Gaining friends on myLot

I agree with you completely - you should start with the interests. Add your own interests and see who might have started discussions in those interests, and then you can find others with similar interests. I think that's the best way to do it.

before i like bo chat ,icq .msn .qq ....and so many chatting programme i have install in my pc.and after shcool i can find a lot friends on these chatting programme.of course at that time . i felt very happy . we can find a lot topics to talke wiht my friends all over the world . but till now . i have been unfamiliar with them .now i have no time to chat with them . so i dislike change . i want to find myselfe like the one used to be ..

I think the best way to make friends is through your interests but I have made friends through other discussions as well. It just happened that me and a lot of other people had similar thoughts about other subjects. If you do more replying to peoples topics, the more friends you could possibly make.

I'm new here too and kind of struggling with this friends thing. I got a lot of pending requests and couldn't figure out why they wanted to be friends but did not have the heart to deny them. So I tentatively okayed three of them. One guy posted so many discussions in the first day that I couldn't even find the avatars for the other two people. I put the notify button on "Off" for the guy with all the postings and have decided to be a bit choosier. I'm thinking about waiting awhile and then making requests to people whose discussions have interested me enough to reply three or four times...I think friends are supposed to help each other out by giving replies and keeping each other's discussions going but who wants to reply dozens of times to somebody whose pulling stuff off Wikepedia just to get points. It's like having a conversation with a brick wall.

Yes, it;s a very interesting phenomenon in China. Many young male foreign friends keep chasing Chinese girls. Maybe because in there mind the girl from the east are very beautiful. On the contrary, more and more young female foreign friends are having a difficult time to choose their Mr. Right. Why don't they have a try and chase our Chinese boys? That's quite unfair, is it because we are not handsome enough?

I am new also and I would like to be your friend.

All my referrals are either clanmates or friends, not bad though as have 22 referrals so far.

i never refuse ppl to be my friends.same applies to mylotters

well in mylot i have my friend too and randomly chosen friend too. As we cant know the more detail about that person so cant say anything about it just added and responding there discussions.

i have 90 friends, but i only know 2-3 of them a bit. I am used to add some one in my friend list if they are matching my interests. I don't think most of the users here cn attend all of their friends here, honestly speaking no one gets enough time to talk with them. Its just that we cant deny each others friend requests, that keeps building our friend list.

To be frank I first made my friend list with those who are from my country..and many of them I really don't know..here is the fun of making online friends come.Then I started to add whom I think I should add..I donot follow any hard rule that those who shares the same interest as me should be added as my friend..I choose randomly and add them as my friends.I know many of the users personally and due to lack of their activity and also not knowing of their user ID I cannot add them as my friend.

i am new to myLot too i wish someone tell me some beneficial way where i expand ma social circle as well as gain money ;)...

Actually I count 14 on your page

i m agreed with you but what is the harm in knowing a new friend because evre one is new for some one when we meet first,and we dont know everybody since birth so we can give some time to know a new friend.

no idea.

I've not asked many people to be my friend but I've had plenty request me to be their friend, some I recognised their names from threads so I accepted others, well, there still pending approval on my friends list as I'm not sure who they are and where they've posted to request me as their friend. If I like someone's thread about something and think they have explained it in depth and use proper english (I understand not everyone is english but I mean no annoying text talk...), then I check their other topics too, if there reasonable, debatable topics too, only then will I send them a friend reqwest.

yeah, we gain a lot of friends here, but not yet serious in corresponding each other.

No i don't have many friends in mylot i have only one friend like you but soon i will get friends just add friends and message them to know who you are and what are you doing.

yes i think u r absolutely correct....

I'm new here, like everyone else, I'd like to meet some friends also.