r u willing to forgive and accept your bf/gf,wife/husband after cheating on u?

You should always forgive but don't forget.You just need to try to get past the hurt whether they want to help or not.

No I couldn't accept him back after that. I have even told my boyfriend that if he ever cheats on me than its over. I mean if you want to cheat on someone than just tell them you are thinking of other people and break it off. I don't understand why people want to drag out a relationship when it's only going to hurt worse when you break up the longer you drag it out.

I've been in this situation before and it didn't go well at all. I've tried to stay but I couldn't bring myself to stay with him or love him like I use to. I was hurt very much. So, my answer is no. I wouldn't stay if I find out that my husband cheated on me.

I think everyone deserves a second chance. Find our what when wrong in the relationship. It may be partly your fault too. Have a one-on-one chat and work things out. Relationship needs to be nurtured every now and then!

Well, I'm a very jealous type of person and I really get so angry when I hear rumors about my boyfriend cheating on me, as in I hate cheaters in a relationship. I'm an honest person so I don't want anyone cheating on me.

i personally don't think i could stay with my lover after such a betrayal.I wouldn't harbor resentment for I know that he will regret losing me,but I don't think I would feel the same nor would they look the same to me .You never trust that person again and some times that person does repeat their behavior,so no i wouldn't feel the same towards that person,my eyes would see them differently.