How old is too Old??
By jen_2006
@jen_2006 (85)
United States
January 25, 2007 12:54am CST
So there is a guy I am interested in but I am leary to persue it because he is 28 and I am 20. I am also very shy and think that he may think that I am too young. Does anyone have any advice??
5 responses
@perfectstranger (727)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 07
I think there's no guy that will too old for a woman:)8 year differences it's okay. In fact, I think he can teach you/you can learn so many things from him. With his age I think he more mature to see live. It's okay to like somebody that it'snot on your age. In fact, it's recomended for woman to have a man that older from her. 8 years is not that much. But remember, you must act like a woman. Don't be too agressive:)
@jen_2006 (85)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Believe me, I am soo shy that there is no way that I will ever even ask him out. But I'm trying to figure out if I should even be interested. But thank you, bcz I don't think he's too old for me, i've date 5 years difference b4, but my friends think that it may be too much. so thx.
@mangmamani (134)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
I have always said this before in other forums. Age Does not matter. You will never know until you try. If you dont try you will be asking that same question for the rest of yourlife. Just be ready for what will be his answer. May it be good or bad just accept it with open heart.
@koerporation (367)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 07
my gf is 9 years younger than me, she even still in senior high. once i asked her what she think bout our relationship, considering i'm too old for her. she said she prefer older man than those boy who are same age with her. so we still continue our relationship
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
25 Jan 07
If you really like him, I think there's no problem with that.
Well for one, personally I prefer older guys, because I do feel that I can somewhat tend to be much mature than my age, that's why I prefer older guys so we would more likely connect on maturity level.
Then if you prefer older guys and don't really think that 8 years is that big of a gap, then there's no problem with that, go ahead. 8 yrs isn't really that big of an age gap for me, actually it's just right I think, he'll be mature enough and you'll be taken care of then you can be babied when you want to. hahah