Some say that the best way to leave someone you love is to find another.

May be or may not be . But love is not a commodity that you can find when you wish . Love is not a shirt that you can change at your will . Love is a stream that flows and flows and doesn't stop . Love is breeze that sooths you even if don't want .

The best way? Maybe not the best way but just one of the ways to forget someone is by finding another. Even if you do that you can't be healed instantly. The pain will remain with until some time... I don't think there is any best way to leave someone especially if you really love him/her. Doing so will definitely inflict so much pain and tears. Time can only heal but the scar remains...

I do not feel that this is true because if you try and find another person and still have feelings for the ex, you could have problems with your new relationship. I think before you find a new love, you have to get over the previous one first. It would not be fair to the new person in your life if you kept reflecting on your previous relationship or relationships.

maybe. almost my friends do that. whenever they are heartbroken because of someone they just find another whom they want to spend their love and time.

Definitely not! If yu do that, as if you are making that person just to ease your pain and that is not true love. The best way to leave someone you love is tell him or her frankly that you don't like tke relationship anymore even though you love him or her. You should not use someone to replace someone in your heart because you will just hurt him or her. It is not inevitable that you will soon compare each other.

It may not be the best way but it's the easiest way. If you have someone to help you leave and forget someone, your attention will get diverted to that person and it should be easy. This is especially when the new one is far more better than the previous. Of course, I cannot guarantee this. Not everything is applicable to everyone. But, with me, I think that's the case.

Well its definitly a way out. I dont agree that its the right way. Youve got to be fair to everyone involved.

No I do not think so You should not carry the baggage of a [previous bad relationship in to the new one, its better to join something and learn a new skill and feel good about yopurself before you embark on a new relationship. AS a healed person you will be able to contribute to the new relationship in a better way.

I do not know first hand, as I have not ever had to do this, but I would think not. If you want a successful relationship you need to come to it without the baggage of the relationship you are leaving behind. You never get over the unhappy loves unless you stop and clear out and sort out what was right and wrong about the relationship. Celebrate the good, let go of the bad. Fill your heart and mind with postitive things. Come with a fresh clean slate to your new love.

True...may be

Absolutely NOT....Ppl who jump from one relationship right into another drive me NUTS....you IMO need to take a break in between and re-evaluate things, take time for you and so on

The mind can mislead you if you don't exercise self control. The heart is color blind, ethnic non caring etc. The best way to leave someone is to talk about it and both of you come to the agreement to go in separate directions! There is such a thing as over thinking and so when this comes up and taking consideration of others feelings, you would talk it over with the partner. We do find ourselves in a great situation with the wrong person. It is no ones fault however it must be dealt with in an adult manner!

YES YES YES -- It's true. I've learnt it, if that's one thing i've learnt in my life. The BEST remedy to get over someone is to find someone else - it seems hard to let go at that time, but trust me its better this way.

Yes. The best way of getting over your love for someone else is by letting another person occupy the former's position. Its quick easy and the best way out...... But one thing i do know is that, true love has no better ending because true love never ends. Letting go is another way of saying "i love you"

I have to go along with the majority of the responses here. Finding someone else while you are stil WITH someone is always a bad move. And jumping into a relationship immediately following the ending of another one is also very bad advice. This is called rebounding and never ever works. If you are no longer in love with the person you are involved with, it is much kinder and smarter, to end that relationship before moving on to someone else. Then you have some time to heal and make better decisions next time around.

I disagree. I don't think finding another person to love, will erase the memory of the one you love. In fact, you'll only end up hurting that new person you found, because deep down, you'll still love the other person. I say, before engaging in another relationship, one should resolve their feelings for an old flame.

I don't think so. It's hard to leave someone whom you really love and it's also hard to forget someone you love even if you have someone on your side especially if that someone really means to you and had great memories even bad memories.

I disagree with it.. The best way to leave somebody is to state the reason why u are living.. Finding another is cheating.

I guess that this question can work in both ways. It could either aid in the getting over someone process or it could make you miss the one that you still love that much more!

To me, through love does not have a good or better ending because through love does not end. Letting go is the best way of saying "I LOVE YOU" But it shoudn't be for another woman at that moment.