i have a great relationship with my siblings. We fight all the time but I know that if something is wrong and i need them, they will be there with no questions asked.

5 Dec 06

What is the worst thing about being male or female?

brokentia @brokentia (10389) • United States 4 Dec 06

Do you hate the fact that because your a male, people assume that you know how to fix a car? Or if you a woman, do you hate it when a male tells you something about your car that you already know? What is the worst thing about...

26 responses •

6 people

nishas3 the worst thing about being female, besides the period, and the birthing part, is the fact that image is a lot more important for a girl than it is for a guy. That girls are labeled ho's if they enjoy dating while guys are praised if they date alot. That...

5 Dec 06

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Why I love Mum

ausnikki @ausnikki (4054) • Brisbane, Australia 5 Dec 06

* WHY I LOVE M U M * Mum and Dad were watching TV when Mum said, "I'm tired, and it's getting late. I think I'll go to bed." She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's...

16 responses •

5 people

nishas3 That was really a wonderful little snipit. This is exactly how my parents are and my mother is so much more active. I think she might outlive us all half the time.

5 Dec 06

•

1 comment

about the trust

aboutlostit @aboutlostit (126) • United States 5 Dec 06

i have some trust issues with my husband. be for our last son was born he was going out alot that bothered me but i never said anything intell he came home a few times after 5 am then i found out he was taken to one of his exs and...

trust is key

12 responses

nishas3 earning trust is a really difficult situation. its harder to trust someone again then it is to love. Unfortunately, honesty and time are the only solutions in this case.

5 Dec 06

•

1 person

Have you ever picked up a hitchhiker?

Thoroughrob @Thoroughrob (11742) • United States 5 Dec 06

My ex-boyfriend did once when we were together. We took him to another town and dropped him off. He told us that he wanted to go to this restaurant just off the interstate and after we got there, he decided that wasn't the right...

60 responses •

12 people

nishas3 wow that is the reason why i would never pick up a hitchhiker. That is a really frightening situation. I hope your boyfriend learned his lesson.

5 Dec 06

Here is another story on alcohol. Mom has Baby that is DRUNK!

Justme2007 @Justme2007 (1848) • United States 5 Dec 06

A mom goes to jail after giving birth to a drunk baby here is part of the story from channel 4 news BARTLESVILLE, Okla. — A woman who police say had been drinking heavily before she gave birth was charged with child neglect...

drunk

41 responses •

2 people

nishas3 I dont understand why some women have babies when they know they are incompetant and cant take care of them properly.

5 Dec 06

Is she Guilty of Animal Cruelty?

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 5 Dec 06

I read a story today regarding a registered nurse's horse farm. Police were called to the scene where 70 horses were found to be in poor health, 5 were found to be dead, and 20 were taken away for special care ( during which...

28 responses •

4 people

nishas3 If she knew that she couldnt support the horses then she should have known to sell them. in my mind, starvation definately counts as animal cruelty.

5 Dec 06

•

1 comment

Most annoying TV personality??

cecillecarmela @cecillecarmela (3818) • Philippines 18 Jul 09

For me it would be Martin Bashir =D

3 responses

nishas3 For me it would be Martin Bashir =D

18 Jul 09

•

3 comments

Parenting is important, but society plays an even important aspect in growing up

paulific @paulific (189) • Philippines 4 Dec 06

i believe that parenting is really important in every individual's growing up. but to say that the parents are to blame for who we are is quite short of understanding and analysis. parents, including their children are part of...

20 responses

nishas3 Thats a really insiteful statement. I think that society has a HUGE part in childrearing. I want to read more about it though and i could use some suggested reading.

5 Dec 06

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Misrespresentation and Online Dating

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 5 Dec 06

Online dating has become a very common thing these days, but just as with "real life" dating, there is the good, the bad and the ugly. I read a story today about a woman who had talked to a man online claiming to be in his...

52 responses •

6 people

nishas3 I tried online dating for about six months and I ended up hating it. Only because I have image problems myself and I dont think I will be happy until I solve that issue about myself. However, I have heard of some amazing success stories. I wouldnt just solely...

5 Dec 06

•

1 comment