Good Discussions

@re08dz (1941)
Australia
December 28, 2006 3:17am CST
Firstly I wanted to say thanks to the few of you who have started really interesting discussions - I've been in and out of here all day and constantly checking in each time I see one of them has been updated, it's been an absolute pleasure to see that some people can still hold civilised discussions even with totally opposing view points (Okay yes there are still the odd pain in the butt people that post irrelevant or rude responses etc. but I'm ignoring them for the moment) I also wanna :-P to those same people because I've basically spent my whole time here reading those rather than responding to others or trying to come up with my own discussion topics :-) And for those of you who, like me, are sick of those pointless coke/pepsi, am I pretty type things remember that hidden amongst the crap you will find a gem or two :-) but surely there could be a better way to make these topics more visible - I know there's the hop topics and top discussion things, but unless I'm missing something they're based on how many responses rather than the quality of the response or how many comments a response receives (I could be wrong) Anway thanks to those of you who've kept me amused and informed on a variety of different topics :-)
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@JC1969 (1224)
• United States
29 Dec 06
MyLot is getting a bit better with weeding out the crap, but they still have a long way to go. I mean all one has to do is look at the majority of discussions and responses given by many who make it to the "top users list" and you see that myLot still has their work cut out for them. However, it is becoming easier to find the diamonds in the rough--with respect to quality discussions. What I do now is add those people to my friends list, because I know I can count on a steady flow of quality discussions that engage me, instead of the frivolous polls and surveys, or the plagiarized and copyright infringed ones.
@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
30 Dec 06
Great picture of your kitten :-) And you're right, I may not have them added to my friends lists but after awhile you get to recognise the names of people who offer quality discussions - if I come across a good response or comment I often dip into the persons profile and see what discussions they've started etc
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
28 Dec 06
You are so right and i would give a + for that discussion thats some sense i mean you do expect to take interest in replying to topics that have some quality content You will take enthusiasm in such topics by participating
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• India
28 Dec 06
its really good to see people actually discissing something usefull on net.Its really good way to share yr tot with friends and learn from their experiences.
@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
28 Dec 06
I find that I often don't reply to those discussions, sometimes it's because there's already plenty of responses and what I would have said has already been mentioned, and sometimes it's because it's on a topic that I know nothing about or wouldn't normally think I'd find interesting (yet I spend half an hour reading through all the responses :-) ) But I do enjoy reading them and seeing other's points of view.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
28 Dec 06
I am on here just about every day unless i am in bed sick or working hard on a school prpject. I always try to start good discussions or discussions on topics that matter. Though I will admit to the occasional flub. Like what type of undies do you prefer? but on the whole I have posted and responded to some great topics and discussions. I also always try to respond to every post to my topics.
@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
29 Dec 06
Thanks. I think we all, at some stage, start a discussion or two that didn't quite go the way we expected it to :-) I haven't started all that many,(I can never think of anything) but I have responded to a lot and just sat back and read many more.
@annieroos (1845)
• United States
29 Dec 06
yes i agree its great when there are Good Discussions that we can post to.. sometimes i read alot of discussions and i say i am going to post.. But I either don't relate to the discussions or basically pointless and i really have nothing to say so i was told if you have nothing nice to say or nothing to say at all don't say anyting at all.
@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
30 Dec 06
Very true - I often find though that I sit and read a long discussion - take in everyone's opinion, enjoy what people have to say and then close it without adding my own thoughts :) whether it's just because I figure everything's already been said or it's on a topic I'd known nothing about before opening it etc I don't know - I just know I've enjoyed reading it :)
@irisheyes (4370)
• United States
28 Dec 06
I couldn't agree with you more. If you are willing to wade through the drivel, you can come up with some interesting stuff posted by some intelligent beings.... I think I might give that random selection method of yours a try.
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@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
29 Dec 06
lol-hope it works for you, and keep a lookout for topics that you think wouldn't normally interest you, they seem to be the ones that keep me reading lately :-)
@Asimo69 (21)
• United States
29 Dec 06
In order to help those of us looking for better discussions, I think they should put the top discussions based on a type of rating/responses systems not just responses.
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@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
30 Dec 06
I think that would be a great idea - something along the lines of best rated or most comments - it seems to me that often those good discussions (and what I consider good I know others may not) are the ones that have a lot more comments per response as opposed to just responses.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
28 Dec 06
Oh this site has improved no end to when I first started in here, I didn't really think I would stay long as I am a member of a couple of other forums but now that the quality has improved and because I love the interests part of it so much this forum is the main one I go into now, I love it.ye and it is good when you come across a good discussion.
@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
28 Dec 06
I've noticed it's so much nicer getting on here now. I can actually scroll through and find decent discussions a lot easier. It's great not having to sift through the what color are your eyes, do you like crunchy or creamy peanut butter lol. I was getting so frustrated before trying to find something to respond to. Cheers mate!!
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@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
28 Dec 06
I've taken to just randomly hitting page numbers and seeing what comes up - it's amazing what you might find buried on say page 33
@hemtata (284)
• India
29 Dec 06
I find the discussions here very interesting becoz I get an opportunity to learn from the world community as a whole. Yes some responses are rude and some are worth pondering. Over all I am happy with this site. I must thank the Mylot team for creating this platform. My good wishes to all members of Mylot family for NEW Year.
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@sahiba77 (178)
• India
29 Dec 06
I dont remeber that i have asked any stupid thing like coke pepsi...coze these are not the topics for discussion...sometimes i feel half the people doesnt know the meaning of debate or discussion when we start a topic we get one word or one line answers that shows that they dont want to discuss but they are telling their personal opinion
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@justreal (2364)
• Canada
28 Dec 06
Good discussion ++. So here's how I post, I post when I do have something to post. I post for health and fitness of which i knowbest and I know it's something that will help people and that people appreciate.
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• India
29 Dec 06
no
@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
30 Dec 06
No what? a little more detail would go a long way don't you think?
• India
28 Dec 06
hi, i m fresh to this site n am very impressed with it not only does it tell us something about every aspect of life . it answers so ,many day to day emotional n personal queries. Yes, some of the discussions are really veery informative n force u think for a while on the topics.
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@mkkid28 (267)
28 Dec 06
i try and think of good quality posts to start discussions as it is a waist of time with short yes or no answer discussions in my view i actually enjoy typing, i looked into those typing jobs on net (supposable get paid per item you type buy obviously a scam as you have to pay £40 to be trained over the net)
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@mr_ilham (1608)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 06
hmmm yes good discussion may be need loong message to get good discussion thanks see u ;-)
@beverly1 (1128)
• United States
29 Dec 06
thanks there are some discussion are relly good ones and some are not but we all learn thing we didnt know
@padhukr (2267)
• India
29 Dec 06
mylot is good dicussions. different topic.i like mylot.
@runsgame (2031)
• India
29 Dec 06
glad to note your awakenings . keep it up u will certainly achieve a new target in mylot. all the best
@josan181237 (1204)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
i'm not really good in making discussions. i can't get much responses from one of them. don't know how to make it interesting. oh well gotta try harder next time. :)
• India
29 Dec 06
hello how are you do u want respomses like this hehehehe