LOVE MARRIAGE VS ARRANGE MARRIAGE
By cooltj89
@cooltj89 (387)
India
40 responses
@anipa1 (197)
• Canada
1 Oct 06
Good question, I am 64 now,and have been married for 46 years coming up on Oct.15th. I'm not an expert on marriage,but I think a person has to be content and happy within him or herself,to have a good one. we all have ups and downs and shouldn't expect the other person to fill our every need.I think it's a growing experiance,and there is a lot of give and take...the more love you give out,the more you get back. I know some days I don't feel very loving,and that day dosn't work out as well as when I'm happy within myself.Also, some people don't hang around long enough to find out if it will work or not. as to arranged marriage? it would be very hard if you didn't love that person..I feel sad for people that are put into that position.
@Pulakesh360 (121)
• India
15 Apr 07
I always prefer the love marrage man. In Love you will be able to know each other, This is very importent to understand both of there sentiments to them, More over love is a beutiful feelings, it must be happened on everyone's life.
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@ccoriel (571)
• Philippines
23 Sep 06
i heard that there are some culture that practicing arrange marriage. i dont have any against to those kind of practice but if u r going to ask me i would prefer marriage out of love than arrange one. marriage is a communion of two soul into one. w/o love its impossible to make it happen...
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@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
30 Sep 06
Marriage for L-O-V-E! I now live thousands of kilometers away from home because I fell in love 14 years ago and no one would ever convince me to marry someone else.
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@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
30 Sep 06
Well marriage itself is a big gambling.. whether it's love or arrange marriage. if you get good marital life you are the luckiest person... after marriage everything has been changed no matter if it is love marriage and both of you know each other well..
By the way mine is arranged:)
@DeborahWY (306)
• Singapore
30 Sep 06
In modern society, arranged marriage seems unthinkable. I have always preferred to meet someone of my choice. Yet I have seen many arranged marriages that remaining so strong. Love grows between the couple. I suppose it has got to do with the readiness to settle down, readiness to accept each other, take responsiblities etc.
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@ajaybachchas (266)
• India
29 Oct 06
i'll go for love marriage, cause
u know that in case of arrange marriages
whr attraction remains for only maximum 1 yr &
this is a scientific fact.
while in case of love marriage also the attraction
remains only for 1 yr but the relationship sails
because of love.
so cheers ;)
@zahir_dk (1693)
• India
1 Oct 06
I would surely prefer Love Marriage. As i think that you should not take risk when it comes to your entire life. So a person should love someone before he marries. Some people say that Love can be there after marriage, thats true but thats taking a risk......
And i would surely go for love marriage instead of arrange marriage.
Even if i go forarrange marriage i would first like to know the girl, make some good time with her, share my feelings with her, listen to her feelings and then decide whether i m perfect for her and whther she is perfect for me......
@georgesrp (13)
• India
20 Sep 06
Marriages takes a lot to be a successful one. Which type of marriage doesn't matter, all that matter is love, trust, dedication and cooperation.
@akash_ain (387)
• India
1 Oct 06
we are habituated to do the things we like like then y not over here.we have got full rit to choose our own partners.i think love marriage is good vcoz by this we can know a person with whom we r goin to stay 4 the whole life....
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I am so thanful that it isn't custom to have arranged marriages here in the United States! My Mother's taste in men is completely different than mine. As a matter of fact, in the beginning, she didn't approve of my hubby because of his looks. My thought was, "What do you care when I'm the one who will be seeing him everyday!?"
I'm guessing that if she had arranged my marriage, she would have chosen someone really handsome and rich... which may sound nice but I'd rather have someone, like my husband, who is a loving friend. We aren't financially rich but rich with love and devotion. He may not be a supermodel but he's my superman ; )
@sweet_angel (475)
• India
2 Oct 06
dpends on what each person feels about marraige..views can vary~~~
@y2ksuprio (853)
• India
13 Oct 06
i blindly,desparetly,soully,defenitely, belive on love marrige do u???
