What is some ways to cook for a large family?
By ladymalissa
@ladymalissa (85)
United States
January 2, 2007 2:26pm CST
What are some ways to cook for a large family of seven and save money?I have two step sons and they eat all the time,along with them the other kids and my husband are very healthy eaters.I have tried to make casseroles because they are cheaper to make and you normally get a large amount of food.We have spag.and chicken and rice aolt which are cheap to make.I have also tried adding more salads to dinner and lunch witch can be filling and doesn't cost that much.I have also tried every recipe for chicken that I can find since it is the cheapest meat that you can buy.Hamburger goes along way also and can be made into anything.Just wondering if there is something else I can try that is just slipping by me and will help out with feeding them and will not break my bank account.
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@SpitFire179 (2536)
• Canada
3 Jan 07
I grew up in a family of eight and i had to learn to cook for all of them, have left overs and keep it very cheap. We were on an assistance program because my parents are disabled (Well i don't think they are but they are idiots and scammers) anyways, it's hard... And i noticed that there's only one way to shop and cook for a family like that.
First, the cheapest foods:
Staples - Spaghetti, Macaroni, rice.
Meats - All in bulk (it's the cheapest all the time) Hamburger, Hot dogs, Chicken.
Vegetables - always buy in the frozen section in bags, because it's always the cheapest way to go.
I like to make meals with a lot of flavour, so i go out and get my spices in bulk all the time.
I have always experimented.
Try mixing mashed potatoes with Cream of mushroom soup, mixed vegetables, and hamburger, something that i mixed up one day and everyone can't get enough, It's cheap, fast, easy and everyone loves it.
all kids of spaghetti, and it doesn't have to always be made with regular spaghetti sause, it can be used with any kid of soup, and then your own sauses and gravies, makes an awesome cheap meal. (experiment, they'll love it. Also, try BBQ sause in your normal spaghetti, it's sooo good)
meat loaf, though it has to be made with the proper spices to make it yummi
always spice your chicken differently so that they may not get a variety of the meat, but always the taste.
Family/value packs are also good, they do it in almost everything and you can get some really good cheap round steaks and chops that way that can be incorperated into almost anything.
Buy roasts as well. You can get tonnes of roasts, and cut them into your own steaks and stewing meat, it's a lot cheaper, and kind of fun.
make your own burgers, soups, gravies with flour and spices, and anything pretty much that's made before it goes on the shelves, A lot of people buy them pre done so it's easier, but i rather the cheaper way.
Also, to lessen your worry about cost by a lot, it's always a good idea to invest in a full or half pork and the butchering fees, you can decide on all the cuts that you want and like and get it at half the cost you would buying everything to equal that weight in a store.
Hope this helps, Take care
Peace and love be with you
Blessed Be.
@thatmom2 (126)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Iloooooove all of these ideas, im making notes myself. smile. also i have noticed that the hurt in our pockets have decreased tremondously by preplanning the menu. we go shopping every friday, so i make a menu that goes with those dates. Feel free to call a couple of 800 numbers on the back of the products. they love to hear you rave about there products. they send you coupons, and keep you on a mailing list. also, i dont know the area you live in, but if there is a walmart in your area, they do something like competitve pricing. if you go in with another supermarket circular they will honor that price. You just show the cashier the circular during checkout, and you get if for that price. clip coupons, and always be on the look out for bulk (like she said earlier)
i hope these many tips you have received are very helpful to you bc they have been to me.
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Your are wonderful, those are some really great ideals and I am going to write them all down and thank you very much.I always buy in cans never thought of the bag section in the frozen section before, but will now and will be buying in bulk also.The roast ideal is great also.You are wonderful I love all of them thank you very much for your help.
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@villageanne (8553)
• United States
8 Jan 07
I too grew up in a family of 8. We used the staples like macaroni, potatoes, pinto beans, flour, cornmeal, speghetti, vegetables and fruits. We used alot of tomato paste and tomato sauce. With these ingredients, you can cook a variety of meals. We used alot of spices. You can do so many things with pinto beans from burritos, tacos to fudge. It makes great fudge and pecan pie. You will never know they were made with beans. We made alot of soups from potato to vegetable to hamburger. Cheep staples are great when you add a few spices.
