When Mylot Friends don't Respond to YOur POSTS? Reactions please.

If I don't have anything to say, I won't clutter the topic with spam. Friends don't do that to friends! ;)

It does not bother me if my friends reply or not as they may not be interested in my topics or may not have anything to contribute to the topics which I respect. It is their choice whether they want to respond or not as well as I should be able to choose which topics to respond to as well or if I have something to contribute. I love the fact that they do respond to some of my posts but would not expect or demand them to reply to all of them. I choose posts that I have knowledge about or can contribute something useful to.

So do I respond to what I am interested in. some of my friends talk some off the wall stuff and I don't know how to answer. if I know nothing about it I will join, to see what everyone is talking about, then make a comment.

Yes, i do feel dejected if some of the posts i start has not response at all. I knew that some of my friends have read those posts and still won't respond to it, but I also don't take it serious. I normally respond to most of the posts started by my friends without fail, if it comes to my eyes when i am online in Mylot.

We all respond to posts that mean something on some level to us. We can't be all to everyone. Over time we get the feel of what each other are like and the ideas flow. A couple of my friends have not been around for awhile, however if and when they do I will check out their discussions and see what I can do. So far my friends have been great and give me all I can respond to most days and I appreciate that. I also am gearing toward making more discussions so that they also have the same advantage. It is not all my work though, they do have other friends!!

Global friends keep growing but no posts by them. The idea of friends at myLot is to build a community where we share information that benefits others. I find that there are times I don't respond to my friends because their topic is not something I am knowledgeable about or just not interested in. But I also have those that have requested a friendship that never respond to any of my posts. I tend to delete these people because they don't return the friendship. If you ask me to be a friend I will now look at your posts and discussion to decide if I am in sync with you. I am not going to waste your time or my time if the subject matter doesn't appeal to me.

Although I like feedbacks, I simply move on when a posting is not responded to. However, I do always check on my responses and questions for feedbacks. But then, why get into a discussion if you do not want feedbacks or are afraid of whatever response you may get? I love to talk and reason, and expect corrections and/or other viewpoints.

I don't expect my myLot friends to reply to all my posts, but to some of them. I can't reply to all of theirs, but I do go there first and try to respond to some. I believe this is what myLot friends should do. I believe the secret is in choosing your myLot friends. I'm afraid I've just had to delete some of mine. I am on a download limit each month, and my limit is about up with another week to go. Checking on "discussions my friends have started" requires opening too many pages when you have a number of friends, so I have to be selective.

I just wait until they respond to my request. And if not I try to find and make other friends.

I love to respond to my friends post but I don't get any response from you, does it mean that my posts are unworthy of your responses???????????

mylot is spreding very fast n daily there r lots of topic which r posted but to respond to all is impossible but to respond to quality topics in my view i think is the best option one should adopt...which will also helps in sharing lots of knowledge so try to post a quality topic which can be responded by every individual...

I agree with you. I check to see what my friends have posted and most of them are on alert. But I usually only apply on the posts that I am interested in. I think that's fair to everyone.

I have a diff mind than my friends.

I think it's ok, coz we all are different and have various interests, likes, dislikes, etc...as far as possible I read my intterests and respond what I choose to respond.

That is OK with me if my friends don't respond to my topic. I have soo many friends over 1,000 I think now. If I expect them to respond to my own, I think I should have at least 100 responses. I do not want to pressure them to respond mine as much as I don't want to be pressured to respond theirs. I think we need to respect each person's choice.

It doesn't bother me if my friends don't answer my posts. I just think maybe it just doesn't interest them at the moment. I like to respond to all my friends's posts.

I have replied to some of the posts made my my friends. But how do I know when they start any new discussions. Do I have to deliberatly go to their profiles to chekc if they have made any posts?? I havnt received any alert of message that my friend has started a new discussion. I did find one emil saying so, But I dont check mails while on mylot. How do I know?? Can somebody tell??

I dont push or demand my mylot friends to posts on my discussions,but i would appreciate it if they did..Maybe sometimes i start a discussion that they think they cant share anything so i should accept that.but i always check the discussions my friends make and if it interests me i respond.

Even if i wanted it would be impossible for me to reply ALL the posts my friends post...i try to be selective but obviously i answer as many as i can depending on the time available...i make a bigger effort on friends than on other people which i think it's normal. I think that what matters is that you have a good attittude towards your friends in terms of rating and posting, but if you don't do it all the time it's not that bad anyway.

I am like you. I dont respond to all my friends posts. I prefer to share a discusion with a topic I am interested in. Its not always easy responding to all my friends posts. I think friends should also understand that you can't always respond especially when the topic is something you have no knowledge of. Enjoy & Keep Posting