can U marry with your best friend?

If you love your best friend - If you love your best friend
what should you can do?

I love my best friend but I can tell her
but I think she know how much I feel with her

but I fear to lost her
@bcc23488 (883)
Thailand
January 22, 2007 9:07pm CST
If you love your best friend what should you can do?I love my best friend but I can tell her but I think she know how much I feel with her but I fear to lost her
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24 responses
@fady83 (617)
• Egypt
25 Jan 07
i arrange that in my head and GOD willing i will do that
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@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I do think it is possible to marry your best friend. Some best friends do go on and get married while others may choose to remain best friends and nothing more than that. Does she feel the same way about you? Maybe you should wait and see if she shows signs of love for you as well before saying anything. If you think she knows, how does she react? I can understand your concern about losing her.
@carmat (2849)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
Dont just sit there and potentially watch this great relationship that could grow just be. Take the chance and tell her how you feel. My husband is my best friend.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
if we are meant to be, i will gladly accept and be married with my bestfriend. well, i loved him. i have a bestfriend whom i loved, but i guess we are not meant to be.
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@classy56 (2880)
• United States
25 Jan 07
i am takeing my time to answer you question,an please dont responed to you copy an pasteing response .it not vey nice, when someone is giveing you their time an you dont really care what they say..but anyway.tell her how you feel an she may feel the same way about you but you will never know unless you confess frist.im sure you wont lose her she a freind no matter what.
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• India
25 Jan 07
yes ofcouse i m going to be marry nearly my best freind.
@katyzzz (2897)
• Australia
25 Jan 07
The person you love should be your best friend
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@sexyguy (78)
• India
23 Jan 07
Yes u can marry ur best friend if you know each other very well.
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I think it is a good idea to marry your bestfriend since you are already close enough. I think that could bring people even closer than ever.
• United Arab Emirates
23 Jan 07
well hmm i dont think so depends i mean i dono i never thought abt him in that way...man i dont wana think in that way hehe
@alecs76 (657)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
tell her what you really feel about her. only she knows what she really feel about you. be prepared of what she may think or say. at least you've tried. i'm hoping to marry my best friend soon. i'll let you know if that will happen. =)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 07
It's OK to love her, love is one thing that every human in the world can't control. If you love her, I think it's natural. Cause those feelings grow from inside you. Trust me, if she's your bestfriend..she will know if you have such a feeling like that. And it's your responsibilty to told her about your feelings. This is responsibilty for yourself so there will no regret in the future and responsibilty to her too. Who knows that maybe she kept the same feelings like you. Don't ever fear to lost her. Cause if she's your best friend, she don't want to loose you too. Go, get her Tiger!:)
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@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
23 Jan 07
Yes I understand and yes I beieve that you can marry your best friend as a lot of relationship start out as best friends and even when you are married we normally can say that my partner or spouse is my best friend.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
I guess you should weigh how she will feel if you propose to her. or maybe befriend her more.... and let her feel your intention by being a good friend means a lot more than you really are. You could gauge from there. I know there are lots of best friend marriages and they are quite happy with it.
@perugu (5279)
• India
23 Jan 07
hi,If i love really ,i can express love with her,who can become best wife than who understand us more.If she undestand us a friend really,she also accepts.Otherwise he is not a best friend.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
23 Jan 07
There are times that we might feel that we love our best friend. But most cases, that is not really love. You can name a friendship, love and real love as friendship. So before taking the next step, you have to think carefully whether it is really love. Can you imagine being with your friend the whole life, imagine your state after 30-40 yrs. Whether you can have that long relationship in the same house married to her forever. Give time. Time gives best answers to all our problems. IF you rush you tend to take wrong decisions. Good luck and take care.
@baysmummy (1637)
• Australia
23 Jan 07
I say as long as your best friend doesnt have a man in her already and you dont have a woman in your life then there is no harm in telling her how you feel about her! And hey if she feels the same way then thats fantastic, but you dont want to spend the rest of your life wishing you had of told her how you felt!
@Bunny2 (2102)
• Australia
23 Jan 07
Loving your best friend - Loving your best friend can turn into a lifetime of happiness.
Yes, it can happen, but you do risk losing her as a friend if she doesn't feel the same way about you. Many years ago I made a decision to tell my best friend how I felt about him. I'd fallen for him since the day we met - first week of university. We were best friends and could talk about everything. One day I told him how I felt. We still remained friends until one day a couple of months later he told me he loved me too. We have been married for 25 years (26 in March) and have three gorgeous sons. We are still very much in love. So yes, it can happen. Good luck.
• India
23 Jan 07
i am in love with my best friend itself,i proposed her she accepted too so i am lucky to find such a good girl.
@bhu143 (525)
• India
23 Jan 07
no i cant marry my best friend eventhough i love him because a friend is a different than husband there is somethings