@Bee1955 (3882)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I had an extended family of 8 living in my house growing up - mom, dad, me, 2 sibs, 2 grandparents and a maiden aunt. We're an Italian and Turkish family so food was everything. There was always a huge pot of stew atop of a larger pan with holes in the lid filled with water on the back part of the gas stove on very low heat.( It kept the soup warm without scorching.) All day someone would add something to it: spices, a few potatoes, cooked lentils or rice, meat and/or drippings from a roast, chopped carrots, celery, dry noodles, turnips, etc. and just enough water to keep it moist (we like stew you'd eat with a fork - long before Campbells "invented" it). Anybody could come in, grab a bowl and help themselves at anytime for a snack- lunch, brunch, even breakfast. Every Sunday it was allowed to run out and the pot was scoured and the next week's stew began. No one went hungry, no one asked what was there to eat. You knew where to go and so did your friends as you grew. The "stewpot" at our house became well known for the poor, near-ghetto economically depressed area we lived in. Many a starving friend brought seasonal flowers or chocolate candy or peppermints for my Oma and Aunty (their weaknesses) in thanks for the meals. The only rule was except for Sunday, you didnt let it get ewmpty below midway and no filling it with just water - peel a few potatoes, grab a handful of noodles or chop some veggies for it before you left that kitchen.
Of course back then someone was always home watching it, stirring and adding spices or stuff to it so it was never left unattended. Now today, rarely is anyone home all day, so what I do is fix a big electric crockpot full of homemade chicken or vegetable stew on low and leave it for anyone to eat during the day for my husband, his mother, our housekeeper and our friends and grandchildren. All know the rules, we keep cans of veggies and baked beans and packs of pasta on low shelves for the smaller ones and they know to put something in before they leave and to clean up! But before bed I cool off the crock and put it in the refrigerator, taking it out the next day to add more "stuff" and stock inside. Not as great as when my Oma and Aunty put their special touches in while I was in school, but still soooo goood. We cut down on expensive snacks, too!
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Wow that sounds so wonderful and really something else to help keep the family invovled and together.That is so nice and for you to share that with us is also very wonderful and I will try to see if I can do this also.Thank you so much for your input and help.
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@nancygibson (3736)
• France
3 Jan 07
I'm a little surprised that chicken is a cheap meat for you, the only chicken I can ever see at cheap prices is so obviously poor sad little battery hens that have had a miserable life that they have no flavour and wouldnt go very far in a meal let alone anything else. We find beef the cheapest meat, because we can buy locally raised brisket for about £1 per lb, and that goes a very long way in terms of flavour. Anyway, I digress, have you thought about serving soup for starters, that is cheap to make, especially if you use vegetables and lentils as staple ingredients, fils them up a bit and gives them needed roughage and extra veggies, then whatever you serve next can be in more average portions. Soup is also a great way to use those chicken carcasses after you have had all the meat off them, plus any odds and ends that wont feed teh whole family can go into the soup pot.
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Where I live there is a grocery store where you buy five packs of meat for $20.00 and they have chicken in the large family packs and hamburger meat,smoked neck bones and sometimes they have roast and pork chops but not very often.So I get the large family packs of chicken and hamburger meat.Which is a good deal for that price.
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@classy56 (2880)
• United States
3 Jan 07
try cooking gravy an biscuits an fried taters an also beans- cornbrean,i love that.an what beans are leftover make beans cakes with them they make great snacks also same as taters cakes make with mash leftover mash potatoes.an salmons patties are cheap to make good with anything an also can make sandwiches with them.these are just a few meals i use to make
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Thank you.Do you have a recipe for the bean cakes.The cornbread and the salmon patties I make but the bean and tater cakes sound great and I would love to know how you make them.
