Would you give a physically abusive boyfriend a second chance?

@shaj_me (149)
Philippines
December 18, 2006 2:31am CST
If your heart isn't the only part of you that's broken, can you mend it?
5 responses
@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
18 Dec 06
No I would not. Abuse is a one way ticket out the door. I love myself way too much to put up with anything that hurts me like that and you should too.
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@shaj_me (149)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
yeah, you were right...we should learn to love ourselves first and foremost..tnx!
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Dec 06
No I would not either as I would not be willing to go through a Lifetime of beating I rather my Heart is broken then my Bones A Heart mends bones mend to but then they get broke again
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@cheetahnc (414)
• United States
18 Dec 06
No I would not. In my opinion once abusive always abusive. I have been in a situation like this and it is not worth it. No one deserves to be abused. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. My advice to you is if you are in this situation you need to get out and stay out. You may not live through it the second time so do yourself a favor and walk away alive.
@rms2727 (815)
• India
18 Dec 06
dont do that.. such freeks are better kept at a distance unless you are bent upon destroying your life... i think once an abuser, always an abuser
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@akinad (446)
• Philippines
11 Apr 07
for me it's hard to trust and give a second chance to a guy if he had physically abused you..you might still love him but it wouldn't be a nice decision on getting back with him.. you should think real hard if it's worth another try..if you could forget all that he's done to you..and if your love is enough for you to hold on to the relationship.. but i know many guys that did it..asked for a second chance..had it but went to their old ways of abusing the girl again.. so i think we're better off solo than be with someone who can't respect us as much as we want to be respected..