How can I say "I'm leaving this job. Can't you see" to my boss w/ graceful exit?

You should still leave your job on a good note and not a bad note, no matter what the situation is there. You do not want to burn bridges with an employer as it could come back to hurt you in getting a future or better job. You should still give two weeks notice if you are planning to quit and should find a new job before you quit your current one. You should listen to your parents as they give very good advice and I would try to hold on if you are looking to move to Canada. You should write a nice letter thanking them for allowing you to work there.

you could always look for another job? one of the more important things when looking for a job is if your in a job at the moment then your more likely to be employed by a new employer than someone who is unemployed, this is a good and bad thing really and it can be viewed differently by other people but from what isee of people looking for a job, people who do not have a job usually find it more difficult to get a job than people who already have one.

find another boss

well for me, first ill have conversation with my boss then through the middle of our discussion i will sloww bring the topic of leaving a my job.

Sometimes we have to take the good with the bad and be tolerant in order to achieve something better. I would have to agree with your parents in relation to waiting for the immigration papers to Canada. It would be so disappointing to find out that your leaving the job has affected your application. Hopefully your papers will be with you sooner rather than later? Are you able to take unpaid leave or a paid holiday? Even maybe a week might give you the chance to unwind and lose some of your frustration. A short absence may also cool things down a bit between you and your boss? And if Canada doesn't look likely, save a little while to cover yourself and then pursue your dreams! The power of positive thinking is the key here in my opinion! When the going gets tough, remind yourself why you are there and what the end result will be..... One day you will get to tell the boss to stick it because you are about to get on a plane to Canada!

Sometimes you have to make sacrifices to get ahead and, if putting up with a job that you despise is one of them, so be it. At the end of the day, you should pay your employer the proper respect for giving you a job and, it sounds like your employer and co-workers are putting up with your absences which is not right. Either own up to the responsibility that you committed to when you accepted the job or be upfront and quit. If you boss doesn't treat you properly, that is another matter with completely different choices but don't justify the treatment by having an unhealthy attitude. You don't need this kind of silly decision hanging over your head and you are just burning bridges as you screw around.

your boss has the right to ask you for a reason why were you absent, it is also his/her job to make sure that every thing in the office is working well including all office staff to be present at all times if it is possible. since you have said that you are not happy with you work, then i guess it is proper to give your resignation letter to your boss rather than being hipocrete to you self. greetings. : )

I think you should figure out what you want to do with you career and job in future in consultation with your parents. Then once you have secured a good job in good company then you can given notice to your current empoyers, following your company's rules, give atleast two week notice and explain your position to your boss that you are leavin for professional reasons and not any personal reasons as you want o advance your career, have good better job, and want o twork abroad. Try to keep it as pleasant as possible. Because you should try to quit your job with grace and dignity. So that they can provide good working references for you in future. And give your new bosses postive feedback on you. you won't like to burn your bridges with them as you might have to work with them in future. hope it works out well for you. good luck.

When your job is making you sick, there is something definitely wrong with the job and how you are relating to your job. It is very dangerous to hang on to something that is not worthwhile even though you are young and needs that job. A job that is making you sick is going to drive to into some other bad habits or to escape with other bad behavior. I suspect that your job and that kind of work environment or the nature of your job itself is not exactly aligned to your belief systems. When you are doing something that is not aligning to your belief systems or your moral values - that is the most difficult thing in your life. I emphatize with you entirely. Now, you have a choice and the choices are 1) Peacefully and gracefully exit the job and not burning the bridges behind. 2) Bear and grind for another few months while you are preparing to do something else or 3) Immediately look for another job that is more inline with what you like to do and to your passionate feelings. Since your parents said that they are helping you with the papers to immigrate to Canada may be you should listen to your mother; and immediately call your boss and tell him that you have not been feeling well and that you are going to come back to work right away. In the meantime, prepare yourself to move to Canada. Prepare yourself for your future. Leaving a job without any preparation is also not very wise move. To start a business of your own is not a bad idea since you are young and you have to do WHAT YOU LOVE most in order to be happy in your life. You stated that your parents wont support you, that is an indication that you are still clinging to their support and not ready to stuck out on your own. To own your own business there is a lot of sacrifice and lots of planning in term of finances to support the business and to support your lifestyle. Your livelyhood depends on how you can support yourself so YOU have to analyse and see if you can be on your own and how long and what business you want to go into and how do you think that you are going to be able to sustain the business. Let me know how you are doing and best wishes.

if youre really decided to quit then write a resignation letter stating your reasons on it...i think thats the better way..

look wat i can say is dat ven u r not wrong den nothing bad happens to u . god alwayz keeps his eye on us so dnt worry .

please dont quit your job now,for its not easy to get job nowadays.Moreover, you are not too sure you are going to get any job at canada. infact you will have to stay there for a long period of time before you can get used to happenings over there. so, please think twice.

Its good to be honest. it makes thing more tension free.

my take on this is simple: follow the unwritten rule - follow the process. talk with your boss who is being personal with you.if you can't iron things out with your boss, go higher.don't stop until you get a favorable reply.you don't need to quit nor get hurt.you deserve the right to express your feelings and the right to a better work environment.good luck!

your boss has the right to ask you for a reason why were you absent, it is also his/her job to make sure that every thing in the office is working well including all office staff to be present at all times if it is possible. since you have said that you are not happy with you work, then i guess it is proper to give your resignation letter to your boss rather than being hipocrete to you self. greetings. : )

Well is it a Full time job or a Part time job in the first place ? if it is a part time job , you simply have to call your boss up and say you don't want to work already and return all the company stuff yea , Whereas Full time job i think you need to go to your boss office to sumbit a letter and Pack your things in the office yea ... it might be a embarssing but no choiche that the prodeure unless another big company are chasing after you then you might save some face yea

Please note that whether you like your boss or not, you can't just keep away from work and hide. There is an ethical way of leaving a job. But before leaving a job you must try to find another one. Otherwise if you tell a new employer that you are not working right now, that will not be very advantageous to you. So go back to work immediately, if you want you say you were not well during the past few days. Starting your own business is good, but a business takes about 5 years to get established. It is better to start something while you work and then quit your job once it is established.

You should follow your heart and feelings. If your parents are being resistant then that is a sign of them being jealous because they did'nt have that chance when they were younger.And as far as your current job you should leave it on a good note.

hi... i know how u feel...or atleast i amin the same kinda of dilema...i have been on leave for 4 months now.. and i am still not sure if i wnat to join back.. i will extend my leave as long as possible.. and then decide what to do.. i suggest u send in a formal leave application to ur boss till a certain date and if ur immigration goes through u can quit , at the same time till ur on leae u can work on a proposal for ur own business

you shud hv the courage to speak the truth..be bold n just go n tell.....