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@angelicEmu (1311)
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3 Jan 07
Corned beef hash is always delicious, economical, and you can spice it up however you like, according to the tastes of the folks you're cooking for. Shepherd's pie and cottage pie are also good, and all of these are a meal in their own right (you can serve them on their own, or with bread & butter/a bit of pickled red cabbage). Roast chicken with roast potatoes, roast parsnips, veggies & good thick gravy is good & filling (and healthy if you roast the potatoes & parsnips in veggie/sunflower oil rather than lard), and you can always do a chicken soup with the chicken carcass the next day (with dumplings & veggies is good for flavour & bulking it out!).
Hope these ideas are of some help, and happy cooking!
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Thank you very much for those ideals I will try them all and I am sure my family will love.Thank you so much I haven't made any of those so will be sure to start.
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@wbulauitan (20)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
Try making a Chicken Macaroni Soup... cook macaroni pasta as directed, saute garlic and onion on butter and add shredded chicken meat then add chicken stock and 1 cup of milk then add the cooked macaroni pasta then season to taste.. you can add thinly sliced carrots and thinly slice cabbage to make it more healthy... well, my kids love this recipe...good luck
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Thank you I never would have thought of that.It sounds great and easy to make and should be quite cheap to make also.Thank you for your help.
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@Bunny2 (2102)
• Australia
13 Jan 07
I have a husband and three teenage sons. My twins' best friend also eats here virtually 7 night a week. And the twins' girlfriends eat here more often than not. So a usual night here is between 4 (RARE) and 8. I cook one main meal and salad or vegetables and bread depending on what I've made. Pasta (vary the sauces: spaghetti and meatballs, penne arrabiata (spicy salami and tomato), curly pasta and napoletana sauce (tomato and garlic). Occasionally I'll get a foccaccia or garlic bread especially if it's Napoletana sauce which is a lighter meal. I might cook chicken drumsticks in a Napoltetana sauce and serve that with the pasta too.
I'll make plain rice if we have curry or casserole, fried rice (made in a non-stick frypan by the absorption method) if we have chicken kebabs, stir fry chicken or beef, etc. Lebanese bread for these meals - cheaper than Naan, etc. In winters I make vegetable soup (and add in orange lentils so no one realizes they're there because some of my eaters are fusspots :) ) I also make up a big pot of beef or chicken consommé and i make that into a thick chicken noodle soup - they like it think and it fills them up. The chicken or beef is eaten on the side.
Chicken is the cheapest meat here in Australia - so I use that a lot - whether pieces, Maryland, drumsticks or fillets - they go a long way.
I try to cook steak once a week too because my eldest had severe anemia three years ago following a big operation. So steak and salad or steak and veggies (roast potatoes are on here at least twice a week! Mashed potatoes, corn, pease, pumpkin, sweet potato, carrots, broccoli, cauliflower or cabbage). T-Bones occasionally but not oiften as they're expensive! Roast beef now and then - and sometimes roast pork, though Irarely eat it as I can't stand the smell. Pork spare ribs too but I don't eat them either because of the smell.
Minced meat is no longer cheap - I like using the premium mince which is lower in fat. I make burgers (with salad and burger buns for those who want a hamburger), chilli con carne (with rice), meatloaf (with veggies)
I don't make lamb very often (again the smell puts me off) but i will eat BBQ'd lamb - probably because I can't smell it. I LOVE Greek and Middle Eastern lamb!!! Once in a while I'll buy a container of lamb on the spit from the local kebab place and let everyone makde their own kebabs. YUM.
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Thank you for all of this information,the kabobs sound wonderful and never would have thought of that to make but will now and every thing else you had sounds great also and I got some really great tips from you reply post thank you very much.
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I went to that site and they are awesome.Thank you I found some great recipes that will help me turn leftovers into something new and great thank you for this web site address it is awesome.
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@angel_marie5 (1259)
• United States
3 Jan 07
maybe you can make chicken menudo sometimes also....
saute garlic & onion then add cubed chicken meat ;
sliced pork liver ; cubed vegetables ( carrots , potatoes , chayote , green or red bell pepper ) ; snow peas ; tomato chunks & corn kernel. Bring to boil with little water & dash with pepper & salt to taste. serve with garlic bread or rice!
ingredients are not of expensive ones then you can make a bowl of it & got a healthy / nutritious meal already.
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
OOh this ounds wonderful,I have never tried this recipe before so thank you so much for your help.I really love mylot everyone helps everyone else and I have gotten so many wonderful ideals from everyone who has responed that I have started a cookbook named mylot friends favorite recipes and even my mom like them.Thank you so much for all of your help.
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@MadameLaCouyan (149)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I cook for a family of seven every day and it's almost like cooking for a small army at times. Since that's the case there are alot of little things that we do to save money on food. The biggest thing we do is that we have a large garden and we preserve alot of it every year. That right there gives us the healthy fruits and vegetable we need all year round and we don't spend as much on that. And then of course we do couponing (doubles and triples), shop the sales and go to a discount grocery store once a month. We are on a very tight budget and this is the only way we can make every go farther.
Our main fare is hamburger as well, since it is so cheap. But in shopping the sales, we also have a large variety of other meats, poultry and fish. And everything is almost done casserole style or in a big pot (crockpot normally). One way we keep it interesting is by rotating our diet. That way it doesn't get boring.
Not sure if this helps you at all but this is how our family gets by. Stretching the budget is the biggest thing.
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
It was a big help,you have gave me some new ideals and the garden would be perfect to save on vegetables and fruits.I will also try to rotate our family diet.And cooking for a big family is like cooking for a small army where every one thinks they should have it their way like they are at burger king all day lol.Thank you so much.
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@ilvrshn (463)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Yeah, boys can eat. Well besides from having a big pot/ You mention you didn't want to break your bank account. Have you considered going to a food pantry or applying for foodstamps to help offset some of the cost of food? You can go to Bj's, COSTCO, SAMS Club to get the big bulk items and save money.
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I have tried to get food stamps and was told that we make to much money, but I sure do not see it my husband only makes 400.00 a week and 145.00 of that goes out for child support and he also has to pay half of the medical insruance for his other kids so by the time that is payed and our bilss are paid there is just nothing left.But I going to start my own garden, thanks to one of the responses I have gotten and my mother-in-law gave me some of her hugh pots and they are so big I have treid some of the recipes that have been posted as responses also and we had leftovers whicj I turned inot something else so these things have help.Thank you
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@gagandeepxi (178)
• India
3 Jan 07
well i started cooking at the age of 9
I like to make meals with a lot of flavour, so i go out and get my spices in bulk all the time.
I have always experimented.
Try mixing mashed potatoes with Cream of mushroom soup, mixed vegetables, and hamburger, something that i mixed up one day and everyone can't get enough, It's cheap, fast, easy and everyone loves it.
all kids of spaghetti, and it doesn't have to always be made with regular spaghetti sause, it can be used with any kid of soup, and then your own sauses and gravies, makes an awesome cheap meal. (experiment, they'll love it. Also, try BBQ sause in your normal spaghetti, it's sooo good)
meat loaf, though it has to be made with the proper spices to make it yummi
always spice your chicken differently so that they may not get a variety of the meat, but always the taste.
Family/value packs are also good, they do it in almost everything and you can get some really good cheap round steaks and chops that way that can be incorperated into almost anything.
Buy roasts as well. You can get tonnes of roasts, and cut them into your own steaks and stewing meat, it's a lot cheaper, and kind of fun.
make your own burgers, soups, gravies with flour and spices, and anything pretty much that's made before it goes on the shelves, A lot of people buy them pre done so it's easier, but i rather the cheaper way.
and so i love cooking also.....!!!!
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Thank you I will try all of this and it is really some good advice and tips thank you for your help and tips.
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@thatmom2 (126)
• United States
3 Jan 07
also another thing too, is get some library books on cooking from scratch. you would never believe things like homemade biscuits is pretty cheap when making homemade. you figure on average a bag of flour is under $1, then you have yeast, eggs, butter etc. you can purchase these t hings for under $% altoghether, and y ou can make biscuits at least a dozen times. now compare that to how much you spend on pillsbury can biscuits a month. phew. there is another way to save some.
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Thank you I will go check out the library to see what kind of books they have and take notes.Thank you for your help and time.
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@elizabeth13 (106)
• United States
12 Jan 07
For me, family of 5 here 3 young children. This is a fantastic subject because my boys sometimes are picky (mostly just one of them.) They are getting better though, and I'm now not cooking 5 different meals which was getting ridiculous. Very true, salads, pasta dishes, rice. I have also found a crockpot to use is fantastic. Not only does it make enough food, but it cooks the food for you during the day and ready for dinner which is great not to have to worry about making dinner when you have 3 children acting up around dinner hour like right now. Crockpot meals such as soups, bbq chicken (and just cook the rice/veggies on the side.) A lasagne is another great large family meal, use a throw-away tray, no mess. Pizza can be made various ways on pita bread even, and english muffins. Now that I'm getting hungry, it's off to make dinner. Great topic!
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Thank you this is good advice and I will try bbg chicken in the crockpot,and the pizza one that sounds so much cheaper than the other way thank you for that.
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@lilttownmommie (1473)
• United States
3 Jan 07
like others have mentioned, speghetti and chilli are good budget choices, someone mentioned corned beef hash, put some onions and green peppers in it while frying it and serve it with toast and eggs, its awesome, even add white gravy if you like it. Sheperds Pie is a good choice, buy lots of potatoes, they are cheap and you can do lots with them, cut them up and fry them with some onions, you can even add squash and zuchinni and have fried squash as a side dish and the potatoes zuchinni and onion add to the flavor and save money its great. Cut up potatoes put them in a casserole dish with some butter and dry ranch cover with aluminum foil and bake until tender, try same recipe just leave out the ranch and use a little taco seasoning and add cheese and sour cream when serving. Potatoes make a great side dish for every meal and you can do so many different things with them.
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Thank you for those.The potatoe recipes sound wonderful and they are very cheap to buy.I am writting down everything.Everyone has been so great and helpful.Thank you so much.
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
I will have to try those recipes out and make them.I bet my husband and stepsons would love them.Thank you very much for your help.
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@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Thank you for replying and I have started to make soups and beans and rice,gumbo's and alot of the things that everyone has been so nice to post and my family love them.Thank you so much for your help.
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@hbmavuri (254)
• India
3 Jan 07
We are 9 members.Make thick soups and give them before meals.These can reduce hunger and easy to make.We Indians make Dal and parathas,can fill the stomach easily.Avoid making time consuming dishes.Always Prefer chepest things to cook.Pasta also cheap and best.Always cut the vegetables at night for the next day.Ask family members help at cooking at weekends sothat they know about how much time it takes to prepare a dish and also how much work it includes.
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
That is a wonderful ideal of haveing them help me on the weekends with the cookin it will help them see what I go thru cooking for all of them when you have a large family it is hard some times but when you combine to family's it can be a little harder getting used to all the different ways they like their food and what they will eat and not eat.Thank you very much.
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@dreamengine (1)
• India
3 Jan 07
hi lady malissa,
iam from india. i don,t have much knowledge on your cooking style,but we are large famliy with more than dozen members including children to grand parents..
my mom and my 2 aunts are responsible for cooking and maintaing the house.. here i can suggest u some idea..
make ur members feel to eat good ie heavy in break fast and lunch it will take much time to digest. so they won,t think of munching any thing... this won,t affect the health since they may involve in physical works during day time... and have a little food at supper to have best digestive.....
@ladymalissa (85)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Thank you.You have a larger family than mine so it is great advice and I will try it out thank you for your time and help.
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